Not looking in the eyes

Riti here.🤗.

By my username it is clear that I have seen Anirud's previous work also and I am his fan😊😳..

I really like PB because of simple and fresh storyline..

I wanted to share this but didn't get time due to exam and office work.but now when I am writing on forum I want to write all the points ..I have regarding the serial

*Babita.-yes , she should have tried to go London..but as we don't know the back story .may be ashok said ..he can not manage the finance if they will stay with him ..or whatever..and it's not a big deal ..I have seen so many people who left there family at village and went to live in big cities obviously to earn money and sometimes they go back ..some times don't..and

Maybe babita was really naive , as we all know.she might have not raised her points.thoughts , because her in-laws were not that much supportive

Ashok ,- he is at fault 100%..if he could not see his future with babita..he should have clearly told her ..and his family too ..and then he could have easily married Mita or not..he wouldn't have been that much at fault

Moreover if you get married it's your responsibility to be faithful and give your 100% to make it work ..

Meeta ...no Matter ..how much she got treated badly ..she didn't have any right to snatch someone's husband... when she came to know he is married...then and there she must have put the condition in front of ashok to tell his family and wife about her .. otherwise she will leave

She spent 7years with him even after knowing a wife and a daughter is waiting for him

On current track

I think what CV wanted to show is babita might love hs but she doesn't understand him ..as when she put that condition to say sorry to her ..she was looking here and there and her focus was not his eyes , his face ...if she has seen his face she would have understood his pain feelings..hurt

It can be concluded she gets the picture.. bigger picture but not main point

In case of minni ..she always looks at his face ..in his eyes ..so she gets better understanding of his current situation.. turmoil..hurt...she gets the point if not whole picture....

May be they wanted to convey the message..don't look at somebody's action or listen what they are saying but focus on their feelings (see in their eyes to check if there words and eyes and face say same thing or not)

Similar things happened when he said those hurtful words to her ..she didn't see in his eyes her focus was on his words..yes he was wrong totally I didn't like the way he used maryada and paraya mard

But we all are humans ..flawed .and if they are going into something like marriage they must understand each other.. sometimes we hurt knowingly or unknowingly our dear ones ..when we are hurt we hurt others ...but instead of forcing them to apologize we must communicate with them and make them realize how and what things hurt deeply

All and all communication is key

Eyes are window to the soul

I think that I was the only one who dared to say that Babita was to blame for the breakup of her Marriage as it takes two to tango but no one got the point but instead blamed Mita as bring the other women typical mentality is not good. As the whole picture needs to be looked at before you blame the other for the breakdown of the Marriage. We don't if Ashok had asked Babita to go to London with him a few times and if she refused saying that she needs to look after the inlaws than it explains his lack of interest everytime he came back to India and his affair with Mita.

I think that there is more to Babita and Ashok Marriage that has not been shown. And why she is finding it hard to let go of her failed Marriage and the even bigger problem and ego issues with why he left her after giving 17 years of her life in looking after his Parents and there is the bigger issue of how he dared to leave her is the question here. Is there something that we have not seen yet to understand why she has this mental block.

Why is it always easier to blame the Husband here as she has been portrayed as the ideal Daughter in law but sadly not a good Wife or Mother is the question here.

She could not see her Daughter looking for a Father's love and hence her bad behaviour, mood swings and fighting and anger issues have never been dealt by her but instead pampered her and never corrected at all or understood her daughter and even ignored her is not good. Showed her Daughter how good she is and her father in a negative light.

Now Mini is seeing her Babes in a new light as a shallow and full of ego and temper issues and this is making her think that maybe it was not all her Father's fault and her Mother's 2nd Marriage will fail as well if she carries on as she is doing now.

Yes, Babita is not there yet when it comes to this relationship. She needs to step up but that will need some growth on her part.