Mini passes litmus test but what about Babita - Page 2

Hum log depth of character ki baat kar rahe hain.

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

If you really love someone, you will try to see beyond the spoken word or gesture especially when it is out-of-character.

HS never showed impulsiveness or anger vis-a-vis Babita. He never had to reflect on things. He just trusted her always even if it felt wrong.

You need to understand where she is coming from. If you remember when Hanuman explains Minnie why this relationship is complicated he says she comes from a broken marriage and she has a daughter. He understands what broken marriage would have done to her psychologically.She trusted a man for 17 years of her life and gave herself in that relation.. and now when she will be going for new relation ,she is about to be more guided and protective about not going through that turmoil again. And also she has Minnie whose future she needs to think about along with her feelings. Hanuman knows this aspect and thus he targeted that previous night.. He reminded her of her duty about Minnie and to keep her away from him..he targeted her self respect .. yes Babita shudnt go with words but she has her fears that she need to overcome .. Hanuman used her fears to make her go away..Now is the time for her to reflect on things and overcome those fears to truly be his better half.

And talking this from personal experience ,sometimes you run away from falling in love because you don't want to get hurt though there might be no reason for that fear. some experience in life and of people around you bring up that fear.. its very natural being protective about not falling apart while falling in love..

How happy did hs look with imarti 😍😍😍

I think babita was once again wrong in her reaction. Why does her love always seem like it’s conditional instead of unconditional. To think the charge isn’t even murder tho it’s culpable homicide. So it’s not like he sat there planning her murder like some sort of cold blooded murderer.

I agree with the previous poster, even if she does change her mind the damage is done. She thought the worst of him and u don’t do that with ppl you supposedly love. She certainly wouldn’t think mini was a murderer if someone accused her of it!

It’s funny how babita expects trust but gives none. I know she’s got a past and been through a lot but she’s not the only one.

As much as I love them together I do think that babita isn’t good enough for Hs. I actually prefer the bond Hs and mini. Mini really is a shown as a terrific, level headed person at 17. I wonder how she became this way having being brought up around the ppl she has been

Babita trusts HS. It is very clear from today's episode. Mini was bang on. Every word Mini said is true.

Babita trusts HS. But she is part jealous and part angry and part insecure. She is jealous of Imrati. Yes. A woman cannot share her man with another woman. Naembi said it a few days back. Even though Imrati is dead, HS talks about her all the time. It did not matter so much to Babita before because she had not realized she was in love with HS before. Now that she has, the jealousy factor has kicked in.

Second, anger. Yesterday HS did insult her. He did it intentionally. And now Babita understands why. Nevertheless, HS did it. So there is some anger due to that.

Also, Babita I think at this point, wanted HS to come to her and share the truth with her instead of driving her away.

Insecure... the above two factors are now making her insecure. She fears losing HS.

The two above factors made her angry. And that is why she wanted to leave. If she had not trusted HS, she would have never left Mini alone with a murderer.

When Sartar accuses HS, Babita does not believe Sartar. She wants to go and take a stand for HS. But she is unable to do so because of HS's words..paraye mard pe interest...line of HS.

So all those who thought Babita did not trust HS, rest assure...she did.

I have been critical of Babita in the past whenever she has disrespected HS. But this time, I don't think that is the case. I don't think Babita has done anything wrong this time.