Grow Up! - Aa Jao Saarey - Page 10

Originally posted by: tk2015

I wanted to watch Babita and Minnie's journey and got hooked to the mother-daughter relationship they showed in the beginning. (Though I'm more invested in Hannie.) Today, I feel, they themselves butchered the very essence or premise they had began with....

I still believe that the makers can spin it around within a day or a week, but right now the issues aren't even hashed out well. Kuch bhi dikha rahe hai aaj kal.

i found babita mini very one sided. i could actually see how a weak person like babita to do to a daughter ruin her childhood in handling parents issue make her very opinionated because she had to stand up to her elders for her mother instead of mother standing up for herself and then being called disrespectful to elders. i basically watch it for mini- hs & mini & for the simple story. They had developed babitas arc quite well till imarti track that i started liking her. but after that they decided to butcher each character one by one. they have basically ruined babita- mini by making her question mini being the other woman. I personally wouldnt have forgiven easily if my mother did that to me thats a major low. And with mini running away from romantic love because of her past babita needed to handle it way better than that

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Also, how are old old generation Khuranas ok with Boy staying over and Mini - Micky being frank with each other?

I have hard time digesting that.

Like how are they so liberal? Grandparents generally are more conservative.

This. How the heck are khuranas ok with this? It makes no sense.

However I did like it when Babita stops beeji from interfering when she’s talking to Mini. Beeji shouldn’t be interfering between them anyway.

Even Preet got a sensible dialogue to say. Babita has been stuck there?!?! What happened to her understanding Mini-Mickey’s friendship in the past after they had that fight? Also she has been way more understanding of a mother and showed growth. Why the sudden change, cvs? It makes no sense.

Also, she was talking sense with NB about her fears etc. and that she trusts Mini as well. It made no sense for her to go from that to yelling at Mini at the haveli 🙄

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Also, how are old old generation Khuranas ok with Boy staying over and Mini - Micky being frank with each other?

I have hard time digesting that.

Like how are they so liberal? Grandparents generally are more conservative.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

This. How the heck are khuranas ok with this? It makes no sense.

However I did like it when Babita stops beeji from interfering when she’s talking to Mini. Beeji shouldn’t be interfering between them anyway.

Even Preet got a sensible dialogue to say. Babita has been stuck there?!?! What happened to her understanding Mini-Mickey’s friendship in the past after they had that fight? Also she has been way more understanding of a mother and showed growth. Why the sudden change, cvs? It makes no sense.

Also, she was talking sense with NB about her fears etc. and that she trusts Mini as well. It made no sense for her to go from that to yelling at Mini at the haveli 🙄

Khuranas are ok with everything Mini related.

Abhi Babita, Hanuman ka hath pakad le toh.. biji ko maryada yaad aa jayegi. 😆

And yes. To NB, Babita says I trust Mini. And in the Haveli, she blasts Mini.

This is literally jabarjasti ka issue create karvana between Maa - Beti.

I fear leap is coming.

Sorry guys this is really out of context. Pls dont be offended. After seeing all the siyappa in the forum and twitter mujhe ek meme yaad aaya hai. I dont know how many of them have watched on YT.

There is an old lady who is really pissed of with the pakistani government and she says "yeh sab milke humko pagal bana rahe hain ----🤬 ke bacche. You can guess the ------part, same is with ITV since last 15 years🤣

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Not from Mini or Babita but from a viewer point of view.

How is Micky - Mini and Hanuman - Babita relationship different?

Micky liked Mini. Had feelings for her. Mini didn’t. They are friends.

Hanuman started falling for Babita. Babita said she doesn’t want it. They were friends.

Few months later, Babes also fell for Hanuman.

Mini says she and Micky are not confused. But is there really a guarantee that she would never fall for Micky? If and when that happens, wouldn’t she end up hurting herself more in the process coz then she can’t do anything about it. Micky is Preet’s bf. If she does something about it, she ends up losing all her friends. Shouldn’t she maintain decent distance as to not mess up things for all parties involved?

I am just not able to wrap my head around this whole we are not confused about our feelings. Are bhai initially toh confuse koi nahi hota. Siyape to bad mein lag jate hai.

@ bold actually babes HS confused nhi the they were not ready to accept. babita knew she likes HS in a romantic way but she dint want to pursue it for whatever reasons. there is a difference. Mini dosent feel like that for mickey and mickey has assured her that he dosent feel for her anymore like that. So mini feels they are sure about it

i dont think mini feels romantic attraction towards mickey. mickey too has gotten over mini i guess. And mini is very happy with mickey only being her friend. And mini will think about distancing herself from mickey only IF SHE feels the romantic pull towards him. So untill then why will she think in that angle. It is very possible that she may not feel it for him anytime whether mickey preet are a thing in the future or not

And we must agree that mickey can get through mini in a way no other person can . does babes know he was the one who made mini understand reg babes HS relationship. he even understood today that mini is living in a la la land that babes understands her relation with mickey. he is much more mature than even babes in understanding mini. he is very much needed in minis life as a friend. Life partner hota to bhi thik tha but cant help it if mini dint feel in the same way like he felt and preferred only friendship

Originally posted by: naq5

@ bold exactly . the issue is how babita took- mini getting hanita into the conversation. whereas babita has herself bought it long back. as a neutral viewer i can see that when you urself are comparing others will also compare. and i dint feel the comparing to differentiate was demeaning.

what i have been saying hitting children and emotionally assassinating their character is taken so lightly.

Imarti track ruined babita and marriage track HS and mini. HS can only see babita and mini is only trying to be mahaan. She was not like this before

I hated it when Babita slapped Mini in front of Ashok and I will hate it tomorrow too. Also HS said 'yeh non-violence ka ghar hain' because 'Imarti' would never allow it. Looks like Babita is changing that. Now he says 'No woman will cry in the haveli'. Babita's tears flow like a tap and he always falls for it. That haveli was peaceful before. Now it is chaotic.

I don't think any parent will talk to the child that way. I would have been scarred for life if my mother spoke to me that way especially comparing Mini to Meeta. Parents need to discipline and Babita doesn't know how to. She just vomits out whatever comes to her mind and regrets it later. Some words hurt and the hurt stays forever despite several apologies. Babita is losing Mini soon. She has to grow up before it is too late.

Mini is turning 18 in a few days and she will leave home. They are setting up the scenes for Mini and Babita to fall out. And HS being angry with her will drive her further away. I also think she may fail in her exams and her mental health issues will resurface. But the way they have been showing episodes from the wedding, there is no flow to the story and everything is so disjointed.

Today's Babita-Mini and friends scene seemed so out of place. Like a bad job of copy paste.

Irfan also taunted Babita that she broke her home and don’t bhadkao Ruksana.

It got me thinking. Society never really stops blaming Divorcee. Divorced woman, if tries to say something, will forever be seen as she is trying to instigate other ladies.

The mindset.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Khuranas are ok with everything Mini related.

Abhi Babita, Hanuman ka hath pakad le toh.. biji ko maryada yaad aa jayegi. 😆

And yes. To NB, Babita says I trust Mini. And in the Haveli, she blasts Mini.

This is literally jabarjasti ka issue create karvana between Maa - Beti.

I fear leap is coming.

I guess my guess of Mini leaving the house would be right! Maybe she would go to London...

Still haven't watched the episode yet, but this is from me to all of you. 🤗

I know we're all over the place, but please take care. 😭 Have mad love for all of you and don't want to see you all upset. ❤️