Prerna's Loyalty - Page 4

Originally posted by: _charu_

🤣 this..cracked me up totally..no man knows how to handle women and specially their tears..Mr bajaj already charon khane chitt hain. Dekha nai latest episode ?

AnuPre saath main hote abhi if Prerna wasn't loyal to her marriage with Bajaj. That is exactly the reason they're not together. 😭

Originally posted by: shrutiraina007

AnuPre saath main hote abhi if Prerna wasn't loyal to her marriage with Bajaj. That is exactly the reason they're not together. 😭

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Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

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Originally posted by: EtherealRati

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No point even in explaining.

Even if I give examples yahi bolenge Anurag is not in his mind, this that. Prerna is forcely married this that.

I have explained as much as I can. So don't want to waste any of time. Where discussion is made just for the sake of it.

Marriage is a partnership. Husband is not the lord of wife and wife is not the slave who will do jee hjuri to everything he wants. What do you mean by if anyon e makes video and make it viral and everyone will put finger on Prerna and not Anu. Do we live in 19th century? Do you want bajaj to beat Prerna? Is he her lord?

This post is highly disrespectful and abusive for any woman.

DT Note: comments amounting to personal attack edited out

I’m gonna say something that’s going to piss off a lot of people but here goes. Marriage is seen as this holy and pure thing in South Asian culture and it’s given soooo much meaning to it but at the end of the day, so many women are tied in this marriage relationship with no way out. They’re in abusive and toxic relationships with their husbands with no way out and divorces are considered social suicide. With arranged marriages, you never really know what you’re gonna get from your partner because you don’t know anything about them. So yes, marriage can be the most meaningful relationship there is and it could be holy and pure but it’s not like that with everyone, especially for the women. There are too much expectations put on them, and their actions are microanalyzed by the in-laws and the rest of the family members. (Yes yes, Not all women are treated this way blah blah blah)

Coming to Bajaj and Prerna, their relationship was neither typical, romantic, or even fair when you think about it. Putting expectations of a typical marriage is unfair to that relationship. It’s unfair to the parties involved in that relationship. We talk about marriages joining families and bringing not just two people but two families together. How can we respect Bajaj bringing Prerna to join his family when he broke the two families that were about to be joined together because of Anurag and Prerna. Nivedita and Mohini let go of their ego because of Anurag’s happiness and were accepting Prerna. In Bajajs house, his family members are doing god knows what. I get that both parties are not the best families, but the point is, Anurag’s family were accepting Prerna before she got married to him.

So I don’t really consider PreRish marriage real and it shouldn’t be compared to the standard of marriage that people get into without any conditions put on them. If tomorrow Prerna wakes up and decides, I don’t really wanna play mother to a man who married me for my loyalty, then what happens? Will Bajaj still respect her decisions? Will he put Anurag in jail? Will his feelings disappear now that he fears she will leave him and daughter and put another condition in front of her? Who knows? Not me.

Originally posted by: jhalak7

Marriage is a partnership. Husband is not the lord of wife and wife is not the slave who will do jee hjuri to everything he wants. What do you mean by if anyon e makes video and make it viral and everyone will put finger on Prerna and not Anu. Do we live in 19th century? Do you want bajaj to beat Prerna? Is he her lord?

This post is highly disrespectful and abusive for any woman.

The way this serial is going who knows they could even make an video for eg Tanvi or Masi or Mohini see they are waiting for a chance to malign Prerna. She is obviously easy target. She can have her full freedom talk, make friends and all that even with ex. But if she can do all this she should even learn how to keep everyone in check or limits whether it's Bajaj or Anu or Mohini or any xyz.

Absolutely true completely agree with you.

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

I’m gonna say something that’s going to piss off a lot of people but here goes. Marriage is seen as this holy and pure thing in South Asian culture and it’s given soooo much meaning to it but at the end of the day, so many women are tied in this marriage relationship with no way out. They’re in abusive and toxic relationships with their husbands with no way out and divorces are considered social suicide. With arranged marriages, you never really know what you’re gonna get from your partner because you don’t know anything about them. So yes, marriage can be the most meaningful relationship there is and it could be holy and pure but it’s not like that with everyone, especially for the women. There are too much expectations put on them, and their actions are microanalyzed by the in-laws and the rest of the family members. (Yes yes, Not all women are treated this way blah blah blah)

Coming to Bajaj and Prerna, their relationship was neither typical, romantic, or even fair when you think about it. Putting expectations of a typical marriage is unfair to that relationship. It’s unfair to the parties involved in that relationship. We talk about marriages joining families and bringing not just two people but two families together. How can we respect Bajaj bringing Prerna to join his family when he broke the two families that were about to be joined together because of Anurag and Prerna. Nivedita and Mohini let go of their ego because of Anurag’s happiness and were accepting Prerna. In Bajajs house, his family members are doing god knows what. I get that both parties are not the best families, but the point is, Anurag’s family were accepting Prerna before she got married to him.

So I don’t really consider PreRish marriage real and it shouldn’t be compared to the standard of marriage that people get into without any conditions put on them. If tomorrow Prerna wakes up and decides, I don’t really wanna play mother to a man who married me for my loyalty, then what happens? Will Bajaj still respect her decisions? Will he put Anurag in jail? Will his feelings disappear now that he fears she will leave him and daughter and put another condition in front of her? Who knows? Not me.

I agree with ur first para. We really can never know any person completely whether it's love or arrange marriage. But I don't think all the women are damsels. Now a days women have financial freedom which prev generation mostly lacked. If you are not happy with ur marriage they are ways either to go counselling and make it work or divorce and live ur life like u wish.

Coming to joining families. Here Prerna did a sacrifice imagine if there was no Bajaj or no marriage proposal or deal as per others. What would have happened is Anurag in Jail serving for 15-20yrs sentence. Prerna is neither completely educated she doesn't have a certificate nor shez street smart. Basus on road without anything. Prerna taking responsibility of both families when neither shez educated or have a job or financially independent. That would have been worse scenario. She sacrificed her life to give Anu a new life and Basis shelter on their head. With or without Bajaj it happened earlier too that basus going bankruptcy and coming on road. Even in Bajaj's absence komolika dad wouldn't have kept quiet and let basus live peacefully.

Coming to Prerish, Prerna can even now go back of her word and apply for divorce claiming half of his property. Who is stopping her to do it. Just herself she don't want to cheat or backoff from the deal.

If shez not cheating why Im questioning her loyalties is not bcz shez having some EMA or physical intimacy with Anu no. I'm asking her or atleast expecting her as a women to protect her respect either it's from Mohini or Nivi or Anu or Bajaj. Her talks or friendships is not the problem with ex but her way of dealing and giving lineance is the problem.

In normal scenario if anyone touches without permission to a women. She might ask the person in a normal way to not touch. But if the person continuously touching her again and again when she asked them not to touch. What will any girl with decency do slap him or show him his limits which Prerna is clearly lacking thus Anurag is taking advantage of it and trying to touch her again and again. Why can't he understands no means no.