Give time to Babita

She is still a person with uncured wounds. She has not enjoyed any thing from her marital life or from her ex partner. she doesnt know what is Husband's/partners' love. Now She has a newfound love. She needs to grow in the relationship. She is still a receiver and has not grown as a giver.

As she said she still does nt know the true Hanuman. He has so far was a protector, saviour and provider in the relationship. So give her some time to understand him ,the real HIM.

She is still orthodox in showing or expressing her feelings or desires. She still waits for Hanuman to take initiative in the relationship. She tried something when she tried to stop him from drinking, there too. She could nt decipher anything completely . Though she guessed?! that Hanuman too has a past...

Now Hanuman said these words.... which are too hurtful and unacceptable to any woman.

I feel we need to understand her and her vulnerabilities , she still lacks the confidence or feeling of selfworth . She feels what could she give for Hanuman.

Though i should not compare but Minnie's equation with Hanuman is different from Babita. As Hanuman said Man woman relation is not that simple,, it is complicated that too between two mature adults with past scars.

If we question her trust , then we should also question Hanuman 's trust. Why didn't he share everything . why is he taking decision on her behalf (in the relationship) .A Man who declared himself the father to her daughter, comes back and tells her to stay away from him?????.

But i wont question him. He too is a man with vulnerabilities that's why He pulls her one day and pushes her another day.

So Give her a chance and time ... as well as to THEM . Let them grow .

I was a silent reader . But I couldnt control today like our Hanuman ......sorry if i hurt anyone.

Agree with you..

very complicated situation ,where both of them hv their own sorrows .

@ Sheeluneelu Thank you❤️

Originally posted by: kriya_12

very complicated situation ,where both of them hv their own sorrows .

Yes poor souls ... They havent even openly expressed their feelings... But they ll overcome with each others support.

Originally posted by: nocry

Yes poor souls ... They havent even openly expressed their feelings... But they ll overcome with each others support.

now i really miss their friendship days .

She is still a person with uncured wounds. She has not enjoyed any thing from her marital life or from her ex partner. she doesnt know what is Husband's/partners' love. Now She has a newfound love. She needs to grow in the relationship. She is still a receiver and has not grown as a giver.

As she said she still does nt know the true Hanuman. He has so far was a protector, saviour and provider in the relationship. So give her some time to understand him ,the real HIM.

She is still orthodox in showing or expressing her feelings or desires. She still waits for Hanuman to take initiative in the relationship. She tried something when she tried to stop him from drinking, there too. She could nt decipher anything completely . Though she guessed?! that Hanuman too has a past...

Now Hanuman said these words.... which are too hurtful and unacceptable to any woman.

I feel we need to understand her and her vulnerabilities , she still lacks the confidence or feeling of selfworth . She feels what could she give for Hanuman.

Though i should not compare but Minnie's equation with Hanuman is different from Babita. As Hanuman said Man woman relation is not that simple,, it is complicated that too between two mature adults with past scars.

If we question her trust , then we should also question Hanuman 's trust. Why didn't he share everything . why is he taking decision on her behalf (in the relationship) .A Man who declared himself the father to her daughter, comes back and tells her to stay away from him?????.

But i wont question him. He too is a man with vulnerabilities that's why He pulls her one day and pushes her another day.

So Give her a chance and time ... as well as to THEM . Let them grow .

I was a silent reader . But I couldnt control today like our Hanuman ......sorry if i hurt anyone.

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Sorry but I don't agree with you at all.

I have been very patient with babita. We all have been. High time she got over her wounds I say!!

The bolded part - PRECISELY! This is precisely why any normal human being who need not even be very sensitive would wonder WHY??? WHY this volte-face? Why did this man who has always been so gentle with me, who so clearly loves me, worships me, behave with me this way, especially after the way he behaved in the puja? She has known him long enough to know what is characteristic behaviour and what is not. Otherwise she serious needs to work on her lack of sensitivity.

I found both of them at fault.. They claim that they love but they don't trust each other.. Firstly HS was going to propose her without sharing his past... Kya Babita ko ye jane ka haq bhi nhi h ki uske would be husband par uski hi late wife ka case chal raha hai.. What was going in his mind that he can hide this biggest truth of his life.. Definitely he was not sure babita will believe him or not..

Here I'd prefer taking Babita's side... She is more relatable.

In my view Hanuman n Babita both were wrong.

Originally posted by: Padmajaan

Sorry but I don't agree with you at all.

I have been very patient with babita. We all have been. High time she got over her wounds I say!!

The bolded part - PRECISELY! This is precisely why any normal human being who need not even be very sensitive would wonder WHY??? WHY this volte-face? Why did this man who has always been so gentle with me, who so clearly loves me, worships me, behave with me this way, especially after the way he behaved in the puja? She has known him long enough to know what is characteristic behaviour and what is not. Otherwise she serious needs to work on her lack of sensitivity.

@bold and some of it is just pure common sense.

Originally posted by: sheeluneelu

I found both of them at fault.. They claim that they love but they don't trust each other.. Firstly HS was going to propose her without sharing his past... Kay Babita ko ye jane ka haq bhi nhi h ki uske would be husband par uski hi late wife ka case chal raha hai.. What was going in his mind that he can hide this biggest truth of his life.. Definitely he was not sure babita will believe him or not..

Here I'd prefer taking Babita's side... She is more relatable.

In my view Hanuman n Babita both were wrong.

Sorry i disagree with you. he was forced by everyone to propose and he even didnt spoke anyword how can u conclude that he wont share his past? if thats the case he wouldnt have given keys to minnie.

Lets agree its long time that both minnie n babita are seeing HS and any sane person will findout what actually happened and here she claims/says that she loves him and when u love somone u should show some trust on them.