Prerna isnt really wrong - For PreRish Fans - Page 2

Thanks for penning down the first paragraph!

Not liking the Prerna bashing going around the forum.

Originally posted by: manj

Very well written post.

But these are my thoughts ,As a bajaj / ksg fan ,I don’t want prerna for bajaj, she is just not good enough for him .

Whatever her reasons and justification, she can unite with her soulmate.

No compromise for bajaj , he can find someone else to care for kuki.

Did she think of kuki when she went running for anu?

Kuki was left with servants. Prerna has too much baggage in form of her soulmate to be a good partner for bajaj.

I loved the characterization of bajaj and since bajaj has developed a soft corner for prerna , he is changing which i am not liking one bit.

Want my ruthless cool bajaj back , for that prerna needs to go.

I understand that cookie was alone but we should understand the girl too.....she was already upset that anu blames himself that she choosed bajaj over him......after that she got too many scoops of bajaj gonna kill anu scenario and then she heard him shout her name.....anddd phirr kyaaa......devdas dekhii thiii usnee bachpan mein....usse yaad aa gayi....ismein us bachi ki kya galtiiii.....😛

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

same here......i see nothing wrong with that bachi reaction either ......but bajaj had shown trust in her......thus expected the same......but for her....its not easy to trust him abhi....atleast not in this situation.....she will take time. Punya toh har kisi ke hi jaage hain jisne bhi usse paaya hain.......as she is a caring bacha.....sacrifices her ownself for others happiness.

Exactly..aur3kaun milega isse acha? I mean any other girl in prernas place would have banged his head for doing that to her..divorce ? Why now? He ruined her life by separating her from anurag.he knew well what he was doing . So he should suffer in this hell and see his beloved wife lovind wife loving someone else throughout the life. That's his prayaschit.

Originally posted by: shrutiraina007

Thanks for penning down the first paragraph!

Not liking the Prerna bashing going around the forum.

Originally posted by: EtherealRati

Though i do understand your point......that with prerna....bajaj will loose his cool and ruthless image........and will turn emotional instead but this is what is gonna happen na. Prerna nahi jayegi uski zindagi se........aur bajaj use toot kar chaahega.

I understand that cookie was alone but we should understand the girl too.....she was already upset that anu blames himself that she choosed bajaj over him......after that she got too many scoops of bajaj gonna kill anu scenario and then she heard him shout her name.....anddd phirr kyaaa......devdas dekhii thiii usnee bachpan mein....usse yaad aa gayi....ismein us bachi ki kya galtiiii.....😛

Originally posted by: _charu_

Exactly..aur3kaun milega isse acha? I mean any other girl in prernas place would have banged his head for doing that to her..divorce ? Why now? He ruined her life by separating her from anurag.he knew well what he was doing . So he should suffer in this hell and see his beloved wife lovind wife loving someone else throughout the life. That's his prayaschit.

Originally posted by: manj

todays devdas scenes were very ott , after last 1 month soulmate japp, today saree burning and hospital scenes were the final straw that broke camel’s back. I genuinely don’t want to see bajaj with prerna . Just not interested , let her go and get humiliated in basu bari. If she leaves bajaj he has a lucky escape .

Regarding prerna being humiliated in basu bari.....once anurag tells bajaj that prerna ko apni zindagi ke saare gham meri ya meri family ki wajah se mile hain.....par aapne prerna ke aage aakar un sam ghamo ka saamna kiya hain ....aap uski zindagi ka sabse bada sahara ho......aapke haath uska saath dene ke liye hamesha tayaar the aur mujhe yakeen hain rahenge. I hope this remains in this season too. Whatever humiliation she now gets from basu's.......it will bajaj defending her always.

Sorry but Bajaj fans talking about Pre like she is some object with no feelings or rights was really nauseating to read....That thread is reeking of so much misogyny its hard to believe that it is still there while @Pinot's topic about Bajaj's fashion sense got trashed....Really???? That was offensive....But talking about a woman as if she is there to serve her blackmailer only is all good and hail....?

What happened to this forum? how much lower can this go...?

Why on earth should prerna trust Bajaj? As if he married her when she was dumped at aisle.

What trustworthy characteristics has he displayed till now for her to blindly trust him? And why should she..

She should not express her distrust.. She should warm up to his touches, she should be a mommy to his kid.. She should be loyal.. Or else she'll b s*** shamed and deemed worthless..

Urgh.. Can't even express the disgust I feel when people reduce her to some emotionless object..

TM this wasn't for you.. Just my pov after reading posts on forum on prerna

I think for me personally, I've never connected to Prerna as a character and her motivations have always been wishy washy at best. The one consistency Prerna has depicted this season is how much she loves, to the point of self-destruction. The love she has for her family and the love she has for Anurag has led her to make some questionable decisions because Prerna doesn't mind burning in hell if it means the people she loves are safe. She almost married the devil to keep her family safe, and then she truly did marry someone she perceived as a demon to keep Anurag safe. My problem with Prerna is that her love and initial judgments of someone make her blind to objective facts. She's done this throughout this season. Anurag is her soulmate so she won't reason with even the smallest idea that he could be wrong. Bajaj is a demon who trapped her so she won't even reason with the fact that he may actually have some depth and motives that have nothing to do with her OR anurag. She's very complacent when she wants things to be a certain way, and she tends to self-sacrifice because it is the only way she thinks to be able to 'save' the ones she loves. Of course like all characters and people, she too is flawed but the disconnect between her writing is so strong that watching her on screen isn't compelling. For me personally, it's hard to root for her when she's constantly blinding herself to even the small moments of progress she makes in her relationship with Bajaj.

Although I do agree with what you've said, it's just frustrating for me personally to relate to her, doesn't mean anyone else is wrong for being able to relate to her. I don't even mind if this doesn't go the PreRish way because right now the story itself hasn't sold me on why Bajaj should be with Prerna, or why Prerna should be with Bajaj. I do believe that this accident hurdle is going to be the last of their miscommunication hurdles, and as soon as this resolved it will make way for more calm between the two. But the writing is incredibly bad and it's not selling me on these two as characters yet. What IS selling me is the chemistry above all else.