Abir Big Ben AND Baba - The unexplained equation

Now how will they equate and substantiate the tossed relationship?? Just a thought running around ( P.S I am Not dropping any base for allegations against any of these characters)

So we are in a cross road with all these characters after say decades ....

Baba may or may not be evil he might have had his share of drawbacks in relationships ...we heard Meenu and Parul mention that Kunal is naajayaz so if Baba had betrayed Meenu n her trust then what is wrong in keeping him away from the kids for these many years ?

Will any mother not do that to protect her kids ?? Big ben has been wrong in many of her doings she wants to dominate she wants to be authoritative she wants Abir Kunal to be together rather she is lot insecure for the same reason of her broken relationship.

But any woman would not want to give the man a second chance if he has gone ahead and let her down by bringing in another woman in his life forget about having a illegitimate son . So Meenakshi might have taken the right decision by keeping him away from Abir Kunal and now trying to avoid him interfering back in their lives.

Abir has lost his childhood well so has Kunal and so has the women losing her marriage to a man most probably who led a loner life. all these years

From a mothers perspective woman's POV if a man has betrayed marriage he doesnt deserve to get back into lives especially demanding his kids.. Only a single mother would know the pain of bringing up kids .until unless there is a very strong reason backing Mehul this cannot be glorified in any way is my thought.

If Naman suddenly comes back from jail and apologizes in front of everyone will he be able to gain Mishti's trust as a father ?? Answer is No even though there cant be a comparison unless the allegations are proved false Mehul doesnt gain any sympathy or right to demand his son or get back in their lives...It is plain WRONG in many ways ....Abir is emotional and painted with hatred against Big Ben hence unable to get the point as a son he just hates the fact that his mom is not letting him meet his father his nanu and everyone is keeping the secret from him for so many years but I dont think he is trying to think even once what his father might have done for them to hate him so much ?

The sooner Meenu n Nanu break the secret behind Mehul the better and I do not wish Abir to accept Mehul wholeheartedly after the cat is out of the bag.....betrayal in relationship is WRONG period.

My perspective - Mehul is a husband first then a father !

Do share your point of views : as much as we all love Abir it might not be that easy for his mom to let his baba in their lives. after 20 yrs...will Abir get this and try to mend the relationships with both his parents??

You know, I honestly don't think Mehul is Kunal's Dad!! His question to Meanu asking her why she didn't tell him about Kunal sealed it for me.

Unless they actually show me that Mehul is infact Kunal's dad, I am not buying it. Parul's Yashoda and Devaki dialogue was also dead giveaway.

It's about money but I don't think it's about anything else. The way we know Meanu, would she really allow the woman who was the cause of the break of her relationship, into her and Abir's lives.

It's not as clear cut as we think it is. Just my opinion.

Anyone, it doesn't matter what Mehul has done, Abir is an adult and he has the right to know his Dad. He can than decide if he's Dad is good or bad. It's immoral to keep kids away from parents based on what they have done.

Naman is a scumbag and Mishti knows it and she wholeheartedly doesn't want him in her life. I believe Abir should be given that choice!!

Originally posted by: Namita-M

You know, I honestly don't think Mehul is Kunal's Dad!! His question to Meanu asking her why she didn't tell him about Kunal sealed it for me.

Unless they actually show me that Mehul is infact Kunal's dad, I am not buying it. Parul's Yashoda and Devaki dialogue was also dead giveaway.

It's about money but I don't think it's about anything else. The way we know Meanu, would she really allow the woman who was the cause of the break of her relationship, into her and Abir's lives.

It's not as clear cut as we think it is. Just my opinion.

Anyone, it doesn't matter what Mehul has done, Abir is an adult and he has the right to know his Dad. He can than decide if he's Dad is good or bad. It's immoral to keep kids away from parents based on what they have done.

Naman is a scumbag and Mishti knows it and she wholeheartedly doesn't want him in her life. I believe Abir should be given that choice!!

If Mehul has any valid reason of why he didnt fight back Meenu then

If Mehul has any explanation as to why he left the rajvansh house years before without his kids even if it had to be war against Meenu n her dhamki ss

If Mehul in real has been the ideal role model who Abir has been worshiping all these years

if Mehul is not Kunals dad and if he is proved innocent then it is simply GAME OVER ...with just one main culprit BIG BEN n probably her dirty games !!

Originally posted by: Bujee09

Yo agreed - i just hope Mehul as a character is really worth the hype at least from Abir's POV.

If Mehul has any valid reason of why he didnt fight back Meenu then

If Mehul has any explanation as to why he left the rajvansh house years before without his kids even if it had to be war against Meenu n her dhamki ss

If Mehul in real has been the ideal role model who Abir has been worshiping all these years

if Mehul is not Kunals dad and if he is proved innocent then it is simply GAME OVER ...with just one main culprit BIG BEN n probably her dirty games !!

I think at this point tbh after Abir's dialogue "Shahid main galat ho aap sahi shahid Baba galat ho aur Maa sahi par aap nay mujh say jhoot bola kia woh sahi tha" he knows that there is a possibility that his father was at fault but the way BB and co have handled the situation is very despicable. No matter what a child has the right to meet their own father and decide for themselves whether they want to maintain a relationship or not. The main issue Abir has is that people closest to him are lying to him. Why don't they just tell him and now according to spoliers BB is planning to show him proof on his bday that itself is so insensitive.

They are numerous occasions where we have gotten a hint that Kunal is not Mehul's son.

I guess it's a matter of perspectives here !

For our elders we will always remain kids...They will most of the times feel that we are not old enough to handle pain, difficulties and miseries and they taken it upon themselves to protect us from all the hurdles of life......I guess this is what Nanu thinks....I feel Nanu really belives that he is protecting Abir from pain and heartbreak by keeping him away from Mehul...There is no malice in his heart..his intentions are genuine here .

As far as Meenu is concerned...Well her thinking can be twisted at times that one can never be sure about her intentions.....Does she truly believe that keeping Mehul away from Abir is the only way she can 'protect' her family or there is something more......She even believes that by keeping Mishti away from Abir she is protecting her family.

So, We really need to know what exactly happened decades ago that Meenu and Nanu detest Mehul so much.....Why Mehul left without trying to prove his innocence if he was innocent

Abir wants to find out what exactly happened and I guess he isn't wrong as well ! He has the right to know the truth which Meenu and Nanu are hiding from him and in the process he is getting hurt !

If only business fraud was the reason for a wife detesting her husband so much, for keeping him away from his own kids and leading a life of a single mother then I would say the reason is quite underwhelming ! I was hoping for a much more stronger reason behind this whole fiasco and if money fraud is the reason then I will be DISAPPOINTED !

Earlier most of us assuming that Mehul might be Kunal's dad but why would Mehul ask about Kunal then?

What exactly is the secret of Kunal's birth then ? is Parul somehow connected with Mehul ?

I really hope makers clarify this and give a strong reason about why Meenu detest Mehul so much and why Mehul left !

If Mehul is at fault then I want Abir to support Nanu and Meenu and if he is innocent then I want Abir to fully support his baba ! At the same time I also want Abir to understand his nanu's perspective at least if not Meenu's coz Nanu is someone who will never intentionally hurt Abir

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

I think at this point tbh after Abir's dialogue "Shahid main galat ho aap sahi shahid Baba galat ho aur Maa sahi par aap nay mujh say jhoot bola kia woh sahi tha" he knows that there is a possibility that his father was at fault but the way BB and co have handled the situation is very despicable. No matter what a child has the right to meet their own father and decide for themselves whether they want to maintain a relationship or not. The main issue Abir has is that people closest to him are lying to him. Why don't they just tell him and now according to spoliers BB is planning to show him proof on his bday that itself is so insensitive.

They are numerous occasions where we have gotten a hint that Kunal is not Mehul's son.

Originally posted by: anshvi

I guess it's a matter of perspectives here !

For our elders we will always remain kids...They will most of the times feel that we are not old enough to handle pain, difficulties and miseries and they taken it upon themselves to protect us from all the hurdles of life......I guess this is what Nanu thinks....I feel Nanu really belives that he is protecting Abir from pain and heartbreak by keeping him away from Mehul...There is no malice in his heart..his intentions are genuine here .

As far as Meenu is concerned...Well her thinking can be twisted at times that one can never be sure about her intentions.....Does she truly believe that keeping Mehul away from Abir is the only way she can 'protect' her family or there is something more......She even believes that by keeping Mishti away from Abir she is protecting her family.

So, We really need to know what exactly happened decades ago that Meenu and Nanu detest Mehul so much.....Why Mehul left without trying to prove his innocence if he was innocent

Abir wants to find out what exactly happened and I guess he isn't wrong as well ! He has the right to know the truth which Meenu and Nanu are hiding from him and in the process he is getting hurt !

If only business fraud was the reason for a wife detesting her husband so much, for keeping him away from his own kids and leading a life of a single mother then I would say the reason is quite underwhelming ! I was hoping for a much more stronger reason behind this whole fiasco and if money fraud is the reason then I will be DISAPPOINTED !

Earlier most of us assuming that Mehul might be Kunal's dad but why would Mehul ask about Kunal then?

What exactly is the secret of Kunal's birth then ? is Parul somehow connected with Mehul ?

I really hope makers clarify this and give a strong reason about why Meenu detest Mehul so much and why Mehul left !

If Mehul is at fault then I want Abir to support Nanu and Meenu and if he is innocent then I want Abir to fully support his baba ! At the same time I also want Abir to understand his nanu's perspective at least if not Meenu's coz Nanu is someone who will never intentionally hurt Abir

If Mehul is innocent then what Meenu as a mom has done is beyond redemption but if betrayal then Abir is anyways getting a heartbreak - to know someone whom you have been worshiping is not worth it is a huge setback...fingers crossed for whats in store ..

After seeing Meenu afraid

What I feel

After Meenu strong opposition

I feel she is Neha of krpkab

She after marriage would be unhappy and thus when she got chance she herself trapped baba and totured him by keeping away Abir

She neever told nanu or anyone about her unsatiaction from marriage due to her ego as she has done bhaag me shadi

Mehul seem to be from poor background and seeing Abir I can say he is self dependent man would not like monetary help from anyone

Her fear is that Abir might somehow connect dots as Abir knows his baba that his baba is a philanthropist then why he will do fraud just for money

He not believed email lie of Mishti as he loves her and knows her and he will definitely not believe Mehul to be a fraud and will do possible thing for truth to be out

She knows Abir is not nanu or koshlu who will believe whatever she says she knows that her neend mein hoshyar beta will try to dig truth will even listen both side story not one side only

I don't think she will show Abir Anny prrof

She is just buying time by stopping nanu from showing proof so that she can do another nautanki and cover it up

I now don't know why everyone think Meenu might not be like this in past

But you r watching yrhpk not any other show

Here Abir is not any extreme person like in other son

He is ready to accept his baba mistake if any

He is ready to hear the truth which might be very bitter and he knows

But I feel Meenu knows Abir will never believe his baba doing fraud and might try to find whole truth and he will come to know then

So I think for time being she is herself going to bring mishbir rishta and accept it just a show off

What I understood from the episodes till now, a big scam has happened in their office and everyone including nanu n Meenu felt that Mehul is behind it. It was clearly mentioned in one of the episodes that Meenu took the side of her father and took over the business from there. Mehul was shown responsible for the scam n he was in jail for the last 25 years. So it is clear that he cannot come n meet his family. In one of the episodes it was told like there are no more cases on him. Mehul was shown telling that he is not responsible for that scam. So on the whole he may or may not be responsible for what has happened.

I think Meenu is scared because, Kunal is not mehul's n meenu's son. But everyone including Abir n Kunal believes so. So she may be scared that if Mehul is back, the truth about Abir n Kunal may also come out. Don't know how Kunal n Abir will take it n may accuse her of cheating them all these years.

At some point if time I'm feeling bad for Meenu as it is not easy for her. But at the same time with all these years she couldn't get Abir's belief is something alarming. It shows that though she has her own reasons for her planning n plotting she us selfish n will do anything without thinking about others.

So I think Mehul is innocent n Meenu may have misunderstood him. Let's wait n watch

Originally posted by: Seethal00

What I understood from the episodes till now, a big scam has happened in their office and everyone including nanu n Meenu felt that Mehul is behind it. It was clearly mentioned in one of the episodes that Meenu took the side of her father and took over the business from there. Mehul was shown responsible for the scam n he was in jail for the last 25 years. So it is clear that he cannot come n meet his family. In one of the episodes it was told like there are no more cases on him. Mehul was shown telling that he is not responsible for that scam. So on the whole he may or may not be responsible for what has happened.

I think Meenu is scared because, Kunal is not mehul's n meenu's son. But everyone including Abir n Kunal believes so. So she may be scared that if Mehul is back, the truth about Abir n Kunal may also come out. Don't know how Kunal n Abir will take it n may accuse her of cheating them all these years.

At some point if time I'm feeling bad for Meenu as it is not easy for her. But at the same time with all these years she couldn't get Abir's belief is something alarming. It shows that though she has her own reasons for her planning n plotting she us selfish n will do anything without thinking about others.

So I think Mehul is innocent n Meenu may have misunderstood him. Let's wait n watch

Abir father was not in jail

He was just fighting cases and with the help of those cases Meenu had issue him stay order that is to stay away from Rajkotand rest whatever u said might be possiblility

I just hope and wish Meenu ke Kunal Ko God Lene Ko glorify na kiya jaye