Originally posted by: asmaanixx
Oh gosh, I'm so sorry that happened to you. I absolutely hate how everyone has started to put a disclaimer of not wanting to offend anyone before or after their posts. You have something to say, say it freely. Just don't go bashing others for not agreeing with you and that's not even a lot to ask. That's just Etiquette 101.
I do agree with you in the changed dynamic between Minnie and Preet. Preet did and said a lot of mean things to Minnie, especially during a time when everything around her was falling apart. If it weren't for Mickey, who knows how much further into depression she would have gone. Having someone who takes the time out to just listen and be there for you means A LOT. And I'm saying that from personal experience.
The thing I love most about Mickey is that he is an extremely loyal and good friend. He genuinely cares about their problems and pitches in to find solutions. Anyone can just listen and while that has value, it means even more when someone actually helps you out of a difficult situation.
Again, I don't know why dating is being so heavily frowned upon. Dating is not equivalent to getting married. Just give her the freedom to explore the scene. If she finds that's not something she's interested in, then that's totally cool. But to totally shut down that avenue for her without her even trying it is not right.
And on a side note, if your significant other can be your best friend, then I think you've struck gold.
I just ignore the haters lol their lives are obviously really said if they can be a bully over a tv show that’s fiction.
Childhood friend or not, I’m sure deep down mini would know that when she was at her lowest point, preet wasn’t there for her. In fact preet was making things worse for her at college.
Very well written I also agree that I got the feel that mickey looks up to hs and therefore will pick up some good qualities from him. From what he spoke of his father they seem to have more of a “do as I say” relationship.
I actually think mini’s feelings might have been there all the time but her anger cos of ashok made her not recognise it, and now that she’s seen a man who’s different, she’s perhaps seeing mickey in a different light.
With regards to ppl having an issue about her dating, I also wondered the same. I took it mean that it’s perhaps older folk who equate dating to soon getting married before something like the girls falling pregnant happens (the “what would ppl say” generations 😲😃)
Ps I love how this show pushes boundaries on society and what they say. I’m a firm believer that a person shouldn’t live for the gossips and whether you do good or bad, ppl will always have something to say about u. I love mini’s attitude on this topic. The fact is no1 outside ones family Has a right to an opinion on your life so they should stop being given that right.
BOLD- ikr! In a world full of crappy men, when u find a good one who can also be a friend, he should not be let go.
I wonder if they’d show the “other woman” perspective thru mini? Like maybe how it’s not that women go around seducing men, it’s only men who are not committed that allow themselves to fall for someone else? Too often the Mita’s Are blamed when it’s Actually the one in the relationship to be blamed