i think she has a lot of psychological issues
she has real inferiorty complex or abandonment issue
thats why she want to just keep everyone tied to her by power and force she think if her power will go everyone leave her
she always need assuarance that he or she feel for her
like on haldi day she was like jab tak babuji nahin aayenge main nahin jaungi it sounded more like a child thinking his parent not care for him if they do something against their will and they just need attantion and thus do drama play victim card
yesterday parul scene where she dropped medicine and was like humara rishta nahin toota this that
her relationship with noone is normal
when she come to know abir loves someone then mera beta mera bharosa nahin tod sakta so that mean she though abir would never love someone and by loving someone he cheated her he broken her trust
or when kunal came that day after bike adventure she sensed him and her hair was flying
what type of issues are these
she has no healthy relation with anyone be it her sons or parul or anyone'she hurt herself make plan very wisely that noone can think that she done this like falling from stair or dropping chandelier on herself who will think that someone will harm herself
she has real psychological issues and need urgent treatment
because no normal woman will behave like that
i think abir father could have said her some nasty things like noone can tolerate you you are intolerable and many thing either due to some missunderstanding in anger or he was not a nice a person but i doubt he would not be nice person as in future they have to bring him and abir family so they cant make him absolute villan
but i think abir father word or humiliation had left a deep impact as she had loved him with whole heart as it is mentioned that she fleed with him to marry so she was madly in love i believe
anyway lets see but meenu these type of harkat more than villan she look like psychotic patient with no goal or emotions for anyone
i feel mishti is going to understand her by making abir know the whole truth of his parent and help her to become normal