If you are in love with one person and fall for other - Page 5

Anurag ne komo se shaadi sirf apna business bachane k liye ki ...usne ek Baar bhi Prerna aur uski family k baare Mai nahi socha atleast Prerna ne Jo Kiya wo Anurag aur uski family k liye Kiya....bina apni family k baare Mai soche

Anurag 👎= Selfish

Originally posted by: Parijatrocks

but pyaar saccha ho

Kya second time pyaar ho saktha hai kisiko bhi

I wonder in this

Pehla pyaar kho saktha hai if its not love if it was infatuation

But pyaar nahin hai bajaj se phir bhi pyaar hai concept samajke bahar hai

Yes, it happens second time.. But not like the first time... You just dont fall in love secomd time like your first one. Second love is manipulated by a lot of things while the first love is avove all. You dont fall in love with two people simultaneosuly. One have to go for one to come. But the reality is the one came first will never go. So, you have to learn to subside him.

Its all very complicated and of course not happen with everyone. Why calling the first love a infactuation? Cant second love be a infactuation? The sahara, understandings, love the person gives you and you name the gratefulness as love... You are not in a mood to repent your mistaken feelings coz you are so engorged to prove that you have moved on from your first love?

Second love happens but a lot of them are faultfulls. Why blaming the first love's feeling always? Second love can also be infactuations..

Originally posted by: -simmi-

Its unfair of you to write off those people who believe in new aged love.

Maybe you believe love is like that but someone may not believe it. Different people perceive love differently. IMO Prerna and Anurag love wasn't strong enough but it is still love. Just like the title song of KZK "chahat ke safar mein dilon ke hausle dekho, ye aksar toot jaate hai" .

New aged love introduced hookups, one night stand, swinging, swapping and sleep overs in the name of love. Earlier what was forbidden is acceptable. May be love is just like another thing. Its working one day not working another day.

Originally posted by: stardustsoul

Anurag ne komo se shaadi sirf apna business bachane k liye ki ...usne ek Baar bhi Prerna aur uski family k baare Mai nahi socha atleast Prerna ne Jo Kiya wo Anurag aur uski family k liye Kiya....bina apni family k baare Mai soche

Anurag 👎= Selfish

Oh hello prerna k GHAR k liye BHI..Woh GHAR jiske liye prerna Naveen babu se bhi shadi Karne chali thi..Yaad Aya???

Originally posted by: stardustsoul

Anurag ne komo se shaadi sirf apna business bachane k liye ki ...usne ek Baar bhi Prerna aur uski family k baare Mai nahi socha atleast Prerna ne Jo Kiya wo Anurag aur uski family k liye Kiya....bina apni family k baare Mai soche

Anurag 👎= Selfish

Prerna ko Anurag ki mistake repeat karne ki zaroorat nahi thi. Anurag bach gaya tha phir mat karti bajaj se shadi.

Anurag and Prerna dono ne ek dusre ke saath hone ke liye kabhi try hi nahi kiya. Problem aayi chalo bhag jate hain.

Who wrote that phrase ? I never read this phrase and glad for that because the phrase is very bad and does not stand true at all. 😆

Who is Prerna to decide for the kid ? Well she is a biological mother of the baby. That certainly gives her some rights especially when she was abandoned by the father of the baby when she learnt she was pregnant. In first world countries, that gives a girl all the rights of the world. Here you dont need a father's name, but definitely need mother's name for most of the things after birth.

Anyways, the story stinks overall, so no point discussing the tracks.

Originally posted by: yurimehta11

Concept of falling out of love is recently popularised while love is there for centuries. Shahjahan never given up on his love for Mumtaz, Moomal never given up, Heer Ranjha never given up. There were countless stories where people never give up on love despite death of one partner.

Those who claimed to love than instead of making relationship work, run away, were never in love. They were liking idea of love.

This can be your perspective but you make it sound as if this is the only truth and fact in existence. Don't do that. Judgement is different from assumption and right now, I feel, this is an assumption. Maybe this is how love is for you. Others may have a different definition of love. You cannot say that only love in your definition is a true one while these people never truly loved. That's about it.

Originally posted by: yurimehta11

There is phrase that if you love a person and fall for another person. You should stay with second person because you never loved person 1.

Anurag never falls in love with Komolika despite marrying her. So he loved Prerna with all he can have.

Prerna will fall in love with Bajaj means she never loved Anurag with all herself. Anurag is part of her life but never her life. She never loved him, if she did she had done anything to do with him. If she loved him she choose to divorce Bajaj and reunite with Anurag.

What is stopping you lady?

Your kid and his biological father has all right to be each other.

Who are you to decide who will be official father of child?

The kid is growing in your womb, doesn't give you absolute power to decide everything.

Atleast tell kid's father about existence of the kid. Bajaj may be turned out great father for the kid but he is not kid's father. There will be question in kid's mind.

If roles were reversed will Revenge hungry Baj really let Anu pass his ghar ka chirag as his own. When the shoe is on the other foot they will behave differently.

Pre never loved Anu...she can claim to have sacrificed for him but what kind of woman never tells the man she claimed to love about her pregnancy while she was all happy and ready to marry him even before Baj rolled into town.

She wanted Anu to declare he loved her when Ronit’s kidnapped her but didn’t feel the urgency or care to tell him about his baby? All she wanted was someone who bailed her out of her impulsive sojourns into trouble and Anu gets whacked time and again over the head to save her sorry person.

Anu deserves better.even married to Komo he always said in spite of the wedding ceremony, Pre was his top priority always and he followed through. She got him to promise he would always love her which he does (why only heavens know) she promised never to leave him again and broke her promise.

She’s like the woman who destroys every man she gets close to. Naveen got hauled out to jail, Anu is a wreck and Baj’s turn is coming soon. He’s probably going to rue the day he chose her. He too has to pay a price for the mess he has brought into Anu’s life.

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

I don't believe in this phrase. I believe, one can fall in love again, despite having loved someone else prior to that person without this thing of you didn't love the first if you fell for the second.

While I don't know, what stops Prerna from revealing her pregnancy to him, I do not find it beyond redemption for apparently, the kid's biological father who is also a genius in Chemistry, Biology and what not - did not, even once, put forward a genuine query - that after doing what they did - was she, by any chance, pregnant? Come on, who doesn't think about it after getting intimate?

No one asks such a question. Prerna herself realised she is pregnant when the doctor told her.

She had forgotten about her land

Why blame anurag

Originally posted by: reeyacute

No one asks such a question. Prerna herself realised she is pregnant when the doctor told her.

She had forgotten about her land

Why blame anurag

What do you mean by nobody asks such questions?😆 Of course they do. In fact, I believe men are more cautious about the same than women. I don't give much to Prerna's realisation. Anurag has anyway shown more mature, more intelligent rather genius than her. It is beyond my understanding that it is yet to strike him. Do you think we will get a flashback with a bit that he might have, at least, once wondered about it? Considering the kind of flashbacks we have got, it would not be surprising if we get one. 😆

Because admit it or not, it was Anurag who initiated the consummation. (Despite knowing that he sure didn't have a condom. Of course who roams with a condom in pocket when he is rushing to save a kidnapped girl?) Now, do these people need a sex education to know what happens when you don't use protection and go ahead with the intimacy? I don't say that Prerna has no faults. She has a bunch of them but I find Anurag's ones, out of his character and too lame to buy.