Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi
About your 1st point.
Mini asked her about Love and told her she doesn’t believe in Love.
Babita explained her so nicely. It was perfect. She even told Mini, that just becoz your parents relationship didn’t work out, doesn’t mean Love is to be blamed or Love is bad. Love is not the problem.
She said that right. Then what happens when she herself has to follow it. Where did all that gyan go?
when babita was saying that she never thought she would get a second chance. moreover it is so much easier to say than to follow it.
and as per her explanation true love does not have any expectations. it is pure and innocent.
she is keeping a few expextations from HS as a father, not as a husband since that is not a part of "not having expectations", but at the same time she wants HS to wait and not have expectations from her.
again she is interpreting it in her way. her love with HS is pure and innocent, so there is no space/ need for expressing it physically. also, i thing not mentioned is that she might be afraid that if she starts her physical relation with HS then he will lose his interest in her - again something in her mind, but that is somewhat what happened with ashok.
right now babita is in a phase where her balance of right wrong is skewed. and with no one showing her the truth, except for NB, she believes her definition of right wrong is correct.