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Posted: 6 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Ajgud

Guddan love AJ ?? Biggest joke of the century 🤣🤣🤣🤣

joker to aj bangaya saying he loves her when he had no trust on guddan 🤣...

he was ready to marry antara and claimed to be in love

🤣universe ka joke tha

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Nice post.There is very small difference between ego and self respect.

Ego in wife and husband relation means thinking that they can live without each other,competing with each other in small things and even in decision making also they want upper hand.

Self respect means making the opposite person realize his/her feelings,emotions,respecting each other decisions and supporting that whatever situation.

Sorry These are not dictionary meaning but this is something I realized from experience through counseling people.

Previously Guddan never left the house when her Bahus were insulting her because her husband was with her always though initially he dint loved her but respected her what she was..but after Antara came and that kaand of spending night happened ..even though Guddan was telling that he dint do anything he neither believed himself nor Guddan and later AJ accused of killing unborn baby who was never existed but without hearing anything and believing bass AJ ne faisala sunadiya and left which was major blow on their relationship.

In wife and husband relationship everything should be mutual.its a bond which they both have to work on it.it should never be one-sided,jab marzi huyi chod do ,jab marzi huyi hug karlo..aisa nahi nota

A girl leaves her parents house and enters a new house with a expectation that she will be treated with same respect.both husband and wife cannot take each other for granted,

In sasural koyi saat ho ya na ho if husband is with you ,with your decision..that is biggest strength any women can have.lekin jab husband uska saat chod diya then it’s important for that person to make him realize her importance,her feelings,her emotions.i know adjustments are needed in marriage but even it should be two-way.

Here Guddan is not leaving AJ,she dint signed divorce nor she had taken decision in a fit of anger,,she wants to give space to both of them,to think what happened in last few days.

Edited by rockingcouple12 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

tu yoga karle ...no one can explain u...

its like Image result for head on the wall gif

dealing with u...

its not about ur nishant its aj darling

When did I say about Nishant talking about AJ Thrn Guddan should have thrown divorce paper ..as agar us rishtey ka koi future nahi achanak se jag uthi self respect ki to Bhai Unchshe ristey me kyu bandh ke raho khud bhi Aur tumhare culprit ko bhi Unnecessary tie up karo...kuch bhi bakwas ...

Real life this type of stupidity don't go if person have done wrong and you are not compatible enough Thrn end the relationship and move on ....

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: RISH1234

I so so so loved guddan today....so proud of ths charactr 🥳👏

Wish d antra trck ws over here only....nd AJ redemption trck ws focused on.....but 🤷...

I fl Aunty ws d reason for breakng thr trust and relationship in first year (aunty ws thr since day 1 🙄)...nw aunty vl only b d reason for buildng d trust and relationship bk...

Still watchng scenes here and thr Guddan scene 👏 a

But honestly m bored vth ths drama....

proud moment for us 🥳

exactly if antara track got over yesterday it was a great impact

trust was the main thing but one more thing aj never allowed her to explain he didnt give her the chance seeda verdict de di🤪

bored me too my interest how guddan will change in leap ...

lets see ..

this melodrama i think i will skip these 3 episodes

wu --we will see in insta

start fresh when leap starts

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ajgud

Then she should have given divorce if trust is broken and they have no future either according to miss self respect ...then instead of leaving she should have thrown divorce papers on the face of AJ and walks out

Sorry ...this is called double standard nothing agar itna Hi self respect kk padi hai Then why to hear MS and sindoor woh bhi aise insaan ke liye jisney apka bharosha toda hai seriously ..

Throw divorce at the face and walks out ..but no instead Unnecessary tie the culprit for life in Unnecessary bond hyprocracy at his best !

With AJ ahhoti g her up Akshan kahanu is finished as Guddu said pyaar jabardasti nahi hota did she ever love AJ ?? Bass aap dil mai dhadkan ...bade bade dialogue jharne se self respect nahi ata hai . ..

Now what next New love For Guddan who loses in this game ..AJ babaji ka thullu for AJ and audience ( AJ lover ) and I am proud of that.

TV ki hyprocracy ...ki jai ....

she loves him but is scared to believe him again what if he again breaks her trust & believing her

She can't take it again him not believing her.its quiet normal her behavior as she went through lots and lots that too alone none of them believed her

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Posted: 6 years ago
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🤣🤣🤣🤣chhodoh shailu, riya ko samjanah abhi hum sabse na ho paayega🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ajgud

When did I say about Nishant talking about AJ Thrn Guddan should have thrown divorce paper ..as agar us rishtey ka koi future nahi achanak se jag uthi self respect ki to Bhai Unchshe ristey me kyu bandh ke raho khud bhi Aur tumhare culprit ko bhi Unnecessary tie up karo...kuch bhi bakwas ...

Real life this type of stupidity don't go if person have done wrong and you are not compatible enough Thrn end the relationship and move on ....

If you keeping ending relationships then everyone will be single..do you really think in real world loving each other means singing romantic songs and agar misunderstanding huyi toh divorce that person..it dont work like that..its very tough to leave a person who you love to leave but sometimes it becomes necessary for both to introspect their mistakes and work on it by giving space and time to each other.and definitely it cannot happen by giving divorce.

I know you will not be convinced but still I tried to explain.🙏

Edited by rockingcouple12 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockingcouple12

Nice post.There is very small difference between ego and self respect.

Ego in wife and husband relation means thinking that they can live without each other,competing with each other in small things and even in decision making also they want upper hand.

Self respect means making the opposite person realize his/her feelings,emotions,respecting each other decisions and supporting that whatever situation.

Sorry These are not dictionary meaning but this is something I realized from experience .

Previously Guddan never left the house when her Bahus were insulting her because her husband was with her always though initially he dint loved her but respected her what she was..but after Antara came and that kaand of spending night happened ..even though Guddan was telling that he dint do anything he neither believed himself nor Guddan and later AJ accused of killing unborn baby who was never existed but without hearing anything and believing bass AJ ne faisala sunadiya and left which was major blow on their relationship.

In wife and husband relationship everything should be mutual.its a bond which they both have to work on it.it should never be one-sided,jab marzi huyi chod do ,jab marzi huyi hug karlo..aisa nahi nota

A girl leaves her parents house and enters a new house with a expectation that she will be treated with same respect.both husband and wife cannot take each other for granted,

In sasural koyi saat ho ya na ho if husband is with you ,with your decision..that is biggest strength any women can have.lekin jab husband uska saat chod diya then it’s important for that person to make him realize her importance,her feelings,her emotions.

Here Guddan is not leaving AJ,she dint signed divorce nor she had taken decision in a fit of anger,,she wants to give space to both of them,to think what happened in last few days.

u explained so well ..

a girl comes with empty mind in sasural

only one relation is important for her thats hubby and if saas is good she might see a mother in her..

its up to family who gel with her or be untouchable ..

only hubby should be strength

a girl life 3 important things parents, hubby and kids ..

when rawat said aj killed antara she never supported him yes she did foolish things but trust was strong ..

when aj thought he did kandh guddan trusted he never did .

always she had no trust issues but aj saw facts in everything never trusted her.

guddan gelled so well with the family always stood for them

initially aj was her support and dadi too

post antara they left her alone ..

even after guddan saved there lives they didnt trust her she almost had died for this family how cant they trust her..

aj even termed her as "baby killer""goldigger"

what not ..in anger he said many things which ppl might have forgotten ...trust me it was hurtful

to ring to chits he kept on hitting on her heart and its broken now

so she did a wise thing

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockingcouple12

If you keeping ending relationships then everyone will be single..do you really think in real world loving each other means singing romantic songs and agar misunderstanding huyi toh divorce that person..it dont work like that..its very tough to leave a person who you love to leave but sometimes it becomes necessary for both to introspect their mistakes and work on it by giving space and time to each other.and definitely it cannot happen by giving divorce

forget it dear riya ko explain karna its hitting ur head on a rock

Edited by rs-shailu29 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: an_shaini

🤣🤣🤣🤣chhodoh shailu, riya ko samjanah abhi hum sabse na ho paayega🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

exactly 🤣

nishant ke sabse badi fan jo hai

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