Anaa aur muhabbat: ajao saray - Page 25

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I don't want to but feeling hi aisi aa ri hai. The more I think about what Babes did, the harder it makes me wanna cry. HS has given Minnie many lectures on maintaining discipline and a certain level of respect in the house and towards him; I hope he does the same with Babes. If Babes has bared her feelings before him, then he needs to do the same. He too needs to lay down his demands before her and straight up ask her if she's willing to accept them or not.

It's not and I really, truly love this show. But the hurt that I feel from watching today's episode is inexpressible to me. From watching previous episodes, I can pinpoint exactly what bothered me and why. But today is just something else. It's like something is pricking the back of my heart. 😭

I feel that way too, and I think in my case it's partly because I've always felt the timing was wrong and often suspect if they are indeed right for each other. Yes, they deserve happiness but does it really lie with one another?

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Another thing, Babita’s ex-in-laws interfering in their relationship is gonna bother HS in the future. What he said to Babita about senior citizens always coming at the wrong time I think was indicative of that.

Yes, it was !!

He respects them for sure .. guardian that they both need .. but they need their space too .. and they are her in-laws, not necessarily be his .. they are only connected to him through minnie, albeit not officially yet ..

Originally posted by: sanam912

Yes, it was !!

He respects them for sure .. guardian that they both need .. but they need their space too .. and they are her in-laws, not necessarily be his .. they are only connected to him through minnie, albeit not officially yet ..

We wrote pretty much the same thing. Hi-five! 😃

Oka.

I guess i was the only one who put my judgement about babes on hold till the next episode.

But,after reading all the discussion, my all hopes are gone to drains.

Babita has been self centered since the day one.She other than the ashok jail for drug case time,never,i mean Never actually knew about minni's state of mind.

She never know what minni is thinking. She didnt get it that minni was upset about refusing her dream college,had wrong & wild reaction about hs n minni bonding over the karrate match,Even the psychiatrist idea was appalling for her.even now,Minni had to tell her in her face that she knew about hanita and their feeling !!

Trust babita to be the only mother who have no idea that minni has issues which HS noticed and warned minni in their very first meeting. Remember, ”chori tu jada angry ho jati hain,dialogue?"

So,this totally la la land babita is expected.

Yet, i had a weird hope.just because they showed babes remembering all harsh words she said before,i wish tomorrow she apologise for everything. They may show she just wanted to start from a clean slate so tested hs first. She just saw how much hs value her even though that hurt him he did what she wanted.I just want her this realization. Wishful thinking . I know.

I dont know if i made any sense

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes! Minnie felt a bit bad but I think she also started to understand what he meant. They need their space and just because Minnie adores them doesn't mean he has to as well. They are Babita's ex in-laws, not parents. He respects them but there's an invisible boundary (which I think is a good thing).

Dadu Beeji will have to understand that HS and Babita's relationship will be outside their sphere, that Minnie and her father will have a different equation than theirs.

Also, I won't be surprised if Beeji questions HS' parenting style. Felt that when he talked about discipline yesterday.

LOL I reiterated you in my post .. Oops sorry !!

BOLD Agree fully. They need to understand their boundaries .. and I think it was prefectly reflective of Minnie's expressions .. it is HS-Bb decision to marry not theirs !!

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

All that she is looking for is security, someone who loves Minnie and will be a father to her and who will treat her like a queen and who will bear his soul to her. But to reach there, you need to be worthy of someone's trust, you have to earn it. You have to take the pains to discover the various layers of the person. You need to be empathetic, you need to talk, have discussions, a dialogue but she is so self absorbed and the only thing babita does are monologues. She has made up her mind about something and it has to absolutely pan out that way such as when she wanted him not to drink just to name one example and when things don;t pan out her way her ego takes a hit. She never tries to understand things from the other person's perspective.

Well HS will not be walked all over. Poor guy now he has to work on her and mould her, etc.

Come on she is not a child! High time she grew up!! High time she woke up and smelled the coffee!

I am so frustrated with her!!

Despite all this I was so happy for her yesterday. Genuinely so but yes she just had to screw up and lay conditions before accepting his gifts!!! Just saw the episode in bits and pieces since I was cooking so I may have gotten things wrong.

If so my sincere apologies!

Going to watch it now.

I am hurting for my Hanuman Singh!

@bold

As I said, he has two kids to parent now, LOL.

Don't be too frustrated. Apna time ayega!

Originally posted by: Manasi_MD

Yaar aaj ka pura episode darr darr ke, pause kar kar ke dekha hai.

Can't see HS in soo much pain. 😭

As someone on the forum has already pointed out, Babita has a one-track mind. Ek cheez pakad li toh bas uske baare mein hi obsess karna hai. She cannot look beyond that obsession to understand the other person's point of view. Aaj bhi wohi hua. How else can anyone miss the look of utter hurt in Hanuman's eyes?

Babita's eyes are now clouded by her dreams. Ek baar un badalon ko hatne do, phir usse HS ki dil ke dard ki baarish nazar aayegi.

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I noticed for the first time how good Hanuman Singh is at emotional scenes??

This apology scene reminded me of one scene of the big bang theory. Male lead, Leonard has a overachieving psychologist mother who is always condescending about his achievements. And she doesn't realise that how much her words hurt Leonard ( she is not the unconditional love showering mother). One day,in a meltdown Leonard finally confronts his mother about how she failed him as a mother and how much her behavior hurts him. His mother says, " But that was never my intention". To which Leonard replies," It doesn't matter what you intended, what matters is how you made me feel".

This isn't an exact analogy of today's apology scene but I think it is pretty close one. HS didn't mean it, but still his words did hurt Babita. Can't downplay effect of his actions on babita.

She is totally within her right to feel hurt and upset. She can even expect him to apologize for his hurtful words if she wants to. It's the way she did it and the reason behind that we are having an issue with.

Originally posted by: inlieu

The reason you feel this hurt is because the characters and their lives feel so real.

He will not made demands or ask for things because he is not like that. All he would want from her is love and respect, but for that he will not put conditions.

One more thing. We saw, along with Minne, the extent of HS' love for Imarti and what made that bond so special and changed him to the man he is today. Babita saw none of that! She has to eventually, in order to understand him.

Maybe. I think I need to step back a bit and re-evaluate everything that has happened thus far. The overwhelming emotions are beginning to cloud my judgment.

I also think it has something to with the fact that I can't relate to the characters given their current status in life. I'm neither a mother or wife. Heck, I'm a 24 year old woman who has never been in a romantic relationship before. So all the layered complexities that I'm getting to witness, while I'm super appreciative of it, it's also starting to overwhelm me as I feel completely lost. Like, I have no idea what life is nor all the intricacies that come with it.

Originally posted by: inlieu

She is totally within her right to feel hurt and upset. She can even expect him to apologize for his hurtful words if he wants to. It's the way she did it and the reason behind that we are having an issue with.

Yeah. What she did was blackmailing. HS had to apologize as he made the mistake but the way he was made to apologize was insulting.