1st Oct Discussion - Ajao Saray - Page 29

Originally posted by: inlieu

No I don't watch it. LOL!

Loll, just watch any random episode on YT and skip to the end. You'll know what I'm talking about. 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

Exactly, so please ladies do what you know is right and not what people tell you. Also, the way you bring about change. Revolutions don't always work, sometimes you have to use a naram or garam approach depending on the situation. Sometimes when you lead by example, others follow automatically because you show them that there is an alternative that they had no idea about.

Just like the way Imarti taught HS. Even he had said that sometimes she had to adopt naram or garam approaches to deal with people accordingly.

Originally posted by: tk2015

Scary AND necessary. And the way she just gives in to his authority is absolutely brilliant and lovely to watch (even if she wants to throw a tantrum under the surface). Earlier, she had to be bold and speak out against injustice. Now she doesn't require to do so. She has a loving set of parents and ever her NB daadi on her side (in fact, even Ks).

Can our Minnie please be a child for once in her life? I really want HS to carry out all the promises he spoke of before the wedding. The Karate training, scolding her, making her focus on her studies (though not making her a policewoman maybe 😆).

Yes, I just LOVE those countdown scenes and the way she just can't stay angry.

Also, today his puzzled expression told me he was going to try and figure out what was up with her.

Like you, I am also looking forward to him doing all those things but I think the CD fiasco hurt him somewhere and he's not in phather mode yet. Baaqi Japani kushti, etc, I would love to see, at least during her break after exams.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I want Minnie to be put in a position to choose between HS and her grandparents, especially after Khatri's taunts to her yesterday about duplicate vs. asli family.

Let me see if she will ever choose HS.

I don't want her to choose between HS or her grandparents. The equation isn't fair in a lot of ways. I would prefer if it was between HS and Ashok, but given everything that happened, is there really a choice to be made?

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

i always discuss with my jethani that oldies around me teach me how not to be in futu5re when i become old. I also from time to time tell my Mil to value what she has got whenever she says something unreasonable. Atleast she has got us to look after. While we cannot expect the same from next generation as they will be super busy and it would be unreasonble to expect too kuch sewa from them. I also tell my son to be a reasonable husband in future and not mamas pet. I hope that i become understaning mil like NB.hoping for the best.

I am sure you will. Just the fact that you are conscious of these things is a great start and I know your DIL would be a lucky woman.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I am sure you will. Just the fact that you are conscious of these things is a great start and I know your DIL would be a lucky woman.

Originally posted by: tk2015

I guess PB showed this. At least initially. Kammo-Madhu followed when Babes led by example. Lovely had to be taught to not cross her limits.

Yes, and Babita too has to learn this. You cannot fly off the handle all the time. The thing is, she had shown a lot of creativity when it came to handling difficult workers at the factory. There was no one there to guide her or hold her hand. She had to fight it out and use tactics as and when required. The reason it was "easier" was because it was a new world for her so essentially a blank slate.

On the personal front, she cannot think that clearly because her judgement is clouded by the memories of her past. Once she can learn to stop letting them bother her and really look around, she will be able to really do right by herself and those around her too.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes, I just LOVE those countdown scenes and the way she just can't stay angry.

Also, today his puzzled expression told me he was going to try and figure out what was up with her.

Like you, I am also looking forward to him doing all those things but I think the CD fiasco hurt him somewhere and he's not in phather mode yet. Baaqi Japani kushti, etc, I would love to see, at least during her break after exams.

If only agar Minnie voh pehal kare. Much like when her mother took one step to bridge the gap, HS will take 10 more in return.

Originally posted by: tk2015

I'm sorry you had to hear that.

My jolt came when people started talking about marriage when I'm absolutely not ready for it. I put my foot down and it stopped to an extent. But, I realised that if I truly want to be able to throw my weight behind my own decisions, I need to have financial independence.

The same thing is happening with my Chachaji. He's being heavily pressurized to get married but he has absolutely no interest in it atm. Yes, he has a good job, but his hours aren't stable and he doesn't have a place of his own. He can't afford to think of marriage and all the complications that come along with it. People just don't realize that things aren't the same anymore. We can't get married at 17 or 18 and expect things to just fall into place. Nowadays, it's the opposite. We want to be stable and secure for ourselves first, only then can we think about someone else. If we can't be a strong pillar for ourself, then how can we be one for our partner?

I ain't sure but at my home it's opposite I call my mum mom instead of mummy

And thus getting my Bhabhi at home and hearing mummy ji for my mom it's make me feel awkward and when I said to Bhabhi she can call mom as mom only why to be so formal

She didn't said anything and this my mom said learn something from your Bhabhi she call me mummy ji Kitna apna da Lagta hai aur ek Tu hai jab Dekho mom Tom

I will end up laughing at it

So there is love respect I see such home very few my grand mum wasn't to good to frankly she worse then how in old movies the mil was shown hence my mom say what she went through she doesn't want anyone go through same that's how life should be and people as well.