Babita is OTM in HS’s love, forgets Mini’s bday - Page 4

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It is. I'm curious to know what triggered this comment from her. Because during the wedding prep and post shaadi, I haven't seen an iota of love from her side. Even from HS, it's not love that I see, but rather him constantly pleasing her so that she doesn't get upset and break things off.

Pre-Imarti Babita would have offered him the same amount of love (and I dare to say even more), as well as the emotional healing that he needs. The Babita that we have right now though... I have zero expectations from her. I don't think she will ever get to that point since she'll constantly be oscillating between HS and Minnie. In her struggle to balance both relationships, she isn't doing right by either of them.

Exactly. This may be a controversial opinion here but even from HS, I mostly see APPEASEMENT rather than actual love. Without actual emotional give and take, there isn’t any real love IMO 🤷‍♀️....it’s an arrangement.

I guess HS must have supported her in some scene so Babita is suddenly realizing the full scale of his “love” for her. Lol

And yes, pre Imarti Track Babita was quite emotionally attuned to him....it’s mostly evaporated since and only comes across as self absorbed in every phase....this isn’t even about her trying to juggle between him and Mini. On a fundamental level, they both are treating love as an appeasement exercise rather than actual emotional connectivity.

It’s quite sad to watch how this relationship just continues on a superficial path daily now. And I guess this is the new normal. Their relationship is being considered all fine now that they are married so TRP junta ke liye good enough. No more emotional nuance needed.

Minnie should be more upset with Dadu Biji not Babita. She still has an excuse to forget but Dadu Biji act as if they are the only ppl who love Minnie. They are just creating problems for the heck of it.

I am surprised Biji didn’t make laddoos for Minnie

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Hopefully Naeem Bi questions her about it.

Doesn’t look like though.

For just this once, I don’t want anyone to question her. I want her to find the tuning with him and his emotional struggles on her own.

For now, Let her bask in his love since she has been deprived of Husband’s love for a long time. And HS doesn’t mind showering all he has.

But down the road as she gets to know him more closely, she should come in terms with his needs on her own. I expect that of her.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Quite possible. It’s Babita we are talking about. 😆

@bold - Where is HS and Mini equation in between this?

Lol does anyone even care about them?

Jab writers ko Thoda free time milega toh kuch token scenes de denge HS-Mini ko. Flow mein toh koi narrative nahin hai for them now 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Doesn’t look like though.

For just this once, I don’t want anyone to question her. I want her to find the tuning with him and his emotional struggles on her own.

For now, Let her bask in his love since she has been deprived of Husband’s love for a long time. And HS doesn’t mind showering all he has.

But down the road as she gets to know him more closely, she should come in terms with his needs on her own. I expect that of her.

That would really be a miracle 😆

They have literally never shown her realizing anything without a shock or a rude awakening from someone. She seems incapable of independent self evaluation now 🤷‍♀️

I guess HS would have to have a breakdown or something in front of her for her to wake up to the fact that he also has emotional needs. Even then, I dunno if she will step up given how emotionally stunted she is 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly. This may be a controversial opinion here but even from HS, I mostly see APPEASEMENT rather than actual love. Without actual emotional give and take, there isn’t any real love IMO 🤷‍♀️....it’s an arrangement.

I guess HS must have supported her in some scene so Babita is suddenly realizing the full scale of his “love” for her. Lol

And yes, pre Imarti Track Babita was quite emotionally attuned to him....it’s mostly evaporated since and only comes across as self absorbed in every phase....this isn’t even about her trying to juggle between him and Mini. On a fundamental level, they both are treating love as an appeasement exercise rather than actual emotional connectivity.

It’s quite sad to watch how this relationship just continues on a superficial path daily now. And I guess this is the new normal. Their relationship is being considered all fine now that they are married so TRP junta ke liye good enough. No more emotional nuance needed.

I guess it's up to interpretation. Frankly speaking, I haven't seen some solid reasons as to why HS fell in love with Babita in the first place. There were some tiny things at first, like her reminding him heavily of Imarti, so I wondered if he was constantly searching for her, but that didn't happe. Then I wondered if it is because of Minnie but that doesn't seem to be entirely true since Hanita were building an equation of their own separate from her. And given the way she's behaving lately, I really can't see a reason as to why he loves her. Is it really just because of her cooking? 😕 I mean, apart from that, what is Babita giving to him willingly?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

That would really be a miracle 😆

They have literally never shown her realizing anything without a shock or a rude awakening from someone. She seems incapable of independent self evaluation now 🤷‍♀️

I guess HS would have to have a breakdown or something in front of her for her to wake up to the fact that he also has emotional needs. Even then, I dunno if she will step up given how emotionally stunted she is 🤷‍♀️

But if writers are focusing on her emancipation, then shouldn’t this be part of her journey.

Ya fir she will forever be needy and others tends to her? What’s the fun in that. 🤔

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I guess it's up to interpretation. Frankly speaking, I haven't seen some solid reasons as to why HS fell in love with Babita in the first place. There were some tiny things at first, like her reminding him heavily of Imarti, so I wondered if he was constantly searching for her, but that didn't happe. Then I wondered if it is because of Minnie but that doesn't seem to be entirely true since Hanita were building an equation of their own separate from her. And given the way she's behaving lately, I really can't see a reason as to why he loves her. Is it really just because of her cooking? 😕 I mean, apart from that, what is Babita giving to him willingly?

🤣 I guess this is supposed to prove that love is blind. Apart from the cooking, she is also giving him sex willingly. Marriage basics 😆

I also initially wondered if he fell for her cuz she reminded him of Imarti in some ways. Other times I also felt he fell for a core of courage deep inside her.

Ultimately, she gave him some sense of family I think and that’s what he fell for. Ofcourse these days that’s hardly visible🤷‍♀️😂....but now he’s fully committed so he will see it through....no matter how twisted her personality is. Lol

I just feel he’s living a mirage if he thinks he alone can be the one to shower love without expectation of emotional support for himself.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

But if writers are focusing on her emancipation, then shouldn’t this be part of her journey.

Ya fir she will forever be needy and others tends to her? What’s the fun in that. 🤔

I agree. There is no fun in that. But sadly this is where it seems to be going 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol does anyone even care about them?

Jab writers ko Thoda free time milega toh kuch token scenes de denge HS-Mini ko. Flow mein toh koi narrative nahin hai for them now 🤷‍♀️

I was watching Hospital scene between HS and Mini - my most favorite conversation of the 2.

I can’t believe from there to we are here. I don’t want a token scene. I want a fulfilling conversation. Just the two. And it shouldn’t be about Babita. It should just be about them and their equation.

HS and Mini is much loved aspect of PB. Writers can’t keep them like this. Doesn’t look so in near future but we can only hope. Kar bhi kya sakte hai except to go back and watch their scenes. 😳