Why Sona looks so helpless everytime ?

No doubt, Sonakshi is a kind, warm and a beautiful person inside out but why she always look like a weak character ? Why she cant defend herself ? Why she starts cry in every situation. why she cant express herself or speak out in sensitive situations ? 😒The way Rohit treats Sonakshi doesn't look nice at all . She is always a second option for him. He yells at her, misunderstands her but she behaves like "an easy to forget everything" sort of person. Producers should have shown her bold confident and dignified type of girl yet kind and nice. She always need to prove herself yaar . Now next things would be spent manaoing and samjhaoing Rohit and his family. She should speak out the truth and let Rohit realize her importance. Seriously , toooo much this time😭

Aur this Raima, she vented out everything and when it was Sonakshi's turn, got fainted, lo bhaiii !😒

Exactly...my view....why not Sona speak the truth for her side ...let Rohit goes .. wherever he go... atleast u should stand for herself...She is today women ...

Sometimes I wish I was actually more like Sona. In fact every year it is part of my new years resolution to become more like her (not her but someone like her). Mainly because I don't think she is weak, though her behaviour can be seen as weakness.

My favourite scenes of Sona are when she burst out at her mom and then recently her sister. Sona is able to show love and patience to the people who are important in her life. Unlike most of us she doesn't feel the need to leave every conversation feeling like she got the last word or "won" the argument. That doesnt mean she changes who she is or changes her direction - she always remains true to herself...but her self worth is not measured by convincing others of her position.

But then when she does burst, she leaves the other person feeling that:

(i) She has power that she could use to control them but she doesnt because she wants them to grow

(ii) Not to take her silence as her weakness

(iii) Shes got her eye on them and expect improvement

(iv) Her anger and frustration does not mean she will love them less

To be honest (I feel) in real life these sort of measured burst-outs have more effect on other people than constant anger and winning of arguments. Look at how Sona's mother realised her error of her ways.....

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

Sometimes I wish I was actually more like Sona. In fact every year it is part of my new years resolution to become more like her (not her but someone like her). Mainly because I don't think she is weak, though her behaviour can be seen as weakness.

My favourite scenes of Sona are when she burst out at her mom and then recently her sister. Sona is able to show love and patience to the people who are important in her life. Unlike most of us she doesn't feel the need to leave every conversation feeling like she got the last word or "won" the argument. That doesnt mean she changes who she is or changes her direction - she always remains true to herself...but her self worth is not measured by convincing others of her position.

But then when she does burst, she leaves the other person feeling that:

(i) She has power that she could use to control them but she doesnt because she wants them to grow

(ii) Not to take her silence as her weakness

(iii) Shes got her eye on them and expect improvement

(iv) Her anger and frustration does not mean she will love them less

To be honest (I feel) in real life these sort of measured burst-outs have more effect on other people like constant anger and winning of arguments. Look at how Sona's mother realised her error of her ways.....

@Bold - THIS , wonderfully put and so true.

I do agree , these measured outburst have significant impact than mindless and spontaneous outburst.

I too wish I could imbibe some of the calmness and strength of character ( under limits , of course ) Sona possesses .

Thanks for posting this!

What goes thru my mind is she is a celeb!Why is she accepting such attitude from Rohit.Like i know she loves him but one sided love never workes out!She has to realise when Rohit thought Raima wont get out of coma he chose to be with her.Why does she want to be a second choice!Just let him decide what he feels and wants!

Beautifully written! 😊The qualities she possess are simply matchless. She has soo much of everything which if we imply could make us a better being for sure. But i really didn't want her to see so helpless today . How happy she was with Rohit in Rohits room and how the tables turned after Raima's entry 😡. Hope Rohit get to know the truth asap as seeing Sonakshi in such a pain is really painful guys !! 😭

All female leads in itv are helpless

Till now she is good ..but after this drama of Raima and Rohit's behavior she should stop crying or trying to prove herself right..it's useless.. first Rohit wasn't ready to listen her tragedy of 26th September now Raima blamed her and refused to listen her..and noway Sonakshi is responsible for Raima's condition..where is Anisha for whom Raima did panga with Karan ?? And Raima herself responsible for it ..

I hope Sonakshi stop giving explanation and behave strong ..

Just wish she stops crying at the drop of the hat, irritates the hell out of me.

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

Sometimes I wish I was actually more like Sona. In fact every year it is part of my new years resolution to become more like her (not her but someone like her). Mainly because I don't think she is weak, though her behaviour can be seen as weakness.

My favourite scenes of Sona are when she burst out at her mom and then recently her sister. Sona is able to show love and patience to the people who are important in her life. Unlike most of us she doesn't feel the need to leave every conversation feeling like she got the last word or "won" the argument. That doesnt mean she changes who she is or changes her direction - she always remains true to herself...but her self worth is not measured by convincing others of her position.

But then when she does burst, she leaves the other person feeling that:

(i) She has power that she could use to control them but she doesnt because she wants them to grow

(ii) Not to take her silence as her weakness

(iii) Shes got her eye on them and expect improvement

(iv) Her anger and frustration does not mean she will love them less

To be honest (I feel) in real life these sort of measured burst-outs have more effect on other people than constant anger and winning of arguments. Look at how Sona's mother realised her error of her ways.....

Wow so positive post! Feeling better after reading this!

Bcoz my new year resolution is always to change this habit of myself! I am always told to become bold enough to give people back in the way they deserve (rudely sometimes) which I hardly do but after reading this I m like I don't need to change that habit of mine!