just imagine, you give yourself to a man when you truly trust him completely and one fine day out of malign he undresses you in front of strangers and your child with cheap words. I cannot even imagine myself in babitas place. Though hs had good intention but the way he said it was really cheap and hurtful, especially more hurtful after what all babita went through. And again you can understand here why babita blamed meeta all the time, because according to babes, ashok was a loving understanding husband who was lured away by meeta with her beauty and class. And again you can see why she doubted her own best friend coZ she saw same beauty and class in poonam. And she feels all men get attracted to women like classy meeta and poonam, which she lacks. And upar se she saw hs flirting with poonam, she did not know minni made him do it😆Plus the fact that HS made that paraya mard comment, even though his intentions weren't to insult her character, but it must have brought back those memories. I could be wrong, though. Just speculating here.