Babita is OTM in HS’s love, forgets Mini’s bday - Page 3

I think that Mini needs a reality check her Babes is Married now and Yes Babita has a right to love HS and also if a Baby comes it will not be all about her. Thats life.

Yes Babita has finally fallen in love with HS and he loves her, and when the Baby comes it will not be Mini is 1st in my life, that's gone now.

No big deal arrange a party now.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol waah, kya kamaal pyar hai where one is so oblivious to the emotional state of the person they claim to be in love with 🤷‍♀️😂

Itne superficial relationship ko love ka stamp mil gaya hai. lol I guess itna hi rahega Ab.

Even I couldn't connect to what Babita was saying. It felt so hollow. And it's honestly such a shame as a Hanita fan since I wanted to see much from this relationship. 😒

Lmao, bas ab issi ki kasar baki thi 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

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Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

But that’s the thing. Babita is struggling to find a balance. Sometime Mini’s side gets heavier and sometime HS’s side.

If she is able to find the balance, show khatam ho jayega. 😆 Like HS said, puri umra nikal jati hai balance banane mein.

I guess this is Babes journey towards managing to find a balance in both her relationships. Since she never had 2 side by side. This is first time and hence she stumbles. Hopefully she reaches there before we lose the connect. 😛

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Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Even I couldn't connect to what Babita was saying. It felt so hollow. And it's honestly such a shame as a Hanita fan since I wanted to see much from this relationship. 😒

And it sounds like it’s all still so self absorbed...it’s all about how much someone loves HER rather than anything about her loving him 🤷‍♀️

I don’t know if she will ever journey to the point of offering him love either. For now, it just seems to be about her absorbing everything he gives her without offering even some level of emotional connection in return.

And yes, sadly, I also don’t feel any emotion for them as a couple right now. Ironic....considering how much I loved their scenes before the wedding. But now 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol waah, kya kamaal pyar hai where one is so oblivious to the emotional state of the person they claim to be in love with 🤷‍♀️😂

Itne superficial relationship ko love ka stamp mil gaya hai. lol I guess itna hi rahega Ab.

But she isn’t claiming that mein unhe bahot puar karti hoon ya unhe samajti hoon. Jaanti hoon. Hamara pyar yeh hai woh hai.

She is saying woh mujhe kitna chahte hai.

Which is true. HS does love her a lot and is in tune with her emotional needs. It remains to be seen if she is ever able to reach the level where she is in tune with his emotional needs.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

But she isn’t claiming that mein unhe bahot puar karti hoon ya unhe samajti hoon. Jaanti hoon. Hamara pyar yeh hai woh hai.

She is saying woh mujhe kitna chahte hai.

Which is true. HS does love her a lot and is in tune with her emotional needs. It remains to be seen if she is ever able to reach the level where she is in tune with his emotional needs.

Seems unlikely that she will ever reach that stage since HS and the story seem content with this lopsided relationship.

Waise bhi baaki time will be spent in her guilt tripping about neglecting Mini 🤷‍♀️

So that’s the sum of this family. HS loves Babita a lot and she basks in it, then guilt trips for neglecting her daughter. The end. Lol

Originally posted by: AreYaar

And it sounds like it’s all still so self absorbed...it’s all about how much someone loves HER rather than anything about her loving him 🤷‍♀️

I don’t know if she will ever journey to the point of offering him love either. For now, it just seems to be about her absorbing everything he gives her without offering even some level of emotional connection in return.

And yes, sadly, I also don’t feel any emotion for them as a couple right now. Ironic....considering how much I loved their scenes before the wedding. But now 🤷‍♀️

It is. I'm curious to know what triggered this comment from her. Because during the wedding prep and post shaadi, I haven't seen an iota of love from her side. Even from HS, it's not love that I see, but rather him constantly pleasing her so that she doesn't get upset and break things off.

Pre-Imarti Babita would have offered him the same amount of love (and I dare to say even more), as well as the emotional healing that he needs. The Babita that we have right now though... I have zero expectations from her. I don't think she will ever get to that point since she'll constantly be oscillating between HS and Minnie. In her struggle to balance both relationships, she isn't doing right by either of them.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

But she isn’t claiming that mein unhe bahot puar karti hoon ya unhe samajti hoon. Jaanti hoon. Hamara pyar yeh hai woh hai.

She is saying woh mujhe kitna chahte hai.

Which is true. HS does love her a lot and is in tune with her emotional needs. It remains to be seen if she is ever able to reach the level where she is in tune with his emotional needs.

Hopefully Naeem Bi questions her about it.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Seems unlikely that she will ever reach that stage since HS and the story seem content with this lopsided relationship.

Waise bhi baaki time will be spent in her guilt tripping about neglecting Mini 🤷‍♀️

So that’s the sum of this family. HS loves Babita a lot and she basks in it, then guilt trips for neglecting her daughter. The end. Lol

Quite possible. It’s Babita we are talking about. 😆

@bold - Where is HS and Mini equation in between this?