Hanuman's emotions for Babita - Page 18

Originally posted by: sheen97

I would like her call HS popsie. Mom babes father popsie. It will suit minnie. I heard my friend call her father that. It gives mix of friendship and father vibes that defines their relation

Haha Babes, Mini and Popsie? 😆 Popsie ki jagah sirf Pops kar do....it will rhyme better with Babes😆....

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

LOLL, it's more likely me being too dumb to pick up on what you're all throwing down. 😆

If that is truly the case then HS' grief and issues ran far deeper than what I had imagined. It pains me greatly to see him be consumed by his own sorrow to this extent. In a way, it mirrored Babita's guilt when it came to personal desires. There were certain things she wanted but could never fully express herself because of LKK. HS, on the other hand, after Imarti's death may have felt guilty about enjoying the little things in life. He may not have taken a lot of stock about filling his daily events with a lot of life since he didn't see the point of it with Imarti being gone.

HS did order food for Babes but he also refused to talk about Imarti. He may have shared a light hearted fact about her, however, when it came to difficult matters, he refused to even broach the topic. He wants to keep Babita and Imarti as far away from each other as possible but it's not possible since he carries Imarti within himself.

The parallels are absolutely there...he deffo struggles with his own form of guilt just like Babita does.

It’s worth noting that he chose to not even sleep comfortably for so many years. He’s sleeping in the verandah outside on a tiny cot despite having so many rooms and space in the haveli. He puts on a happy face declaring how happy and comfortable he is in his existence but it’s a facade.

His emotions come to the fore in moments like being overwhelmed by Babita’s food, her apnapan, her care.....he feels alive after many years....and that’s hard to cope with because on a day to day level, he doesn’t even admit that he’s simply existing, not living.

So it will be intriguing to see his emotional journey as he begins so to truly open himself up to feeling all those emotions again...because it would include opening himself up to vulnerability again...to being open to the pain, the much needed catharsis vis a vis Imarti and actually finding the courage to be happy without guilt.

No, you weren't being dumb .. don't say that .. you have mentioned it too in your multiple posts, albeit implicitly ..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

The parallels are absolutely there...he deffo struggles with his own form of guilt just like Babita does.

It’s worth noting that he chose to not even sleep comfortably for so many years. He’s sleeping in the verandah outside on a tiny cot despite having so many rooms and space in the haveli. He puts on a happy face declaring how happy and comfortable he is in his existence but it’s a facade.

His emotions come to the fore in moments like being overwhelmed by Babita’s food, her apnapan, her care.....he feels alive after many years....and that’s hard to cope with because on a day to day level, he doesn’t even admit that he’s simply existing, not living.

So it will be intriguing to see his emotional journey as he begins so to truly open himself up to feeling all those emotions again...because it would include opening himself up to vulnerability again...to being open to the pain, the much needed catharsis vis a vis Imarti and actually finding the courage to be happy without guilt.

Didn't notice it earlier, but can correlate now ..

Some of his expressions when he says he is phine .. !! (Now) you can clearly see the facade he puts up so as not to reveal his vulnerability..

Or not letting babita touch that sore spot/ raw nerve .. afraid it will hurt her too .. as @Jean says, he is overprotective of her too ..

It will be interesting to see how his wound is shown healing ..

One thing I have never been wrapped my head around is his "beast" talk. Does he truly have one or is it only/merely said for an impact of the scene ..

If his beast = passion then I can understand .. because he is a very passionate man .. but if his beast = violence then it doesn't make any sense to me .. because he is not a violent man .. not his drunkard bapu .. at all

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I resisted watching the clips for quite a while, then ended up giving in and watching a few on mute cuz they are just so friggin cute together❤️😆

I took a few more caps of the forehead moment

The BTS clips make it look like they all had to rehearse many times before giving their takes.....Ashnoor has her earrings off and hair tied up in some of the clips even as she's dancing with full expressions.

This forehead bump is adorable but looks like Ashnoor-Anirudh had to rehearse it many times before giving the official take😆

This is just awwwww. I loved the side head bump he gave her when he hugged her after promising to quit and said no one else had been able to convince him. This looks even cuter. He loves his daughter so much and it's clear that he's also trying to make the best of the festivities for her smile. ❤️

Originally posted by: sanam912

Didn't notice it earlier, but can correlate now ..

Some of his expressions when he says he is phine .. !! (Now) you can clearly see the facade he puts up so as not to reveal his vulnerability..

Or not letting babita touch that sore spot/ raw nerve .. afraid it will hurt her too .. as @Jean says, he is overprotective of her too ..

It will be interesting to see how his wound is shown healing ..

Yes, you can see this more clearly in hindsight when you go back to watch early epis now after having seen his whole journey.

What a remarkable man he is...grappling so much with vulnerability inside himself but putting it all aside for the ones he loves....for Mini, for Babes....he goes the distance....as if easing their pain eases some of his by extension.

Ofcourse there’s a flip side to this. You can’t neglect yourself at the cost of others forever...you need to heal yourself too. HS neglects himself....he can be like a wounded tiger and a grouchy bear about the thorns he’s living with inside. But Mother-Daughter will rise to the occasion and pull out the thorns to help heal him at last.

That scene when Babita pulls the thorn out of his foot was major foreshadowing.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, you can see this more clearly in hindsight when you go back to watch early epis now after having seen his whole journey.

What a remarkable man he is...grappling so much with vulnerability inside himself but putting it all aside for the ones he loves....for Mini, for Babes....he goes the distance....as if easing their pain eases some of his by extension.

Ofcourse there’s a flip side to this. You can’t neglect yourself at the cost of others forever...you need to heal yourself too. HS neglects himself....he can be like a wounded tiger and a grouchy bear about the thorns he’s living with inside. But Mother-Daughter will rise to the occasion and pull out the thorns to help heal him at last.

That scene when Babita pulls the thorn out of his foot was major foreshadowing.

Which episode was that?

Originally posted by: inlieu

This is just awwwww. I loved the side head bump he gave her when he hugged her after promising to quit and said no one else had been able to convince him. This looks even cuter. He loves his daughter so much and it's clear that he's also trying to make the best of the festivities for her smile. ❤️

Oh I loved that side head bump too!

But yeah this looks adorable too...doubled my excitement for this epi ❤️😂

And yes, he’s literally doing every little bit for Mini’s smile...the indulgent affection in his expression says it all.

Originally posted by: sanam912

Which episode was that?

I don’t remember the epi number off the top of my head, but it was this scene: