Grow Up! - Aa Jao Saarey - Page 9

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

i myself had a very good marriage but have always felt bad for the plight of women like babita. Who have to bear the brunt of society forever however strong or brave they might be. And i felt chalo someone is addressing such a sensitive issue and in such an amazing way. But the core issue and victim have become a joke for makers

I wanted to watch Babita and Minnie's journey and got hooked to the mother-daughter relationship they showed in the beginning. (Though I'm more invested in Hannie.) Today, I feel, they themselves butchered the very essence or premise they had began with....

I still believe that the makers can spin it around within a day or a week, but right now the issues aren't even hashed out well. Kuch bhi dikha rahe hai aaj kal.

Not from Mini or Babita but from a viewer point of view.

How is Micky - Mini and Hanuman - Babita relationship different?

Micky liked Mini. Had feelings for her. Mini didn’t. They are friends.

Hanuman started falling for Babita. Babita said she doesn’t want it. They were friends.

Few months later, Babes also fell for Hanuman.

Mini says she and Micky are not confused. But is there really a guarantee that she would never fall for Micky? If and when that happens, wouldn’t she end up hurting herself more in the process coz then she can’t do anything about it. Micky is Preet’s bf. If she does something about it, she ends up losing all her friends. Shouldn’t she maintain decent distance as to not mess up things for all parties involved?

I am just not able to wrap my head around this whole we are not confused about our feelings. Are bhai initially toh confuse koi nahi hota. Siyape to bad mein lag jate hai.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Calling your daughter a two timing home wrecker is pretty bad and it’s worse when it’s in front of friends

where r they heading to.....

Also, how are old old generation Khuranas ok with Boy staying over and Mini - Micky being frank with each other?

I have hard time digesting that.

Like how are they so liberal? Grandparents generally are more conservative.

I have always known that HS is very strict when it comes to discipline and manners, which is why he doesn't tolerate Minnie being rude to Babita.

Today it dawned on me that there is something more to it. He misses his mother, he knows how it feels not to have your mother in your life to love you, to scold you, just to be with you. What he would give to see her one more time, to be able to tell her how much he loves her. He would listen to a hundred scoldings just for one more glimpse of her. His yearning for her has never stopped so when he sees others who are fortunate enough to have their mothers around but misbehave with them, he cannot tolerate it. It pains him even more that they do not value what they have when he would give anything to swap places with them. It was all in his eyes at Khatri's office and then when he put his arm around NB. ❤️

His words to Irfan today about respecting his mother opened my eyes to this thought of his that I guess I subconsciously knew existed, but it only took shape in my mind today.

If indeed he is going to be strict with Minnie again for misbehaving on the back of seeing NB in this state, then I won't be surprised. I am not sure if he's been strict with her regarding other elders, but the occasions have been mainly with Babita, right?

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

my teenaged son noticed in the evening that i am a bit upset and told me if you are going to behave like tjisthen i will just put off the TV. I cannot see you like this. Then i realised he is so right.

Are chill karo aap.

Show hai. Aap Socho ki proposal ke baad show khatam ho gaya.

Yeh kuch aur hi chal raha hai.

Jo hum dekhte hai aur yaha aake majak banate hai. 😆

Show saanp seedi game jaisa ban gaya hai hum khush hote hain seedhi chadke aur agle hi pal saanp nigal jaata hai and back to square one😆

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Sorry dear, cannot agree! Even if Mini parented Babita, why would you keep her mahaan? Mini needs to learn to respect her mother! Even if they are like friends! And secondly, this is not just about Hanita relationship! It is also about Mickey Mini relationship! Any parent would have a negative reaction, when a kid gets her guy friend for an overnight stay! It's a but-natural reaction! How would you as a parent react to it? I would like to know. Would you happily let your own daughter get a guy inside the house, and let neighbours talk nonsense about your daughter and dont tell her anything or would you react like Babita?

I would have reacted like Babita, my mother would have reacted like Babita, any mother would have reacted like Babita....

And yes like zahreeli kheer (sorry I dont know your name 😳) said, many of us had problem with Mini being the catalyst in their relationship! We wanted a natural relationship provoked by both and not a third person.

My mom for sure would have reacted the way same way or even worse..

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Are chill karo aap.

Show hai. Aap Socho ki proposal ke baad show khatam ho gaya.

Yeh kuch aur hi chal raha hai.

Jo hum dekhte hai aur yaha aake majak banate hai. 😆

Later on new show "hs ka siyapon wala dharamshala"😆

And what is not digestible is how did everyone agree to Mickey staying at HS haveli. My mom called Preet an opportunist. Just because Preet did not want her parents to come to know about their relationship, she told Mini to keep him at home and brought Hanita into this relationship!!!!