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I don't get what HS said about announcing himself as her father just to reassure Babita.

He wasn't insincere towards Minnie, he did mean it.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

The day she says this, I will bake a cake. 😂

🤣 Not in this season.

Hanuman scolds Mini.. then Mini gets jalebi and smile-cries some more while Babita and Hanuman get along with their married life?

Do Babita Mini patch up? Do Hanuman Mini patch up? And I mean actual patch up not the superficial ones they have been feeding us lately.. I am curious how the feather and subsequent romance fits in

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Ha Ha even I got this in mind when read about precap... Some fathers do say this all. To their kids but the are not questioned as the related to blood but if HS said its a big issue as he is a step father.... Minni have to take this as well...why is she expecting HS to be soft towards her always.....

From the pre-cap it looked like this was the point HS was trying to make to both of them. What more does he have to do to prove his love?

Also, when he said father na ban paaya, it didn't sound like it was because he himself couldn't but because of the fact that mother and daughter have some strange expectations from him. Neither know what kind of father Minnie wants to have but expect HS to conform to goodness knows what image. That's why he walked off with that sarcastic comment to Babita, and in the precap his dialogue about father being the head of the household. Gosh I've been wanting to see him do this, take on this role of head of the family, and take charge in such a way but it seems difficult to digest right now because the whole damn thing is messed up.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I wasn't annoyed with Babita. She is still in denial but it was clear that she knew where HS was coming from. She just didn't acknowledge it in front of him, but she will as you know from the segments. She tried to focus on the fact that HS couldn't be Mini's father like she wanted him to be. That is her fears and insecurities coming out again. I am positive she will understand where HS is coming from.

@bold I think this is the whole point - mother-daughter both expect him to conform to some idea they have, and because he's not like that (thank goodness!), they've disqualified him.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

i think he was fed up with too much expectations and questioning eyes of everyone about him as a father. But he does love mini and thats the truth

That's the expectation I had. The look in his eyes as he stormed out was just painful to watch. He's fed up and I don't blame him.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

exactly. And both mini babes expect softness from hs. And hamesha hs ka harshness inko line pe lata hai😆

yo baat phinal hai

nice to see him giving both of them a much-needed dose

Posting From another thread

Babita’s emotional progression needs to happen now. I hope this happens now. I truly hope so. Babita needs to stop feeling guilty of anything... Of desiring HS, of marrying for love, of prioritizing HS etc etc. Lets actually see Babita’s emotional growth and her healing HS from his childhood trauma. Please cvs 🙏

I am glad Mini opened up about her feeling to her friends too. This was much needed. Also, let Babita and Mini please have a heart to heart conversation with each other so they understand boundaries and expectations of each other. This ma-beti need to communicate more than ever now, without HS, without Khuranas, like they used to before.

As for HS, I am glad he’s voicing out his feelings openly. I am glad he’s getting mad at Babita for hurting him and not hiding behind “is ghar mein koi nahi royega”.

As for Hannie, I have no idea where this is going. They clearly love each other a lot, but maybe need more efforts from each side to finally accept each other as Father-Daughter.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

Today i want to reveal something which i have not shared with anyone until now.

I lost my hubby six years back. Many of my wellwishers told me to think abt remarriage. And my reply till today is that the person has to love my son more than me. Today i could relate myself to the episode because though i am quiet a open minded person and take my own decisions, but the fear of being called a bad mother has always been somewhere in my mind and has stopped me from finding my happiness. I am not ashamed today to accept this. But i do love my son more than myself. But i feel everone is scared of being judged and a single mom is scared more. Somewhere the society is responsible for this.

I totally understand how you feel. Thanks for talking about this.

Things need time and patience and a willingness to work, which is what Minnie was referring to but HS was also trying to get across. Bonds don't form overnight.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

but he was right when he said she never called him bhaisaab😆

One of his all-time best lines. 😆