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Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

The photography course. That too I wouldn't take it as a sacrifice exactly. They didn't have any sort of funds for expensive education and Babita wouldn't have got a loan too.

Jo bhi hai, be a sport and own it up girl. And now that you feel it then go ahead and amend it! Kisne roka hai?

Exactly. Okay, she couldn't go to her dream college, but it's not like it's the end of the world. She can apply again and this time if she gets accepted, she should take the chance and go for it.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

somewhere mini too was trying to mother babes. She cannot put the whole blame on others. She told babes you cannot put blame on others for your woes and now she is contradicting herself.

Agreed. Minnie needs to take responsibility for her actions as well but I'm letting today go because it is the first time that she has truly cried for herself. She actually voiced out all the things she had to miss out on and had to give up. At least she's acknowledging herself now and will start taking active steps to healing and creating a life for herself.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Yeah she jumped to point no. 2 and she did ask him about why he claimed Mini to be his daughter in the puja, and he said to reassure Babita and for her happiness. Babita didn’t force him to say that. Why would he say that now?

Writers are just contradicting themselves. Pehle they made HS say to Mini “tu first hai” and now he’s claiming to Babita that he did that just for Babita. Matlab kehna kya chahte ho? 🤔

Originally posted by: najma123

Yeah, but posing a condition such as that, saying if you abide by my rules, you can be my daughter, otherwise not, is not what parenting is about. He can teach her lessons as a father or as an uncle or as a step dad, but those lessons cannot be prerequisite for her to become his daughter.

Agreed.

But given how tricky their current situation is, I'm not sure if his disciplinary action will be seen in a positive light by Minnie.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Agreed.

But given how tricky their current situation is, I'm not sure if his disciplinary action will be seen in a positive light by Minnie.

Yes, as in precap, the look mini gave to HS was something... it’s going to be hard for HS.

Mini is barely 18.. she has plenty of time to fulfill her dreams and career.. as I said, she thinks too much of her *sacrifices* and thus the burden feels more..

Woh sacrifice hi kia jiska bojh aap apne uper feel karo.. that's the difference between sacrifice and favor..

And Babita does not even know about this sacrifice.. although agar pata hota tou it would probably have ended in one more thappad😆

Originally posted by: Roopb

Yes, as in precap, the look mini gave to HS was something... it’s going to be hard for HS.

Originally posted by: naq5

exactly what i feel too.

he dint trust her untill he got proof. like Arre yaar said he was too involved with babita and his hormones

And yes mini does think that he understands her better trusts her better, but in precap tomorrow he is behaving in the same way like babita giving ultimatums. now mini is an adult. how far are you going to clip her independence by telling she has to listen to all what babita says otherwise she cannot live in the house. She dosent earn on her own yet and is dependent on them financially. You cannot stifle a child like that. And secondly some children would take to talking like that and some will not. I dont think talking to mini like that helps. HS has first hand experience that explaining to her calmly helps better. The thing about parenting is that each child is different and needs to be treated differently. Mini already feels her mother dosent understand her if HS also dosent trust her then where does she go. Tomorrow if babita asks her to leave her friends and mini has to listen to her to stay in the house is it fair to her.

Though his words were ill chosen, his point about not entertaining that kind of attitude and behavior in the house is correct. Besides, he had told her this in the past but he really didn't have the authority to follow up on it, except for evicting them. Now, though he has gotten that authority, I don't think he has the confidence to go through with it. After all, how can he kick out his jigad ka thukda?

It's not fair to put these kind of conditions on the child, but you have to take a look at what is being asked her. Babita doesn't want a guy to stay over at the house, and HS doesn't want Minnie to storm off angrily, nor have heated arguments with her mom anymore. These requests aren't unreasonable. If Minnie thinks by asking this of her, they've asked the world from her... then I don't know what to say about her.

Originally posted by: kriya_12

offcourse the whole grand wedding thing was futile .

this should hv been hanita's thing , them truly understanding what they r getting into , realizing from their experiences & what truly matter to them .

This would have been ideal but alas, the CVs had to make things realistic. 🤔

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

in most of the asian countries women have always been made to feel guilty for falling in love. No matter what the age is. I am in my early 40's. And i have seen how women have been treated for falling in love. You were made to feel as if you have commited a grave crime.

Which is horrible to be honest. I'm in my early twenties to think that I should be ashamed of ever falling in love... just no. I can't stand by that. It's my feelings, and I should have the right to feel them freely and without any sort of guilt whatsoever.