A Step Too Far - Aa Jao Saarey - Page 11

Wow so. It means that a kid saying her parents that he don't have control of ur feelings that's why u ended up marrying each other is nothing wrong..did she even realize what she said it.... What on earth makes it right yaar...

I kno Babita was wrong in doubting Minni like meeta... But what Minni said today about her parents was horrible...

And worst part is her so called dadu beeji will get jalebi for her as she have done a get job today... These ppl are advising babita about parenting.... Lol....

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Thats exactly the whole point.. When Mini gets a boyfriend, things will likely change.. What if Preet starts to get insecure in a while? Mini might not have a boyfriend but Micky does have a GF.. yes.. She does not seem to mind it now but she might eventually and this is what is worrying Babita

And untrue.. Her worry was before Kammo when Mini brought Micky home to stay and she saw their closeness.. Kammo merely aggravated the situation but it was not because of Kammo that the idea came to ger mind

Exactly. WORD.

Today when Mini was hugging him and Preet came in from the other side. I wouldn't believe that in real life someone would be that confident with so many boundaries being blurry and undefined between all three.

Originally posted by: najma123

Yeah, so let Mini handle that if things come to that. Relationships at this age are less permanent than friendships, which are temporary too. Idk I find her overreacting unnecessarily. He's her best friend. Not some nathu gaira friend. 😆

Thats not really how most parents approach things.. they usually try to stop their kids from making a blunder if they think they are going to.. Thats what parents do.. They might not be right all the time but thats what they do

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Wow so. It means that a kid saying her parents that he don't have control of ur feelings that's why u ended up marrying each other is nothing wrong..did she even realize what she said it.... What on earth makes it right yaar...

I kno Babita was wrong in doubting Minni like meeta... But what Minni said today about her parents was horrible...

And worst part is her so called dadu beeji will get jalebi for her as she have done a get job today... These ppl are advising babita about parenting.... Lol....

LMAO EXACTLY.

Daadu Beeji giving parenting tips.

Gimme a break! Throwback anyone?🤣🤣

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't think Minnie has ever considered Babita to be her mother, at least not in the typical sense of the word. She has always maintained a friendly relationship with her and if anyone has been the mother, then it's been Minnie, as weird as that is. 😕

I can totally understand Minnie wanting to get away. I've been in that spot and when my anger rises through the roof, I've also wanted to get away and just be on my own; mostly so that I can calm down and sort my thoughts out. It's a different matter that I actually never left, but she did. 🤔 Also, her fight was between her and Babes. It's not fair to have other family members to worry about her whereabouts or her safety.

LOLL, I got that sense long ago too, especially when HS told her that she needs to change her behavior when it came to her anger tantrums. As it is, no matter what HS says these days, she doesn't like toh iska ghussa kya cheez hai. And I don't like how this expectation to change has been put mainly on Babita. Minnie has to change as well. She can't carry on with this I'm center of the universe attitude. It won't work in the real world.

I don't have any energy left to vent out anymore.

But agree totally. Every word every emotion.

Bass I'm done.

GURRRRRRWATIIII🤗🤗🤗

MMP friendship is actually pretty dysfunctional😆 Aisa kahan hota hai?😆

Originally posted by: najma123

They do! Depends on the kids also. Mini hasn't really lied to her parents about anything, doesn't sneak out, doesn't have friends her parents don't know about. And moreover, as a mother Babita needs to know that her daughter has seen her own family fall apart because if infidelity and no way would she be a cause of that for anyone. Once bitten, twice shy. You don't do what others do to you unless of course you are vindictive or sadistic. And parents do trust their children. Children like Mini. It's rarely shown on TV coz TV is overdramatic but here too except her no one has a doubt.

Exactly we forget it depends on kid to kid. Mini has never lied and her friends are open in front of her. If babita had a daughter like preet who has a habit of falling for every other guy i would have understood her but mini is different. And how babita has behaved can have lasting impressions on a person like mini who has been through so much that she has shut out romantic relations from her life. Babita should be happy that mini is atleast trusting a guy to be her friend and not totally shutting guys out. I wonder how people see that mini is a villain because she got her mother worried because she was extremely upset about how her mother called her the other woman and wanted to be alone but fail to see how the girl was literally called characterless.

But here its not about babitas trust its about log kya kahenge, spcly kammo kya kahegi

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Exactly. WORD.

Today when Mini was hugging him and Preet came in from the other side. I wouldn't believe that in real life someone would be that confident with so many boundaries being blurry and undefined between all three.

No in real. Life nobody does like preet... Actually there is movie in Telugu oh my friend that shows how in real life ppl sees when one guy and girl are best friends... U know being beat friend is not wrong ladka ladki dost ho sakte hai but there's is limit for that too... That's what Babita wants to say but as usual madam got carried away and said all shit....

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Thats not really how most parents approach things.. they usually try to stop their kids from making a blunder if they think they are going to.. Thats what parents do.. They might not be right all the time but thats what they do

Originally posted by: najma123

Congratulations in advance for the colour change!

No, I personally believe Babita is totally at fault here. Mini and Mickey are friends, they can be best friends. Teenagers call each other a lot of shit best friends for life, soulmates, soulsisters and a lot of shit. She can't take Kammo seriously. Literally, Kammo and Khatri are the ONLY people bothered with these people's lives. And logon Ka kaam hai kehna. I personally felt that Babita should have shut Kammo up, the way Preet did today.

In addition what I feel bad about is, she couldn't handle the mess she created, considering she's brought her daughter up for years and called HS during his duty. I don't like her calling and disturbing when he's on duty man. My Dad was watching this on Friday, and he was also of the opinion, that she should trust her daughter. Trusting your kids is extremely important. Parents need to trust their kids. And Mini's got a sour taste about romantic relationships because of what happened to her mother, and despite the mother moving on, Mini hasn't moved on from that heartbreak to believe relationships can be happy. As a mother, she needs to get shit straight in life.

Thanks!

I don't think Babita is solely to blame though. She may not understand this whole soulmate concept and it's not her fault. Minnie was saying that this is reality, when really it's not. Not everyone follow her line of thought when it comes to friendship. The value we put in words are totally different to that of the older generations. For example, saying that someone is a best friend for life doesn't mean it's true. People grow up, or their dosti falls apart and those claims of being BFFs are no longer true. Babita was correct when she mentioned that soulmates are generally used in a romantic context. For it to be applied platonically is not a common thing.

That being said, I also didn't agree with her calling up HS whilst he was on duty for this. He's a police officer. He deals with life and death. More grave matters need his attention than whatever kalesh these two women create behind his back.

Trust is gone from everyone's side. To various extents, neither HS or Babita trust Minnie and Minnie too, no longer trusts either of them with her problems. It's a shame this is what they've all come down to now.