Originally posted by: muktha_cute
First thing I never said in my post Prerna can't talk to Anurag. So please read it once bfr saying all this.Why only Anurag she can talk to anyone she wish. It's right of every humanbeing irrespective of gender or marital status.
I think u should read my post again or you just didn't understand what I meant. It's good if she can talk to Anurag and put some sense into him or make him understand or even if she talks casually.here the issue is not abt talking with her ex. The issue is not being strong enough to let not anyone take advantage of you. Here Prerna doesn't mean it's only abt her shez even carrying someone's name, pride and their family reputation. Shez putting that at stake not by talking to her ex but by letting her ex influence her, taking advantage of her, literally giving into her emotions.
What advantage has anurag taken of her ??? and when did she ever give into her emotions......did she ever said "i love you anurag, i care for you" in front of anurag or ever encouraged any of his words ???...she doesnt even say anything when he blames herself in front of her and cries alone......he say 10 things and she makes one statement which breaks him and this happens in almost all their conversations after she got married with bajaj.......she even denied taking his help for her mom until she didnt landed up in crisis situation. She trusted him the most in that situation, still refused .......what more she should do for the family pride and reputation ??....and what family reputation we are talking about.......her own family had put her own mom in jail.........why dint they thought of reputation ???.......i have not personally scene prerna encourage anurag in a single scene after marriage...........she does become silent at times but thats because she has no proper answers to his never ending questions. But woh khud ko hamesha samhal leti hain..........jab bhi anurag uska haath pakadta hain........woh hamesha chuda leti hain. I would like to know when....in which particular scene you felt that anurag took advantage of her.....or their scenes have led to bajaj being insulted. And till the part influence is ..........prerna has loved anurag .........she knows him as a person, so when he says something so strongly.........he is bound to influence her and her being influenced is normal because she doesnt knows bajaj yet to know what he is capable of and what he won't do.
If she can handle herself, her emotions and keep her ex in line she can even befriend him. But what shez doing is getting carried away, allowing him to show his right on her, allowing him to talk dirty(doesn't mean sexual but like ur mine, u belong to me etc) aren't all these cheap talks atleast for a married women to hear from other man whether ex or stranger or any. Her ex is twisting words and taking advantage of her situation and shez allowing him instead of putting a full stop for his nonsense.
See anurag is bound to say all that crap (because he has been wronged and he doesnt knows why he has been wronged)......his actions are wrong many times, that i agree.....but he is in a bad state of mind..moreover he feels she has married bajaj because she was forced.......Prerna here loves him......she cant just push him away like that ......though she does tries her best but physically harming him is not what she will be able to do.......by words she has cut his heart into pieces many times.....she said so many times that this isnt possible when he said he wants her back....has she ever said, okay go fight for me.....she has always asked him to be away......."is janam mein toh nahi hoga" was another statement she made ........she even said that if she took janam again and had to choose btw bajaj and anurag.....she will again choose bajaj ...what more she can say........she said all she could. She is looking for a friendship with him only because she doesn't want to leave him in tears and have understood that she is too much important for him to forget....so she thought befriending could help. I personally feels she tries all she can always.
As a friend she can make tea, coffee, cook food all is ok. When he even respects her and treats her like a friend. He is constantly reminding their past, their love relationship, saying he wants to be her lover, asking her to come to him leaving her husband and she allows him to do all this nonsense talk and still serve him what is the impression shez making to the guy here. That it's ok for her to hear and bare all it and shez not feeling all those words and conversation as cheap which any married women would feel.
See while making roti or tea also, she has always cut his nonsense talks. Making the tea or roti is normal gesture, that can be done for anyone. I agree anurag can have a wrong impression from that but i wont go that strict on prerna .......she is a very caring character.....if she can support bajaj, change his bandages even when she has no feeling for him. Then anurag toh is her love, making tea or roti for him as he wasnt able to make and was requesting her wasnt that big deal for her from her perspective, she is normally a very caring person.
I could see that expression on her face of getting caught when Bajaj came into kitchen. May be u didn't feel it it's ur perspective. Acc to me at that moment and even after that in bedroom I could see and sense gulit in her body language this is my perspective.
okay...lets agree to disagree on this then.
If Anurag didn't acquire BM would Bajaj have acquired BB? If Bajaj wanted he could have thrown them out. This is the second time he let them go, first one bcz of marriage with Prerna and even now just for sake of Prerna.
See anurag acquired BM to take revenge from bajaj, that was not prerna's mistake. Bajaj invited that by snatching away anurag dulhan from him. But bajaj could have choosen to live somewhere else, usne yeh nahi soacha that how will prerna manage in the basu house.....that's the thing....he thought teaching anurag a lesson was more important and put his wife in such a uncomfortable spot that she is sharing house with her ex who still isnt aware of why she has married someone else.
Bajaj was and is still ok if Prerna loves Anurag. He never objected or felt bad abt prerna's love for Anurag. He never even stopped or asked to stop to talking to Anu. Bcz he knows what he had signed for. Just bcz someone is giving us freedom whether parents, family or husband its not ok to misuse it or break their trust. So Bajaj never had any physical expectations from her not even emotional expectations. He just wanted her to not think abt him as some lusty or pervert guy. He felt bad that she must have thought he touched her with wrong intentions. This is even mentioned in Swiss track where he clarified her that time he didn't have any soft corner or feelings for her. Still he clarified why bcz he didn't want to be treated or looked by Prerna as a pervert or lusty guy. That is what he felt when she moved his hand. Hope I cleared it. Other thing Prerna was touching him even bfr dance. She challenged or instigated him for that dance. She flirted with him may be unintentionally. He thought she started trusting him and doesn't feel uncomfortable if he treats her like rest eg like Tanvi. So as a casual gesture he placed his hand on her but he got hurt thinking she still doubts his intentions.
See she was not doubting his intentions .........the thing is bajaj was looking at it that from his perspective and that's why he thought she was doubting him. Prerna reason is that she is uncomfortable.....not because she feels he is naveen babu but because the way they got married and she hardly knows him. In that particular situation, bajaj ko gussa hone ka hak nahi tha.......haan bura feel karna was normal. But he has to bear it.......he has invited this all. He need to keep expectations low from prerna in terms of knowing him and in terms of physical intimacy. I was shocked when prerna said 99 percent people aapko galat samajhte hain....and he said aap un 1 percent mein se ho..right ???.....abhi bahut jaldi hain for her to be in that 1 percent ...abhi mahina nahi hua shaadi ko........she hardly know him and he wants to understand him completely.....time lagega is sab mein.....yeh rishab ko samajhna chahiye. I am glad prerna dint answered that.
So Bajaj's concern or interest was never about physical intimacy. He felt offended that she is thinking him as some pervert. Which was cleared from Prerna side. Even after that still hez avoiding to coming near Prerna when she unknowingly is getting near to him physically.
I have never doubted bajaj intentions.......i just feel sometimes that he expect too much from her too early.
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