cheating & extra marital affair - Page 4

Originally posted by: hasini009

Darr nahi, I dont wanna drag this anymore. this sudden change in your e-behavior started 1 or 2 weeks back I think. pehle sab sad songs/posts and now gender change.

Nope , I am just an attention seeking idiot. Sad songs tho, everyone listen to those but my mistake was posting it on IF.

I like flirting though.😆

Originally posted by: Stark_Wolf

Its personal story of someone I know, got scared after writing it lol there are so many mallu's here, I'm sure 1/2 might be from my area too n what I wrote was popular news of my place, dint Want anyone to know who I am😆

So ur giving it out here anyway. Might as well not have edited. 😝

Originally posted by: DeisyM

I have one question to members here, for suggestion. If a girl is not happy in her marriage and want to give divorce, what should she do? She had an arrange marriage. She wants to give divorce but worry about her family knowing it that her relatives will say many bad things to her parents. Now should she compromise or give divorce or force herself to love her husband?

That's a tricky situation if she wants her peace of mind or wants her patents to be happy. Why care about relatives? They're are A1 ba*t*rds (both genders) anyway! They break families anyways.

The best would be to take her parents into confidence tell them the issues n get a divorce. Compromise n putting on a pretense is suicidal.

Originally posted by: DeisyM

I have one question to members here, for suggestion. If a girl is not happy in her marriage and want to give divorce, what should she do? She had an arrange marriage. She wants to give divorce but worry about her family knowing it that her relatives will say many bad things to her parents. Now should she compromise or give divorce or force herself to love her husband?

It all depends on how independent you are as a person? I mean if you have a job of ur own, and can support yourself financially.. can afford a place of your own etc. Relatives will be "upset" for a while.. like they say "log toh bolenge.." but it's temporary.. and ppl get over these things.. everyone has their own shit to deal with etc. 😊

That's why I think it's so important for girls and women to have a career, education, a plan B.. To be self-sufficient etc

Originally posted by: mysterious_rain

thats terrible, can you give link to that post?

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/cqoofq/my_friend_20f_is_having_an_affair_with_a_46m_man/

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/3fd1qt/just_found_out_that_i_33m_might_possibly_have_a/

This person was banging co-worker when his wife was going through post martum depression🤢.

I don't know if it is right to share this here but I would be keeping the names anonymous. I personally know someone who was in a relationship with a girl for almost 6 yrs but while in relationship he fell for someone else. But as he was committed, he couldn't back off and married the first girl and now is stuck in a loveless marriage. The person now regrets the decision and lacks guts to divorce his now wife. I think the guy actually destroyed three lives. All three people in picture are unhappy. Sometimes people stay in a relation for family's happiness or may be because they have to put up with an image in public. I personally feel that if you are not happy in a relationship and find yourself cheating on your partner, it's better to get a divorce and let your partner live with dignity.

Originally posted by: Bigbang_SHINee

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/cqoofq/my_friend_20f_is_having_an_affair_with_a_46m_man/

Originally posted by: mysterious_rain

thanks for sharing. the comments are ridiculous blaming only him though and calling her naive, she’s not that young to not know better and is an adult , she is also disgusting for fooling around with such an old man who has kids and wife too

Yeah. I feel sorry for only for the friend who made this post and the guy's long-term partner/wife.

Originally posted by: Bigbang_SHINee

Yeah. I feel sorry for only for the friend who made this post and the guy's long-term partner/wife.