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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

I cant hate him . I disliked and disapproved him a lot during komo's time and it's the same , from the time of swiss episodes ..but now i can't..because I can only see a man who is seeking for answers and validation which he knows is there but still ..craving for it..all for love..besharam badtameez paglon jaisa pyar, pyar aisa hi hota hai..the guy is all heart and no brains right now...He is like a blindfolded man fighting in a ring and he is being portrayed the villain in this fight . Quite unfair..he has a theory in mind that prerna was forced into this marriage..tick. he is right . He thinks bajaj wants to harm him and his family. Yes it's very much possible.. he thinks prerna still loves him. Tick. He is right. He thinks they will be back again ..yes this is also possible. Why not ? He is trying to prove prerna wrong . He is not wrong in this. Why can't prerna come out with the truth ? And why and how does she expect him to move on without knowing why his life was toppled one fine day?


My analytical mind says he should leave prerna to her fate but love is always from heart...it's him and his love , if he wants to fight for it , he should . There are certain exclusive rights between lovers. We hurt those who we love the most and these two are doing just that . So I dont see the stalking or obsession or whatever.. infact I have started understanding him a little now..

I don't agree about the absolute right on one another thing but rest of things yes I do agree. Anurag in his mind thinks all he is doing is to save Pre from this forced marriage or cage as he sees her trapped in it. It will take more than just Pre's words to understand that she has moved on from him or is trying to. He isn't just obsessed .......he just is in that state where he can't understand what has he done wrong to lose the love of his life to someone else .

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bhagya65

Irony is today..like weirdly I was thinking the same. I cannot see him like that anymore. The 2 day ago episode where he was explaining to her on why he did it..his voice sounded like young boy who is about to cry..just broke me.

Atleast from my view..atleast he loved him passionately..and loved him from inside out..which we cant say much about Pre anymore. For me despite how much he want her back is irritating some..but for me atleast it showed his love. Only 1 thing that upset with Pre character is not seeing his pain and guilt of baby is the only thing..that will forever be in my heart to hate her forever.

I don't hv much appreciation for Prerna's character.

But it's Anurag who I see changed from episode 1 to the person he is now. He changed into this madly in love person for that one special girl in his life........ today's Anurag probably wouldn't recognize the episode 1 Anurag who was so different.......all this because of one love.....one true love who left him and moved on...... widout waiting for him to move on.....to atleast move on together.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: chullbulli

Poor Anurag just needs a closure.....that's all..a reason why Prerna left him. Or prob the news of pre pregnancy will jump start him in believing that pre has moved on. Hopefully he comes out of this phase sooner rather than later. Pre is so detached, It is a torture to watch her.. I just want her not to show any liking for Anu in the future. She should stay with bajaj. Then I want Bajaj to reveal that it was all his and komolika's plan.

I feel closure is overrated ( no offence to you ......you hv a different take and I respect it ).

I don't think Anurag can just move on with his life if Pre let's him know she has moved on or is trying to......but yes that would definitely serve as a start.

I believe Anurag can only move on when he is ready to ...... It would definitely change him.....but only he can do it.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Brilliant post! ⭐️❤️

No. Anurag can't be hated. He is a sincere man. When he loves he loves, when he hates he hates. The problem is with Prerna........nautankibaaz. Plays victim all the time and uses men.

Anu rescued her when she was desperately trying to marry her Navin Babu. This is normal that he is thinking Baju is another Navin Babu. He is thinking Baju is the one who has manipulated Prerna, misguided her and now using her too. To Anu Prerna is "Pavitra" "Bholi" 🤢🤢. And Baju is a monster like Navin Babu. Did Prerna ever tried to make Baju and Anu friends? NOOOOOOOO.

Instead of bringing peace between Anu and Baju this lady is pouring ghee in between Anu and Baju. Now I don't hate Baju too. He is also a victim of Prerna , just like Anu.

When she heard about Anu's involvement she informed everything right to Baju. When she knows very well after knowing all these what Baju will do and after that what Anu will do. Is she showing her loyalty to Baju this way???🤢 Then where was her loyalty when she was having romance with Anu behind Baju. She could punish Anu and stop him from planning against Baju. Threat him or give her kasam( the way they deal in ITV) not to hurt Baju. Even make Anu go to the thana and get Baju free. THis would definitely improve Anuaj's relationship. But noooooooo. She wants war between the two men. Aag laganewali awrat. .

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I don't agree about the absolute right on one another thing but rest of things yes I do agree. Anurag in his mind thinks all he is doing is to save Pre from this forced marriage or cage as he sees her trapped in it. It will take more than just Pre's words to understand that she has moved on from him or is trying to. He isn't just obsessed .......he just is in that state where he can't understand what has he done wrong to lose the love of his life to someone else .

Its not absolute right on each other. It's like we take some liberties with those who we love..like anurag was enjoying prernas act during komo's time..prerna doesnt see his actions as wrong , neither slapping nor following nor talking same thing everyday , nor him trying to harm bajaj...Will she do the same with any other guy ?...Will she take a restraining order against anurag or say that he is stalking her? Till the time prerna has given that right to him , we can't say he is man handling her or stalking her or whatever.. it's with prernas consent . Stalking molesting and man handling is at different level . But Yes. I sincerely believe that if a girl is saying no it means no. But is prerna saying no from heart? Does she really mean it ? She must first sort our her emotions before he should do it. Has she moved on ? The day she tells him the truth,he will hear the truth and believe her..

Edited by _charu_ - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

It's not about old memories but I feel that Anurag changed because he fell for Prerna.......and she left him to live like that.

Anurag during their love confession said "tum ho , tho main hoon, warna main, main nahi hoon "

And he is no more the same without her.

But, I want him to realise how wrong it is, whatever he is trying to do, and to come back with more positivity, love and affection, that's what he is by nature.

And seeing that Anurag will get out all the emotions of Prerna, a small glimpse of it was, the kitchen convo, where she saw him happy and trying to be normal and she had a major breakdown, how much she is suffered.

This was the Anurag I wish we had in this track, the one who will get back his Prerna with love.

As their name goes, Anurag needs prerna to fight for their love with positivity, and Prerna needs Anurag, as in affection from him to bring out her emotions, instead of being this indifferent to what happened with her.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Why we still love him?? Coz he's loner and our heart cries for the one who cries for others. We will hate him at times, we will call him everything we can call him, we will disapprove him for his works, for his madness but we will keep loving him... We will keep loving you Mr Anurag Basu. Because you have kept alive the eternal love of AnuPre. ^_^

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: ifmember

Anurag during their love confession said "tum ho , tho main hoon, warna main, main nahi hoon "

And he is no more the same without her.

But, I want him to realise how wrong it is, whatever he is trying to do, and to come back with more positivity, love and affection, that's what he is by nature.

And seeing that Anurag will get out all the emotions of Prerna, a small glimpse of it was, the kitchen convo, where she saw him happy and trying to be normal and she had a major breakdown, how much she is suffered.

This was the Anurag I wish we had in this track, the one who will get back his Prerna with love.

As their name goes, Anurag needs prerna to fight for their love with positivity, and Prerna needs Anurag, as in affection from him to bring out her emotions, instead of being this indifferent to what happened with her.

I am a sucker for such things. How beautifully you have explained this 🤗❤️

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

I was thinking of making a similar post glad that you made it. 😃🤗

You've expressed it beautifully 👏

If I ask myself whether I'm disappointed with him? Yes I am but if I ask myself whether I hate him? The answer is NO.

Why and how do I hate a man who has lost everything and is unable to find out the reason where he went wrong? He is unable to find a way out of the mess and with no support for himself. His only support his Baba and Prerna both aren't with him in the real sense. The way he went to Moloy and said.... main apni zindagi hi to maang raha hu... that was so heart wrenching 😭

This line has such a deep meaning in itself and just shows how important is Prerna for him. He placed her much above his life and his family. I don't support his obsession but my heart goes out to this lover who is made to believe that his lover left him for money....

I know people say that why is he not able to find out the truth When he can see through her eyes that she is hiding something. I say he did try whatever he could but with this clouded state of mind no-one can really think straight.

When there is a sea storm how can a boat remain stable and on its path without turbulence. It needs a strong anchor to hold on to the boat which is lacking for him. So he has chosen a wrong path but surely he'll come out stronger as his basic principles and morality still are the same he hasnt lost any of them.

So I'm waiting for the day when he himself comes out of the situation and show to everyone his real self.

We all are waiting for our Anurag Basu 👍🏼

Oh !! Same mind think alike smiley4smiley31

Thank you smiley1

Rightly said...... Anurag is unable to understand what and where he went wrong that the love of his life left him. And he cannot accept the fact that she could ever leave him for money..,....... because he believes in her above everything.

I'm also waiting for Anurag to get back to being Anurag again and move on in his life and smile again

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: memad

Yes both onu, the character and Parth, as actor making us empathise with him, although he did a very wrong thing for undeserving pre, my heart goes out to him

Very true😊

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