i understand all of HS insecurities and they are valid.
but for some reason, the talk about trust hit me hard. it was on point, that there was an utter lack of trust between the 3. specially on such an important day.
despite his insecurities, was it too much for a young girl to ask for some trust? specially when the same girl trusted him during the most vulnerable phase of his life and stood against her babes, who is her world?
though i dont like it so much when the CVs showing mini so mature, somehow i liked it today. mini made me cry today.
HS was not concerned where mini was through out the ceremony. only babes looked out for her. yes he is hurt, he is insecure but just once couldnt he look at her?
i was crying during the bidaai scene. babita didnt realise she left her daughter behind, she left a part of her outside the door. yes, babes will fight with HS for mini, but the pain that mini had to go through at that moment will never be erased. the scars will lighten but they will not disappear. and HS was not even looking. even if he feels he cannot be father to mini, doesnt mini mean even a little more to him than that? if nothing else, then just his wifes daughter?
all the flashbacks were like arrows to the heart.
i liked the precap. despite all talks for hanita to start a new relation where mini is a part but not the entire relation, i feel this talk in the precap was needed. from how he was looking at things and had a small smile, it felt as if he has forgotten about mini, even that she is in the house.
but as they say, a mother can never forget her child. specially mini and babes. they are truly 1. i remember HS saying that he is learning to love unconditionally from mini, i would say he has a long way to go. he loves babita, but not unconditionally. he loves mini, but again not unconditionally and he now has trust issues with her.
same for babita. she loves HS, but she has never felt what is a husbands love. babes knows what is unconditionally love, not babita. because babes got unconditional love from mini, babita never got that kind of love. and that is what made babes speak up to babita's husband. babita and HS both need to make their journey towards unconditional true love. babes and mini love each other truly, they just need to talk and clear some MUs.
not only babita, but all 3 of them need to learn to balance their new relation. the new equation. and babita needs to take the lead since now she is the bond between the other 2. then HS needs to take the lead since he is more mature than mini. and it is his insecurity. mini is very much secure in her relation with her Hanuman uncle. even when he hurt her so much she defended him and i think she will continue doing it in front of everyone. mini is very mature for her age, but she is still a child who has seen a lot more than a child her age does.
even when mini came to know HS loved babita, and then in the hospital, she felt her trust was broken by HS and today again her trust was broken.
i dont think HS has realised, or will realise soon how badly he has hurt mini and babita.
and all said and done, HS and his veer balika will be stronger after all this, their relation more solid, but these memories will never be erased. they will leave a scar. HS remembering all those moments where he was hurt proved it. everything mini said before and after held no meaning.
the relation with khuranas will not break so soon. all said and done they are mini's relations.
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