Originally posted by: rhondasa
IMO we cannot equate both, I don't think men can even file domestic abuse case against women. There is a reason most laws are skewed towards women, and much cultural-social background to it. Another member has posted a lovely post on it, in this same thread.
Now coming to Anurag, he was misleading komo, pretending to be in love with her. He never outright said he was not interested in sleeping with her. Even went to honeymoon with her and hid in the bathroom. Here also komo was quite insistent and forceful with him. Why did he run to bathroom and not hit her?
Komo has no prior indication from him about his disinterest. It's wrong to coerce some one to sleep with you if they don't want to, but here she was drunk and he could have easily handled her imho. Maybe run into the bathroom like last time.After hitting her he expressed regret and the next day went back to pretending to be in love with her and was scared she would remember the slap.
It must be an instinctive reaction, but I hope these reactions are not limited to women. I want him to slap bajaj in anger or frustration. Would he dare?
I completely agree with all the other parts of the posts. The makers as well as the characters around anurag try to tell us he is ideal, along with the bg score nd all. But his actions are not ideal. This creates a dissonance for viewers. Reason for him to get crucified for his flaws. While for bajaj it's the opposite and hence he will get worshipped for any good deeds, however small it is.