Give time to Babita - Page 2

Well all I can say for want of seeing some humour at least and at last after today's shocker is that the unthinkable has happened, our show has managed to create a divided forum today!!

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Originally posted by: Padmajaan

Well all I can say for want of seeing some humour at least and at last after today's shocker is that the unthinkable has happened, our show has managed to create a divided forum today!!

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I am sure this is deliberate on the part of our CVs. They want to challenge us, make us think beyond the ordinary and have healthy debates. This show should go in as required viewing for literature/film students, to be honest.

Originally posted by Padmajaan

Sorry but I don't agree with you at all.

I have been very patient with babita. We all have been. High time she got over her wounds I say!!

The bolded part - PRECISELY! This is precisely why any normal human being who need not even be very sensitive would wonder WHY??? WHY this volte-face? Why did this man who has always been so gentle with me, who so clearly loves me, worships me, behave with me this way, especially after the way he behaved in the puja? She has known him long enough to know what is characteristic behaviour and what is not. Otherwise she serious needs to work on her lack of sensitivity.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold and some of it is just pure common sense.

I am not blaming either of them... But i understand them .I feel both of them need to work on their relationship and their trust issues. Leave alone the trust , they have nt even discussed and confess about what they feel for each other openly ...

You both are right , I too have mentioned that she knows him as a caring, supportive and strong person who has answers for everything but not as a vulnerable person . Thats what i said lets give her time to know him and understand him completely.

She has flaws. But she has come a long way.

Common sense will not work where your emotions dominate.

Again my only point is give her time. She is less experienced , less matured and more or equally wounded like/than Hanuman. She ll surely have trust issues . She ll go back to her shell also . It is normal for any affected person. But what to do Our Hanuman loves her and workships her At least for his sake we need to wait for her.

Thats it. Thank you for responding ...I really admire both of your writings

Totally agree with you, we should give Babeeta sometime.

Originally posted by: JKSR

Sorry i disagree with you. he was forced by everyone to propose and he even didnt spoke anyword how can u conclude that he wont share his past? if thats the case he wouldnt have given keys to minnie.

Lets agree its long time that both minnie n babita are seeing HS and any sane person will findout what actually happened and here she claims/says that she loves him and when u love somone u should show some trust on them.

Minnie and HS vs Babita HS equation is different. Babita takes every step towards HS very cautiously , cos she comes from the different thought process and experience.

It is not the case of Minnie.

Yes Babita loves him and she should also trust him. From whatever we have seen , it looks an emotional outburst. But again we dont know how the story is going to unfold . Wait for her she is going to be his big support .Thats it.

Agree with you completely

besides she is a mother first when Hanuman agreed he is a killer, her first instinct is to protect her child.

the one who is questioning about her loyalty is not talking about Hanuman's lack of Trust.

I am not taking any side here just mentioning facts.

Mini had whole night to think about HS and papers, so she decided HS can't do such things

But

Babita didn't have enough time.

I do love Mini for standing for HS uncle, given time Babita will too agree with Mini.

I was kind of pissed at Babes for how she reacted towards HS...it was HS worst fear coming true...losing his family for a second time

However, a part of me kind of gets it. She had started to slowly take a place in HS life and was moving from being his tenant to something more. She began giving herself rights to part of HS life (stopping him from drinking, making his meals, etc) and it got snatched away instantly when HS insulted her. If you see her reaction (the clenched hands and tense face), it was like she was transported back to when Ashok insulted her.

So she begins to trust HS and thinks there are good men out there, only to be told to stay away from him and not show affection for " a stranger/man". He went from being her potential love to a "stranger". That must have hurt like hell.

Then she hears he killed his wife. Obvi she may begin to doubt HS character because of his Jekyl and Hyde personality and just being freshly insulted. I think her reaction to go to NaimB house was more from the insinuation that she is a "woman with a questionable character" than HS being a potential murderer.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

I was kind of pissed at Babes for how she reacted towards HS...it was HS worst fear coming true...losing his family for a second time

However, a part of me kind of gets it. She had started to slowly take a place in HS life and was moving from being his tenant to something more. She began giving herself rights to part of HS life (stopping him from drinking, making his meals, etc) and it got snatched away instantly when HS insulted her. If you see her reaction (the clenched hands and tense face), it was like she was transported back to when Ashok insulted her.

So she begins to trust HS and thinks there are good men out there, only to be told to stay away from him and not show affection for " a stranger/man". He went from being her potential love to a "stranger". That must have hurt like hell.

Then she hears he killed his wife. Obvi she may begin to doubt HS character because of his Jekyl and Hyde personality and just being freshly insulted. I think her reaction to go to NaimB house was more from the insinuation that she is a "woman with a questionable character" than HS being a potential murderer.

Yes i too feel that she reacts only for the harsh words that she heard from HS rather than on the belief that HS as murderer.

I dont know but i feel again that if HS had not uttered the words she would have in a more composed state.

Will he say the same type words for Minnie? A complete Nooooo, cos the dynamics is different. So both are traveling let them explore...

Originally posted by: paljay

I am not taking any side here just mentioning facts.

Mini had whole night to think about HS and papers, so she decided HS can't do such things

But

Babita didn't have enough time.

I do love Mini for standing for HS uncle, given time Babita will too agree with Mini.

Yes she juat heard about it. She has also not come out of the shocking words she heard last night.

Yes absolutely she ll be with HS not just cos of Minnie but she also ll ynderstand HS, the gem. She has already withered away all the societal stigmas streotypes and restrictions.