A Step Too Far - Aa Jao Saarey - Page 10

Originally posted by: najma123

Maybe. But, I still support her coz I always call parents out for not being supportive. 😆 A lot of parents need to be more supportive, in fact they need to learn from others too. So Babita is wrong, for me. They can be on different pages and shit, doesn't mean she questions her based on Kammo's accusations. When Naeem Bi told her to chill and shit, and a woman that old, understands and when HS didn't take their midnight conversations seriously, idk why she has to poke her nose. Guys and girls sitting and talking at midnight isn't all that wrong. People do that! And they are such close friends. Guy best friends rock. 😆

My problem is that Babita should be supportive, she should be understanding blah blah. What about Mini? What about her questioning her father and mother's relationship? Is that okay?

Naj I'm in a nasty mood today and I don't even wanna argue with you. But no. I can't feel Mini here. And Babita cannot be blamed at all.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Untrue actually.. A lot of kids actually end up venturing on the same path that their parents too unwillingly but they do.. It is quite common.. Let us take a real life example.. Arjun Kapoor is rumored to be the reason that Malaika Arbaz marriage broke off.. you see the connection?

Parents should trust their kids.. Indeed.. But at the same time, they shouldn't have a blind trust.. Mini Micky do take things a bit far.. They are more close than Micky Preet which actually would be worrisome for all three concerned in the future.. for instance, when Mini gets a boyfriend, do you think he would like if the girl he loves calls someone else her soulmate? Would any guy like to hear that?

Mini actually has snuck out.. Remember the balcony scene? Micky has come to Mini's place multiple times at odd hours.. He could have his reasons.. He sure does not have any malicious intentions but he has.. and that should worry the mother of any teenage daughter

When Mini does get a boyfriend, things would change. Until then, it's perfectly alright. When best friends get boyfriends or girlfriends, things change. And people adapt themselves to the changes with time. And if she does get a boyfriend, he'd have to be acquainted with her first and by the time that dude does become her boyfriend he'd know about her friendships and he'd be close to her enough for her to mould her equations with others and him!

Don't remember the balcony scene. But her worry did not really stem from those things. Her overreaction as shown later was mainly due to what Kammo said, directly hitting her own ego and her own conscience. If she did have worries she could have sorted them out with Mini later, told her to refrain from unnecessarily poking her nose between Mickey and Preet, let them be. Give them the space, be friendly but give them space. Yeh toh ilzaam pe utar aayi saying shit like do you want to me another Meeta!

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Some things I felt while watching and I have to get this out of my head :

1. Parents do remove their frustration on kids. This doesn't make Babita bad or Mini a bechaari. Its but natural, everyone's human and everyone errs. But important thing is realizing the mistake. Mini should feel lucky that she uttered whatever she said about Babita HS, got slapped and yet had a final word over it and got away with it. Yet Babita realizes that she was wrong and is ready to apologize. I don't think this would happen in real life.

2. Mini stopping communication and torturing Babita like this is so wrong! This is crazy. You're out of the city in a random auto and you don't even pick up your mom's call after a fight? WHAT IN THE NAME OF EARTH!

3. Preet's reply to Kammo - SUPER. Loving this Preet! Bravo!

4. Babita again moving round in circles with Khuranas. I cant relate to this aspect anymore, damn she's oscillated so much about this one topic!

5. Precap- no words. It's insanely criminal to write plots in this manner. How HURT was HS. Why the f**k is Mini thinking about this again now? Have they all forgotten what happened in the GP? Okay, I'm done. Just done.

1. This is the important thing. Fights happen between parents and children but as long as they both realize and accept their mistakes, it's fine. But here only Babita is shown being guilty for what happened while Minnie will be busy victimizing herself. I don't blame her for wanting some time to herself but it's the self-pitying that I can't stand.
   
   
2. No matter how angry you are, you don't put your parents through something like that. What does she expect will happen when she comes home? Dadu, Beeji are going to shower her with love and wash away her actions, but she needs to know that this type of behavior isn't right.
   
   
3. I like that Preet is standing up to people, but she better apply this courage to her own mother too.
   
   
4. What do you mean by she's moving around in circles?
   
   
5. Loll, the precap is just some next level of hell that I really don't want to visit.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

My problem is that Babita should be supportive, she should be understanding blah blah. What about Mini? What about her questioning her father and mother's relationship? Is that okay?

Naj I'm in a nasty mood today and I don't even wanna argue with you. But no. I can't feel Mini here. And Babita cannot be blamed at all.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

HOW DID SHE EVEN MANAGE to get away with something like that? Babita couldn't control her feelings? WHAT ON EARTH DOES THAT EVEN MEAN.

😡😡

Lagta hai dono maa beti ke zubaan pe kammo bas gayi....

How can she say that to her mother yaar.... She is just a kid... Do the kids nowadays are so mature that the can question like this....

Originally posted by: najma123

I am not going to talk about celebrities coz well the list is endless.

When Mini does get a boyfriend, things would change. Until then, it's perfectly alright. When best friends get boyfriends or girlfriends, things change. And people adapt themselves to the changes with time. And if she does get a boyfriend, he'd have to be acquainted with her first and by the time that dude does become her boyfriend he'd know about her friendships and he'd be close to her enough for her to mould her equations with others and him!

Don't remember the balcony scene. But her worry did not really stem from those things. Her overreaction as shown later was mainly due to what Kammo said, directly hitting her own ego and her own conscience. If she did have worries she could have sorted them out with Mini later, told her to refrain from unnecessarily poking her nose between Mickey and Preet, let them be. Give them the space, be friendly but give them space. Yeh toh ilzaam pe utar aayi saying shit like do you want to me another Meeta!

Thats exactly the whole point.. When Mini gets a boyfriend, things will likely change.. What if Preet starts to get insecure in a while? Mini might not have a boyfriend but Micky does have a GF.. yes.. She does not seem to mind it now but she might eventually and this is what is worrying Babita

And untrue.. Her worry was before Kammo when Mini brought Micky home to stay and she saw their closeness.. Kammo merely aggravated the situation but it was not because of Kammo that the idea came to ger mind

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

1. This is the important thing. Fights happen between parents and children but as long as they both realize and accept their mistakes, it's fine. But here only Babita is shown being guilty for what happened while Minnie will be busy victimizing herself. I don't blame her for wanting some time to herself but it's the self-pitying that I can't stand.
   
   
2. No matter how angry you are, you don't put your parents through something like that. What does she expect will happen when she comes home? Dadu, Beeji are going to shower her with love and wash away her actions, but she needs to know that this type of behavior isn't right.
   
   
3. I like that Preet is standing up to people, but she better apply this courage to her own mother too.
   
   
4. What do you mean by she's moving around in circles?
   
   
5. Loll, the precap is just some next level of hell that I really don't want to visit.

Matlab one day she says she's been suffocated in their house for 17 yrs. Other day she says she was sorry And wanted to do their seva. Third say she's like get out of here and don't come in between us. She also said that they never ask for Mini.

Basically this ain't oscillation. This only proves that she has been forced into accepting them cause Mini attacked her ego by labeling her as selfish. Just to prove her wrong, she went and brought them in. It's coming off as this.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

So? Isn't it her responsibility to inform the adults about her whereabouts so that they don't get worried? That too, given the situation in which she left? She needs to learn how to take some responsibility for her own actions too. She can't go around doing whatever she wants and expect others to pander towards her every need.

If HS scolds her for making Babita worried, then he's correct to do so. Minnie was wrong to make her worry to this extent. She's also wrong in saying those harsh words and building onto Babita's guilt and stress. Literally every single aspect of Babita's life is now being tinged with guilt. How is she supposed to live a life like this? If this carries forward, she runs the danger of repressing herself to the point that she has a complete shut down. Simply acting on other people's desires and refusing to express what she wants for herself. This is not healthy behavior and I truly worry for her.

Babita was also wrong in behaving like this with mini. just bacause she is a mother its ok with her. Take it as if HS had accused mini like this he would have had it from babita.

well babita should learn to not take other random people words seriously and react like this. She herself feels guilty about what everyone says. if she cant stand up for herself and drag others in her guilt of what others say then how is it fair to others

today she has not trusted mini at kammos words

tomorrow she is accusing HS because of kammos words

the truth is that babita wouldnt have behaved this way with mini if kamko hadnt taunted her nor tomorrow questioned hs love for mini if kammo hadnt said those words about HS on sangeet

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Exactly. Kids do feel this way in teenage. Main right baaki sab wrong. But here it'll be shown the other way round. That Babita will accept her fault and Apologize but Mini ko kuch bola toh HS sautela baap, Babita self absorbed Maa aur poori duniya kharaab. Sirf Mini hi ek bechaari.

Sometimes I feel that HS kya, Mini ne Babita ko bhi mother ki rights nahi di. When Babita today said that it's okay, Maa hai. Maara thappad. But Mini ne kya kiya? Ghar se chali gayi. Demanding privacy and cutting off communication. That's not how you behave. But jab koi yeh point karega toh oh my lord she's so alone in this world!

I had this inkling long ago, that when they'd be her parents in real sense, Mini won't like it. She doesn't like to hear things that contradict her opinions. Sirf Babita should have that power to understand everyone's perspectives and ignore log kya kahenge.

I don't think Minnie has ever considered Babita to be her mother, at least not in the typical sense of the word. She has always maintained a friendly relationship with her and if anyone has been the mother, then it's been Minnie, as weird as that is. 😕

I can totally understand Minnie wanting to get away. I've been in that spot and when my anger rises through the roof, I've also wanted to get away and just be on my own; mostly so that I can calm down and sort my thoughts out. It's a different matter that I actually never left, but she did. 🤔 Also, her fight was between her and Babes. It's not fair to have other family members to worry about her whereabouts or her safety.

LOLL, I got that sense long ago too, especially when HS told her that she needs to change her behavior when it came to her anger tantrums. As it is, no matter what HS says these days, she doesn't like toh iska ghussa kya cheez hai. And I don't like how this expectation to change has been put mainly on Babita. Minnie has to change as well. She can't carry on with this I'm center of the universe attitude. It won't work in the real world.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Thats exactly the whole point.. When Mini gets a boyfriend, things will likely change.. What if Preet starts to get insecure in a while? Mini might not have a boyfriend but Micky does have a GF.. yes.. She does not seem to mind it now but she might eventually and this is what is worrying Babita

And untrue.. Her worry was before Kammo when Mini brought Micky home to stay and she saw their closeness.. Kammo merely aggravated the situation but it was not because of Kammo that the idea came to ger mind