Prerna should stay away from both Basu n Bajaj! - Page 4

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

One puts across deal to a pregnant woman to marry him

And the other puts across deal to a married woman to leave her husband and stay in his house (as a mistress?) An indecent proposal?

Anurag supporters are busy proving how Bajaj blackmailed Prerna. Darlings, if Pre had accepted Anurag's deal, would that have also come under blackmail? Pre accepted Bajaj's deal and she rejected Anurag's deal. Actually both aren't really deals. Both proposition are based on taking advantage of Pre's helplessness.

And Bajaj supporters are busy proving how bajaj respects Prerna more. Respect and stuff comes later. When he took advantage of her majboori and married her, where was the respect there? Didn't he feel once that the unborn baby also needs both parents just the way 🍪 cookie needs? I cannot buy this newfound respect. Unless they show him realising his mistake and setting her free. 👏Spot on.

I really want Prerna to grow a backbone and leave both of them. My mother always says, if you don't love yourself, don't expect others to love or respect you. 👍🏼That’s true.

Why are we even comparing who is better for her? Why choose one of them if both don't deserve her?Any neutral fans here? I’d prefer a third person where Pre and help each other grow as a couple without all this ott drama, villainy. But CVs won’t go for it. The way they’ve botched it, Anu and Pre getting back together will never be the same. It will be yet another forced situation.

I may be repeating here but on a diff thread a few hours ago I drew the diff between blackmail and indecent proposal.

At the risk of sounding like a broken record............ 🤓 I’m nobody's fan. Just call the characters good/flaws as I see it.

Baj’s blackmail cornered Pre with the implied threat (do as I say or else) of Anu’s freedom/life. He knew she was about to marry Anu within days and time was of the essence. Given the history upon his entry as a man with a ruthless side, we couldn’t assume he had a marshmallow heart and wouldn’t have turned on Anu.

Had he offered marriage for Sneki’s sake, that would have been an indecent proposal given that Pre was already engaged to Anu and it was the eve of their wedding. But that’s not the way he went. Compared to the blackmail this wouldn’t have painted him as a dark character.

Did he change his mind post marriage to get into the good graces of Pre and spun a diff story about doing it all for Sneki? If so why even bring Anu up the first time around? Is revenge on Anu still simmering on the back burner? Only CVs can tell.

Anu’s asking Pre to dump the Baj clan and move into BB is also an indecent proposal. Would the Anu before PreBaj wedding have made such an offer? Doubt it. He respected everyone in general.

This Anu since Pre’s wedding is a man reeling in shock, in denial, and desperate to get Pre back. Everyone gets through it at a diff pace. The sooner he gets through this grieving process of losing his lover the faster he can get on with his life. The man who once considered AnuPam’s advice is now turning deaf ears bec he hasn’t reached the point when he realizes Pre has really left him for good. That acceptance is needed for him to move on.

Did CVs decide to bring the B&B clans under the same roof to give Anu a reality check that his dreams of a life with Pre are over for good? If so, let’s hope it’s a short stay and he snaps out of it and looks forward.

Pining over someone who shows no guilt, remorse or even compassion for what he was left to cope is not worth it.

Pre’s moved on in her new roles as Sneki’s mother and Baj’s biwi in name only. Time to let her go. She’s made it clear he’s her past. Better to accept and not prolong his agony. He alone can decide to move on, no one else can do it for him. Unless of course, he’s ziddi about “koyi teesra hamere beech nahi ayega” and drags his misery for months on end making it harder for his family to put it behind them and look ahead. And the viewers too.

But given that Pre is holding back a life altering secret in her belly, her reluctance or willingness to tell Anu the truth is going to bring him right back into her orbit when the truth is exposed/revealed at some point. Whether he will fight for his rights as a biological father of Munna or cut Pre out of his life for good is 😔.

Even if Baj let’s Pre go, (won’t make sense if he went through all this nonsense to get her to be Sneki’s mom) she should not return to Anu again after the way she handled things and let him get on with his life. She should make a new start and stand up for her self respect instead of jumping from one man’s life into another’s. She needs to know who she is and raise Munna on her own.

No comedy or happier moments just diraama, gloom and doom since the 200 episodes aired.

Anurag is not doing right, he is fighting for all wrong reasons. He is expected to be angry and upset since Prerna left him, but itna gussa, even turning blind eye to what anupam and nivi try to make him understand - this is bad Anurag. The sooner he comes to realisation, the better. He is buying all reasons she gave and wanting to get her back since he has money now? Anurag ...... Daffa ho Ja. Fight for the right reason, think abt the endless promises and love you both had and I will support you.

Bajaj is definitely does not deserve Prerna. Forget about the blackmail, when he knows Prerna went to ask Basu's and Anurag to give the house back for the sake of Kuki, he just said thank you and not to request anyone again for his sake and went on abt how Anurag was cheap.

To Meeshtar Bajaj - Dude, Prerna took so much of concern as to how difficult it would be for Kuki to stay away from the home which has lots of memories, shouldn't you atleast ask Prerna if she would be okay to stay in the home which has her happiest and sad memories ? What a torture it would be for her to stay in that place everyday? Forget about respect here, is he even considerate towards her? Nooo... For him, it's all about him and his child , selfish and he just thanks Prerna for what she has done.

If not, then why doesn't he look for a hotel or other place until he brings basus down again or strike a deal to get back respective houses ? Where is her prerna's self respect in all this ? How is it better for her to stay with such a person? Where is she thinking abt herself ? What the hell is Bajaj teaching her or making her realise ?

In all this, Prerna is a suffocated caged bird who is badly in need of a breath of fresh air, freedom, she is turning robotic and monotonous every passing day. She might be expected to improve Kuki for the better, but not bajaj who is giving her torture not physically, but mentally every single day. Sorry, but I feel very suffocated to watch her.

Prerna has her own list of faults she comes with , but it does not come under the context of this post.

Originally posted by: sneha_17

Really 15 Lakhs and a doctor who cost what a crore = love and insults in front of everyone

Can’t he talk to her in private and stop to come for a party.

Too much love...

House are made into home by living together

Why to live in a place where you have memories but present torments very single second of your life

i think i cant explain to u u have to watch the epi .

adhe addhure se story dekhoge toh u didnot understand a character well its okk

because mostly bajaj fan start watvhing after bajaj entry so never saw what anu did for pre

Originally posted by: ifmember

Anurag is not doing right, he is fighting for all wrong reasons. He is expected to be angry and upset since Prerna left him, but itna gussa, even turning blind eye to what anupam and nivi try to make him understand - this is bad Anurag. The sooner he comes to realisation, the better. He is buying all reasons she gave and wanting to get her back since he has money now? Anurag ...... Daffa ho Ja. Fight for the right reason, think abt the endless promises and love you both had and I will support you.

Bajaj is definitely does not deserve Prerna. Forget about the blackmail, when he knows Prerna went to ask Basu's and Anurag to give the house back for the sake of Kuki, he just said thank you and not to request anyone again for his sake and went on abt how Anurag was cheap. Jealous of Anu maybe, needing to undermine him. Irony is Anu didn’t even know him. Is he paying for the sins of Mo-Mo?

To Meeshtar Bajaj - Dude, Prerna took so much of concern as to how difficult it would be for Kuki to stay away from the home which has lots of memories, shouldn't you atleast ask Prerna if she would be okay to stay in the home which has her happiest and sad memories ? What a torture it would be for her to stay in that place everyday? Forget about respect here, is he even considerate towards her? Nooo... For him, it's all about him and his child , selfish and he just thanks Prerna for what she has done. Given that he’s twice her age, his actions so far are bit controlling, it’s subtle but it’s there and she doesn’t even know it yet. Very typical trait seen in most men with power.

If not, then why doesn't he look for a hotel or other place until he brings basus down again or strike a deal to get back respective houses ? Where is her prerna's self respect in all this ? How is it better for her to stay with such a person? Where is she thinking abt herself ? What the hell is Bajaj teaching her or making her realize? When she works on being confident, self respect will grow as well. Even with Anu she was needy and always wanted him to hamesha saat dena. At the same time she acts impulsively without forethought or discussing with anyone. She takes on more than she is capable of tackling on her own, too stubborn to ask for help and lands herself in a heap of trouble until someone figures it out and bails her out.

In all this, Prerna is a suffocated caged bird who is badly in need of a breath of fresh air, freedom, she is turning robotic and monotonous every passing day. She might be expected to improve Kuki for the better, but not bajaj who is giving her torture not physically, but mentally every single day. Sorry, but I feel very suffocated to watch her.

Prerna has her own list of faults she comes with , but it does not come under the context of this post.

Even when Rajesh was around she once told Anu that she’s had to cope with a lot in her life on her own, didn’t have someone she could count on until he came along and she wanted him to hamesha saat dena. She lived with her family and get got along well. So what was that all about, finances or something else?

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Even when Rajesh was around she once told Anu that she’s had to cope with a lot in her life on her own, didn’t have someone she could count on until he came along and she wanted him to hamesha saat dena. She lived with her family and get got along well. So what was that all about, finances or something else?

Did she say she didn't have someone to count on ?

I think she said she had unknowingly become too dependant on Anurag and she has never been that way before with anyone else. It was not a need, but rather a support. Like how many have that one person whom they can rely on,

not necessarily a family member.

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

Age does not matter but the rest you mentioned is so true.

Nice post but I don't fully agree with u.

I will explain why?

See bajaj and anurag cannot be judged on the same because what bajaj did was with full consciousness full planning he knew what he doing.... He was trapping prerna....

In case of anurag.... prerna herself presented herself as cheap lady who could change sides for power and money. Bajaj made a deal she left anurag so now he thinks she will leave bajaj and come to him. Secondly anurag isn't even in senses. He has lost it.

Sochi samjhi sazish aur pagalpan there is difference between both

In my perspective anurag doesn't deserve prerna.... forget prerna deserving anurag.... anurag s behaviour towards prerna is expected after the way she presented her character infront of him.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Nice post but I don't fully agree with u.

I will explain why?

See bajaj and anurag cannot be judged on the same because what bajaj did was with full consciousness full planning he knew what he doing.... He was trapping prerna.... Baj’s actions were intentional aimed at hurting Anu but later made it about Sneki. Bring 5he child in and everyone is sympathetic. What if someone or something he was led him to believe about his reason for revenge turns out to be the opposite in truth?

In case of anurag.... prerna herself presented herself as cheap lady who could change sides for power and money. Bajaj made a deal she left anurag so now he thinks she will leave bajaj and come to him. Secondly anurag isn't even in senses. He has lost it.

Sochi samjhi sazish aur pagalpan there is difference between both

In my perspective anurag doesn't deserve prerna.... forget prerna deserving anurag.... anurag s behaviour towards prerna is expected after the way she presented her character infront of him.

If Baj truthfully only wanted Pre for Sneki’s sake then why go the blackmail route using Anu’s freedom as bait. An honest, moral person would not want an innocent man incarcerated or given death penalty for a crime he didn’t commit. He only gave the evidence after she agreed to marry him.

Pre may have to face his manipulation and not even realize she’s being used for his selfish ends. But she chose a life with him, tho bugathna padega.

Originally posted by: ifmember

Anurag is not doing right, he is fighting for all wrong reasons. He is expected to be angry and upset since Prerna left him, but itna gussa, even turning blind eye to what anupam and nivi try to make him understand - this is bad Anurag. The sooner he comes to realisation, the better. He is buying all reasons she gave and wanting to get her back since he has money now? Anurag ...... Daffa ho Ja. Fight for the right reason, think abt the endless promises and love you both had and I will support you.

Bajaj is definitely does not deserve Prerna. Forget about the blackmail, when he knows Prerna went to ask Basu's and Anurag to give the house back for the sake of Kuki, he just said thank you and not to request anyone again for his sake and went on abt how Anurag was cheap.

To Meeshtar Bajaj - Dude, Prerna took so much of concern as to how difficult it would be for Kuki to stay away from the home which has lots of memories, shouldn't you atleast ask Prerna if she would be okay to stay in the home which has her happiest and sad memories ? What a torture it would be for her to stay in that place everyday? Forget about respect here, is he even considerate towards her? Nooo... For him, it's all about him and his child , selfish and he just thanks Prerna for what she has done.

If not, then why doesn't he look for a hotel or other place until he brings basus down again or strike a deal to get back respective houses ? Where is her prerna's self respect in all this ? How is it better for her to stay with such a person? Where is she thinking abt herself ? What the hell is Bajaj teaching her or making her realise ?

In all this, Prerna is a suffocated caged bird who is badly in need of a breath of fresh air, freedom, she is turning robotic and monotonous every passing day. She might be expected to improve Kuki for the better, but not bajaj who is giving her torture not physically, but mentally every single day. Sorry, but I feel very suffocated to watch her.

Prerna has her own list of faults she comes with , but it does not come under the context of this post.

Couldn’t agree more👍🏼