Prashayatap : ajao saray! - Page 10

Originally posted by: riti4u

Ya that's exactly what I was thinking .. she will apologize for intruding in his personal space again and this will trigger Hanuman to say sorry and may be they need to have some heart to heart like he does with Minnie

Dil se Dil ki baatein tab hongi jab individually dono ka dimaag thikaane pe aaega ... Like Jean said let them miss each other ... Now that Imarti case is wrapped up ... They need to give time to themselves and retrospect about how the other half is a crucial and important part of their life.

Originally posted by: Cinnamon_Kisses

Dil se Dil ki baatein tab hongi jab individually dono ka dimaag thikaane pe aaega ... Like Jean said let them miss each other ... Now that Imarti case is wrapped up ... They need to give time to themselves and retrospect about how the other half is a crucial and important part of their life.

One more thing... The stage they are both in, it's of course important to assess each other as potential life partners by observing how each person behaves in times of crisis and supports the other. However, it is also important to try and see if and how that person fits in your everyday life, where there isn't drama happening every second. By carrying on with their individual lives they will realize where they complement each other, how they have both blended in parts of their daily routine and have become essential to each other's everyday life in ways that they hadn't realized. That is how love grows and sustains - it's in the small things.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Before giving him a chance, she needs to give herself a chance, her life a second chance. She seemed resigned but as Minnie said, there's nothing wrong with seeking your own happiness.

Babita's problem is that she is afraid to hope, afraid to reach out for that affection that is sitting right there. Also as a woman, she has every right to expect certain things for a relationship. If it's with HS then she can set expectations when the time comes. No need to compromise.

As for trust... I don't think she distrusts HS, but she distrusts her fate. She cannot believe that fate would give her a second chance at finding love, and that by hoping for this she went against her destiny.

I think she did give herself a chance. Her making his favorite sabji, taking on his drinking habit, dedicating the song, their moment in the balcony or not even sleeping or eating properly because he had left so abruptly.

It's his rejection that made her back off now and is making her question whether she was right or wrong to even hope for a second chance at love.

I think she trusts HS but to an extent. As Minnie's father, a friend who will support her and guide her on the right path? Yes, that trust is there. But as a romantic partner who will do right by her? I don't know. There will be lots of doubts in her mind.

Yes may be distance will increase their love like HS was missing Babita bringing Thali for him..

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

Yahan sab hyper active Hain for comments😂🤣

LOLL, and here I thought I was the only one. 🤣

I've been waiting for my promotion for so many years. Milta hi nayi. 😆

I think HS is also worried that his excessive passion (which he will eventually have and show) for Babita will harm her more than do good. He knows what kind of lover he will be and doesn't want to ruin her life after what she has seen.

He said exactly what I have been thinking, that after seeing all her suffering he did not want to burden her with his problems or be the cause of her hardship.

Originally posted by: inlieu

One more thing... The stage they are both in, it's of course important to assess each other as potential life partners by observing how each person behaves in times of crisis and supports the other. However, it is also important to try and see if and how that person fits in your everyday life, where there isn't drama happening every second. By carrying on with their individual lives they will realize where they complement each other, how they have both blended in parts of their daily routine and have become essential to each other's everyday life in ways that they hadn't realized. That is how love grows and sustains - it's in the small things.

100% agree with this.

Crises like Imarti's death case don't hang around forever. They'll come and go. But it's how you stay and behave with each other on a daily basis that matters. Are you too busy in your life to even consider how the other person is doing? Or are you actually taking the time out to consider their needs and wants.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I think she did give herself a chance. Her making his favorite sabji, taking on his drinking habit, dedicating the song, their moment in the balcony or not even sleeping or eating properly because he had left so abruptly.

It's his rejection that made her back off now and is making her question whether she was right or wrong to even hope for a second chance at love.

I think she trusts HS but to an extent. As Minnie's father, a friend who will support her and guide her on the right path? Yes, that trust is there. But as a romantic partner who will do right by her? I don't know. There will be lots of doubts in her mind.

No, I mean REALLY give herself a chance and open her heart to all possibilities, let go of her insecurities and be open to love in full form.

With all the little things that she did, she was just testing the waters.

Loved the episode. At least there was some clarity with this episode. We know where everyone stands where... be it Babita or HS or Mini.

I am so so glad to know Babita’s thought process. I am also getting annoyed as she was not saying anything for the past couple episodes. Yes, I want her to stand up for herself and distance herself from HS right now. HS needs to understand that though Imarti is a huge part of his life, his future is with Babita, and he needs to trust Babita and give her a chance. He should know that Babita will never disrespect his love for Imarti, and I am sure Babita will accept him with his past. Thats not the issue. The issue is that HS thinks he is doing wrong by letting someone else in to his life, his heart. He’s again going backwards. Hopefully with his Sasur Ji forgiving, he can introspect and move on from his past, from Imarti.

Like Jean said let them go back to their individual lives, introspect, miss each other and finally find each other. And when that happens I want a heart to heart conversation between HS and Babita without Mini, NB or Lala. Koi band kardo in dono ko ek kamre mein and let them talk. I don’t even care if they fight... they just need to talk to each other.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think HS is also worried that his excessive passion (which he will eventually have and show) for Babita will harm her more than do good. He knows what kind of lover he will be and doesn't want to ruin her life after what she has seen.

He said exactly what I have been thinking, that after seeing all her suffering he did not want to burden her with his problems or be the cause of her hardship.

Sorry my post got cleared...by mistake..I think so too like you said ..his aag can be his passion