Bajaj and Komo alike? - Page 8

Originally posted by: Cute_Virgo

I am seeing a different version of Bajaj lately who won't let anyone come between him and Prerna, so him letting her go is out of question.

And that hug is a dream, how do I know? I have been watching this show since the beginning and rooting for AnuPre. Every good thing for us come true in a dream, now whether it is Anurag's dream or Prerna's dream, it doesn't matter. She is hugging him in a dream, not in a real so how is it EMA?

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Not the action, but the thought behind it. Who makes roti for your ex fiance (or anyone for that matter) at the dead of night? She having feelings for Anurag is obviously expected, what irks is that she acts on those feelings.

Nope, that still doesn't count as an extra marital affair. An affair is plan and simple cheating on your partner physically, I. e sexually. Why you're referring can be at best termed emotional infidelity. But even that is not applicable here since prerna has categorically stated to Bajaj before their marriage itself that she will be anurag's, body, mind and soul.there's no hiding, lying or cheating here. Prerna has not hidden anything, nor has she ever gone back on what she promised. It's Bajaj here who is expecting more than what was already agreed.

Originally posted by: Pinot

I see that CVs have decided to take Bajaj the Komo way. The similarities are uncanny:

Komo developed an obsessive "love" for Anurag, while barely knowing him. Bajaj too has quickly "fallen in love" with Prerna by just looking at her and watching her show interest in his daughter. 😒

Komo wanted Anurag all to herself and resorted to lies, treachery, and murder to get him. Bajaj wants Anurag out of Prerna's life. He is showing psychotic tendencies having confessed to wanting to murder Anurag, and being joyous at seeing Anurag in the ICU fighting for his life.

The difference is that while Anurag found Komo utterly repulsive and had no interest in her, Prerna is showing concern for Bajaj and thinks he is not so bad. She is not repulsed by him like she was with Naveen Babu.

The question is will Prerna be able to deal with a psychotic Bajaj when he turns his neurosis onto her!

The characters are all so interesting but you almost need a degree in Psychology to make sense of the characters in this show!

Well,hello I have a degree in psych myself and here's my expert opinion : you just need common sense to understand the characters on the show. But guess that's very rare as I can see on this forum and on this thread :)

It's high time for her to decide.i have no issues with her taking divorce n moving on with soulmate.

But the bitter truth is

She is not even loyal with thst soulmate by hiding about reasons of marriage and pregnancy.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

abhi tak its not proved its a dream......if it will be a dream...it wont be EMA.....but if it will be reality....it will be. Yes you are right that bajaj will not let her go on anurag words....but prerna affects him.....agar woh baat karegi toh cheeje different hogiii according to me......prerna uske saamne yeh show nahi karti hain ki woh ghut rahi hain......he sees her sleeping peacefully with her daughter.He is happy about that.

What is prerna supposed to tell him. Hasn't she already told him that she loves anurag, and all she can give Bajaj is her loyalty. And she is being loyal. She is caring for his daughter as her own and she takes care of his family and him and all their needs. Anything more than that, I don't think prerna herself is looking for a way out of this marriage. She has already told time and again that anurag is lost to her for this lifetime. She has accepted Bajaj is her fate in this life. But she is also human. She cannot be expected to remain unaffected by anurag overnight, especially seeing as her own husband has put her in this situation where she sees anurag everyday. Emotions are not a light switch.

Originally posted by: hope4u

Nope, that still doesn't count as an extra marital affair. An affair is plan and simple cheating on your partner physically, I. e sexually. Why you're referring can be at best termed emotional infidelity. But even that is not applicable here since prerna has categorically stated to Bajaj before their marriage itself that she will be anurag's, body, mind and soul.there's no hiding, lying or cheating here. Prerna has not hidden anything, nor has she ever gone back on what she promised. It's Bajaj here who is expecting more than what was already agreed.

But in that case why she had a problem what RB thinks about her and all.

She was damn so upset that he is being so cold to her after that night when he saw ap together in kitchen. Why you are bothered, let him think whatever he wants to about you.

Aap aise behave kyun Kar rahe hai mere saath, mujhe ghutan ho rahi Hai. Kahin aap Kal raat mere aur anurag ko leke..............

There is no consistency whatsoever in her behavior or characterization

Sigh! How did I miss this thread.

I was busy in BB forum and yahan toh kzk pe Bigg boss chal rha hai🤣

Ok, My 2 cents. This is my POV. You don't have to agree. It's my opinion about the show so please don't tell me to believe in what you think is true, because just like you, I am also entitled to my opinion.

I do not think Bajaj is like komolika. He has a bitter past and is a victim of child Abuse.

Assuming the accident that he did is deliberate and he didn't lie to Anu to manipulate him into thinking bad about Bajaj , then Bajaj should be locked up in jail for ATTEMPTED MURDER.

Anurag who was planning to trap an innocent man (we know bajaj isn't innocent but not anurag. He doesn't know about the marraige deal) and lock him up in jail just because he cannot let go off obsession for the woman he claims to love.

Anurag should be locked up in jail for CRIMINAL CONSPIRACY.

If you agree to both, we are on same page. If Anurag's crime is a mistake and Bajaj's crime is a Crime, then Sorry, but I don't like debating with hypocrites.

And FYI - I like Anurag and dislike bajaj. Ya😃

Originally posted by: hope4u

What is prerna supposed to tell him. Hasn't she already told him that she loves anurag, and all she can give Bajaj is her loyalty. And she is being loyal. She is caring for his daughter as her own and she takes care of his family and him and all their needs. Anything more than that, I don't think prerna herself is looking for a way out of this marriage. She has already told time and again that anurag is lost to her for this lifetime. She has accepted Bajaj is her fate in this life. But she is also human. She cannot be expected to remain unaffected by anurag overnight, especially seeing as her own husband has put her in this situation where she sees anurag everyday. Emotions are not a light switch.

Jabardast comment.🤣🤣..aur laal chunni Anupre bandh ke Mandir mein JAGRATA karenge... phir kasauti ka seedha prasaran ASTHA channel pe hoga Prerna is inspiration #ReformBajaj.#myfoot 😜😜

Originally posted by: -RD-

#PrernakaMandirWahinZaroorBanega

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Not the action, but the thought behind it. Who makes roti for your ex fiance (or anyone for that matter) at the dead of night? She having feelings for Anurag is obviously expected, what irks is that she acts on those feelings.

Isn't EMA when you are cheating on your partner or spouse physically and emotionally. Prerna and Bajaj are neither emotionally or physically attached. Prerna has made her feelings clear from day 1 that she will only love Anurag so she is not even cheating on Bajaj emotionally. Prerna has not done anything that crosses the physically cheating barrier on Bajaj. And come on Bajaj isn't a kid to not understand that Prerna's feelings are not going to be wiped off if he is bringing her under the same roof as Anurag. He trusted her, and she has not broken that trust. She has been loyal as per their deal.