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Originally posted by: tantal

I can understand Minnie's sense of wariness and lack of confidence in her relationship with HS after the CD episode but how does one explain HS's lack of communication and interaction with Minnie after he apologized to her? It's almost he is showing an uncaring, indifferent attitude towards her.. like she doesn't matter in the bigger scheme of things i.e His and Babita's evolving relationship and how to keep Babita happy.

This is something I cannot wrap my head around.

yes HS is coming across like that and i dont blame mini for it. but this was before the cd truth came. if you see after the apology HS did try to get minis grandparents to his place to maker her feel better. he allowed mickey to stay over so that mini feels its her house too (though i think it was also because HS would not turn down anyone in need and this was a guy who helped mini throughout so he was giving back in a way.) But babita dosent feel all these to be a sign that he loves mini. He should love mini the way she wants him to love. Mini was telling her friends yesterday that HS understood her and agreed to keep mickey, so its not that she is not obvious of him doing things for her. It is because he needed proof to trust her is what hits her most

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Because Mini didn't let her handle her equation with Hanuman in her own way😆

And to be honest, this silent approach by Hanuman was not really doing any good.. mini was going more and more into her shell of victimhood.. someone needed to burst for the floodgates to open

I know but I feel HS would have handled it calmly and also would have spoke to her if Babita wouldn't have interfered in his way of parenting.... The way he said aapki beti ko dhoondne ja raha hoon...and the tears he had in his eyes were painful... Why are both mother daughter are making him an outsider all of a sudden.....

Originally posted by: naq5

yes HS is coming across like that and i dont blame mini for it. but this was before the cd truth came. if you see after the apology HS did try to get minis grandparents to his place to maker her feel better. he allowed mickey to stay over so that mini feels its her house too (though i think it was also because HS would not turn down anyone in need and this was a guy who helped mini throughout so he was giving back in a way.) But babita dosent feel all these to be a sign that he loves mini. He should love mini the way she wants him to love. Mini was telling her friends yesterday that HS understood her and agreed to keep mickey, so its not that she is not obvious of him doing things for her. It is because he needed proof to trust her is what hits her most

I don't know yaar. Before the wedding HS used to seek out and yearn for Minnie's companionship. He used to relax and let himself loose while chatting with her. There was a beautiful chemistry of spontaneity and purity in their interaction and it seemed heart-felt from both sides. Nowadays I feel that he just things so as to not rock the boat with Minnie. He seems to have almost lost interest in her as a person.

I don't think he brought the Khuranas for Minnie. He did that to appease Babita's sense of guilt. Even yesterday.. the old HS would have at least talked to Mickey over the phone to find out about Minnie. Minnie's anger and tears used to affect him very deeply. Now .. he is like 'oh well.. she is old enough.. she will come back when she feels like'.

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Originally posted by: porankisrilata

I know but I feel HS would have handled it calmly and also would have spoke to her if Babita wouldn't have interfered in his way of parenting.... The way he said aapki beti ko dhoondne ja raha hoon...and the tears he had in his eyes were painful... Why are both mother daughter are making him an outsider all of a sudden.....

On the contrary.. I think this provocation will make Hanuman assert his rights.. he has been passive for way too long.. he needs to take an assertive and if Babita's words make him do that, great

Thing is, he wasn't handling.. I think Babita gave plenty of time to Hanuman and Mini to sort their issues.. but they both chose to remain quiet

HS would not have handled it. The way he is going these dats he wouldn't have said much..

Hanuman waited long enough.. now was the time for action

From where Babita sees it, Mini is going on a wrong path.. wouldn't a mother expect a father to take the lead of the kid is going wrong? I don't think Babita made hik an outsider.. actually she gave him a chance to truly be a father

And ye teeno lurkeinge apne exams mein.. they are focusing on practically everything apart from studying.. nalaik

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

On the contrary.. I think this provocation will make Hanuman assert his rights.. he has been passive for way too long.. he needs to take an assertive and if Babita's words make him do that, great

Thing is, he wasn't handling.. I think Babita gave plenty of time to Hanuman and Mini to sort their issues.. but they both chose to remain quiet

HS would not have handled it. The way he is going these dats he wouldn't have said much..

Hanuman waited long enough.. now was the time for action

From where Babita sees it, Mini is going on a wrong path.. wouldn't a mother expect a father to take the lead of the kid is going wrong? I don't think Babita made hik an outsider.. actually she gave him a chance to truly be a father

How do you give rights to being a father to a man who literally 2 minutes back said that he couldn't become a dad to Minnie and he had claimed to being her dad only to gain babita's trust? Why would a mother want a person who is not even sure of his own feelings regarding his step daughter to take the reins in a conflict situation. THings will only get uglier and more convoluted between HS and Minnie since both of them are not in their right frames of mind to evaluate and respond to the situation in a mature and reasonable manner. Wouldn't Babita have been the best person to try and talk with Minnie (when things had calmed down) to find a resolution to this impasse.

Originally posted by: tantal

How do you give rights to being a father to a man who literally 2 minutes back said that he couldn't become a dad to Minnie and he had claimed to being her dad only to gain babita's trust? Why would a mother want a person who is not even sure of his own feelings regarding his step daughter to take the reins in a conflict situation. THings will only get uglier and more convoluted between HS and Minnie since both of them are not in their right frames of mind to evaluate and respond to the situation in a mature and reasonable manner. Wouldn't Babita have been the best person to try and talk with Minnie (when things had calmed down) to find a resolution to this impasse.

Babita would never be the right person to talk to Mini about anything.. because if you have noticed, Mini is actually quite dismissive of Babita's opinions.. in Mini's mind, Babita is always wrong and it is upto her to show the right path to Babita..

I meant unknowingly gave him the chance not intentionally

Originally posted by: naq5

yes HS is coming across like that and i dont blame mini for it. but this was before the cd truth came. if you see after the apology HS did try to get minis grandparents to his place to maker her feel better. he allowed mickey to stay over so that mini feels its her house too (though i think it was also because HS would not turn down anyone in need and this was a guy who helped mini throughout so he was giving back in a way.) But babita dosent feel all these to be a sign that he loves mini. He should love mini the way she wants him to love. Mini was telling her friends yesterday that HS understood her and agreed to keep mickey, so its not that she is not obvious of him doing things for her. It is because he needed proof to trust her is what hits her most

Ha Ha thats the funny thing that Babita things just by freaking out that where is Minni and roaming around to look for her makes him a good father...but she is not understandomg that every one have their own way of parenting.... She will now understand but the damage will be done again....

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

On the contrary.. I think this provocation will make Hanuman assert his rights.. he has been passive for way too long.. he needs to take an assertive and if Babita's words make him do that, great

Thing is, he wasn't handling.. I think Babita gave plenty of time to Hanuman and Mini to sort their issues.. but they both chose to remain quiet

HS would not have handled it. The way he is going these dats he wouldn't have said much..

Hanuman waited long enough.. now was the time for action

From where Babita sees it, Mini is going on a wrong path.. wouldn't a mother expect a father to take the lead of the kid is going wrong? I don't think Babita made hik an outsider.. actually she gave him a chance to truly be a father

But doubting his way of parenting is also. Wrong right... She said he is not doing any koshish...

What don't he do... He made everything to feel that the haveli is Minni house too... She also can get her fends and loved ones there that assurance he gave her.... If Babita wouldn't have said all that he would. Have spoke to Minni calmly....that what is the real thing that Babita always does this she wanted him. React the same. Way she does so that Minni will see how concerned he is about her but she is not understandimg that hannie have their own equation and their way to sort out things between them...she needs to be calm regarding this....

Yes she wanted Hannie to be father daughter but koi rishta thopne se nahi bamta.... Right now their minds are totally different...

Minni wants him as her father and HS wants her as his daughter but they think that the other person won't think the same. Way and the are shutting themselves....

Originally posted by: tantal

How do you give rights to being a father to a man who literally 2 minutes back said that he couldn't become a dad to Minnie and he had claimed to being her dad only to gain babita's trust? Why would a mother want a person who is not even sure of his own feelings regarding his step daughter to take the reins in a conflict situation. THings will only get uglier and more convoluted between HS and Minnie since both of them are not in their right frames of mind to evaluate and respond to the situation in a mature and reasonable manner. Wouldn't Babita have been the best person to try and talk with Minnie (when things had calmed down) to find a resolution to this impasse.

HS did claimed her as his daughter just for one context but the rest of the time he never did anything for minni to impress Babita it was only Minni... And yes somewhere both HS and Minni thought Teju can be father daughter in true sense but the CD spoiled everything...

Actually Babita would have left Minni and HS to deal with it their own way because Babita will never understand what's the problem between them... Instead of understanding she will worsen the situation more and Minni won't ready to listen to her... She always need her hanuman uncle for that....

Babita ne bhi dekho baat pakda ro bhi kounsa...why do she always goes in a negative way first them she understands.....