Minnie Naiem Bi tie up ........ - Page 3

Originally posted by: inlieu

That aggression is dangerous and whatever the reason might be, I wonder if it is his repressed feelings from childhood and lasting impact of watching his father be abusive. I hope he is not about to turn into his father's son, Sharaabi Jr.

I was uncomfortable with the way he grabbed her hand the other day during the pottery scene but the pre-cap definitely makes me squirm. I did not want him to do this and I don't understand why the CVs are showing this after all the hue and cry about him respecting women and abhorring domestic violence. I am sure they have a very good reason for bringing this up.

If indeed it is about addictions, then I hope they address her net addiction too, with him turning off the wifi or snatching her laptop as she's working.

Perhaps it's just the less appreciated sides of both getting set in place and we needn't worry more. Exactly, I'm sure CVs have a solid justification for this, I cannot take this independently

in SBS Paridhi told Babita trying some tricks ...giving Hanuman more alcohol challenged him how much he can drink ....

i suppose its backfired Hanuman gets angry

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I cannot bear to have a dark side of his. No. He's Mini's Hanuman uncle after all!

I think it's got more to do with haq. Yes he's afraid of her emotions, her feelings, her inhibitions and her rejection. But what about him? Are all rules for him and him alone?

I think this whole Main nahi peene doongi probably aroused the Male ego in him. Or maybe he's subtly reminding her of her own boundaries in which he's not allowed to enter yet. And I also agree that it'll hit him more. He'll probably go crazy thinking how he almost started behaving like his own father and dig past wounds.

Do y'all think he was already half drunk by the time she came?

He is human after all.. he can his moments of anger.. as I said I hope it's not more than pulling hand.. and yes may be he will see fear in Babita's eyes after this and may be his Minnie can get glimpse of that anger .. which can break him and may be bring out his true feelings to Babita .. there are many ways that writers of this show can take this upto.. let's see how it goes .. by the way they are very good in these precaps...they always get us intrigued

Originally posted by: riti4u

He is human after all.. he can his moments of anger.. as I said I hope it's not more than pulling hand.. and yes may be he will see fear in Babita's eyes after this and may be his Minnie can get glimpse of that anger .. which can break him and may be bring out his true feelings to Babita .. there are many ways that writers of this show can take this upto.. let's see how it goes .. by the way they are very good in these precaps...they always get us intrigued

I know right! They know where to hit on.

So catchy engaging precaps. One day we're gushing over them and the other day we can't wait see what led to it! Hahahahaa!

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I cannot bear to have a dark side of his. No. He's Mini's Hanuman uncle after all!

I think it's got more to do with haq. Yes he's afraid of her emotions, her feelings, her inhibitions and her rejection. But what about him? Are all rules for him and him alone?

I think this whole Main nahi peene doongi probably aroused the Male ego in him. Or maybe he's subtly reminding her of her own boundaries in which he's not allowed to enter yet. And I also agree that it'll hit him more. He'll probably go crazy thinking how he almost started behaving like his own father and dig past wounds.

Do y'all think he was already half drunk by the time she came?

With any other guy, I would have pointed the finger at his male ego. This time I'm not sure. I could be wrong, but the way he talked to Minnie, it seemed there was a very serious and mature thought process behind his reticence. It could be about the boundaries and about the lack of openness between them, that she is not at his level in the journey yet. As we were discussing the other day, she doesn't know him or understand him the way he understands her, and she needs time to see all facets of his personality before deciding if she wants to spend the rest of her life with him.

He has been in love before and understands passion and intimacy but also the meaning of companionship. She is new to all this and he probably doesn't want to rush. Also, she thinks that falling in love is the endgame but there is far more to it. I think that's what he's warning her about, to not go down this path of passion just yet because she's too naive to handle it this early in their journey, when they don't even have a "relationship" yet. It's almost like as a mentor he knows his student is not ready to go to the next level yet, so he's waiting. Most importantly, after losing Imarti he wants to make sure he does nothing to hurt her or himself again.

From the full plate in front of him it looked like he was just getting started but let's see.

Originally posted by: blushing

Imarti's grieving ...may be but i guess he already surpass that when he says he bear separation of Imarti but if Babita been snatch away from him he won't able to take it

i suppose something else we need to know about Hanuman ...his insecurities his fears ....

good CV Writers not jumping on quick proposal and wedding soon....

my guess till KBC they will postpone since bit longer episodes....once its 8:30 to 9 pm things will be fall in place

No, when he was talking to Lala about Imarti, it wasn't to say he surpassed it. I don't think he has recovered. What he meant was that he somehow managed to pull himself together but was still in a fragile state. If he were to lose his love a second time his fragile state would shatter.

I am also glad they are taking time with this. We want to learn more about him and his childhood.

Originally posted by: inlieu

With any other guy, I would have pointed the finger at his male ego. This time I'm not sure. I could be wrong, but the way he talked to Minnie, it seemed there was a very serious and mature thought process behind his reticence. It could be about the boundaries and about the lack of openness between them, that she is not at his level in the journey yet. As we were discussing the other day, she doesn't know him or understand him the way he understands her, and she needs time to see all facets of his personality before deciding if she wants to spend the rest of her life with him.

He has been in love before and understands passion and intimacy but also the meaning of companionship. She is new to all this and he probably doesn't want to rush. Also, she thinks that falling in love is the endgame but there is far more to it. I think that's what he's warning her about, to not go down this path of passion just yet because she's too naive to handle it this early in their journey, when they don't even have a "relationship" yet. It's almost like as a mentor he knows his student is not ready to go to the next level yet, so he's waiting. Most importantly, after losing Imarti he wants to make sure he does nothing to hurt her or himself again.

From the full plate in front of him it looked like he was just getting started but let's see.

Very well put there. All I want is it shouldn't be about drinking by large but about boundaries and rights.

Bold - Absolutely. I want him to be thoughtful and not just losing control in the spur of the moment.

Maybe after this, the focus shifts to him, from Babita. We'd get to see his personality too. Until now it's always been about her, maybe it's time to be it about him. He has a fair share and half part of this.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Maybe yes. And maybe this is the answer to Babita's question on what can she give him - inner peace, stability and calmness. Like a balm on that wound.

But it looks bizarre and thrown out of nowhere. Hs wasn't even shown grieving the loss and still feeling guilty or anything with regards to Imarti.

Grieving, especially when it is longer-term is not always visible. That is the whole point. He's not crying or moaning over Imarti's death out loud, but his heart cries all the time. Think back to every time he has been drunk and talked to Lala about her. In every difficult moment of his life, he has mentioned her, when he was about to lose his job, his house, Babita. He has also mentioned her in the everyday activities of his life, how Imarti used to scold him, how she used to cook for or do various things for him, her ladle spoon and even the diya using which Babita challenged him to release Ashok.

Most of all, Imarti is present everywhere, in his life, in his home, in his heart, and now the two women in whom he wants to see her image - even I can feel it. Does it have anything to do with the promise he had made Imarti of not loving another woman?

Originally posted by: kriya_12

it can be an addiction as well , which is not going off because honestly it is , films/shows always connect it with some story but in real its a habit which doesn't leaves the person easily .

I am sure they will address his addiction, but the addiction itself is not the main point. The point is that he is trying to fill a gap in his life by substituting it with alcohol, just like Minnie said her mother was addicted to social media as a means of filling the loneliness in her life. Once that gap is filled by the right thing, the alcohol or net addiction will subside on its own.