Re: Mini rude - Page 3

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

Meeta did call mini a snake. I dont remember the episode number. And initially even meeta was no less. She started changing her opinion when she realized babita never brought her into picture during the court case. In reality people do behave the way babita and mini are behaving presently. They both still have a lot of anguish in them. Its been few months they both are suffering. In reality people take years and years to come out of betrayal, and this show is very very close to reality. If this would have happened to us we would definitely have anger and hate for the person who did this to us. Yes ashok is the main culprit. But meeta too is a part of it, so what if it is a small part. Its easier to say ethical things for others but when the same situation befalls us, all ethics goes out of the window.

I so agree with you. I dont know why on earth are people telling that Babita is mahaan, she is rude, she doesn't have manners etc. She has gone through so much in life... She has to face something so aggressive in life, that she has lost her true identity. She is no more that Babita who was always at people's service. She is now that Babita who will only do service to someone who deserves. And why should she? If the world has been so cruel to her, can she not show attitude in some way? She is now a practical woman and not a woman who will fall at the feet of everyone in the room. She is now a woman who exists only for her daughter. She does not need to be 'Babita Khurrana' to survive in the society. She can very well be just Babita and not depend on anyone to establish a name.... I dont know why people find it wrong... I know it is your POV, but this too is truly mine... Please dont mind me saying this...

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

I so agree with you. I dont know why on earth are people telling that Babita is mahaan, she is rude, she doesn't have manners etc. She has gone through so much in life... She has to face something so aggressive in life, that she has lost her true identity. She is no more that Babita who was always at people's service. She is now that Babita who will only do service to someone who deserves. And why should she? If the world has been so cruel to her, can she not show attitude in some way? She is now a practical woman and not a woman who will fall at the feet of everyone in the room. She is now a woman who exists only for her daughter. She does not need to be 'Babita Khurrana' to survive in the society. She can very well be just Babita and not depend on anyone to establish a name.... I dont know why people find it wrong... I know it is your POV, but this too is truly mine... Please dont mind me saying this...

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

i dont mind at all. Makers are showing what people do and behave in reality. And babita and mini are no different. They will definitely change but not completely and it will take them a long time to recover. What we expect from babita and mini is what we like to see and hear but in reality in these kind of situations mind works completely different. Thats why i used the word 'anguish'. Within few moments whatever babita had built in so many years was lost. Upon that her in laws too were no less. I cannot even imagine the situation of those poor people who are facing these things in reality. One more thing is when ashok was jailed even meeta was behind babita to convince HS for that useless mans release. Everyone in khurana house has used babita as per their convenience. Atleast babita has been keeping quiet whenever beeji blamed her many times. No other women would have kept quiet. Infact both babes and mini have been very very decent in their behaviour and still are. People in reality in babes and minis situation behave their worst.

I agreed with your POV. In fact mine was totally supporting your statement. I was mentioning to all those who may find my pov misleading or telling I was trying to impose my thoughts on theirs. I completely support your opinion that was my first line.... 😊🤗

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

I agreed with your POV. In fact mine was totally supporting your statement. I was mentioning to all those who may find my pov misleading or telling I was trying to impose my thoughts on theirs. I completely support your opinion that was my first line....

More than my point of view i have stated what actually people do and behave in reality. Reality is very very harsh than what is shown in fictional shows. Just imagine living it 365 days 24 hrs for years and years to come.😔

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

yes dear i understood😳. I put up all other points which i did not include in my previous post. I respect each and every post here.

More than my point of view i have stated what actually people do and behave in reality. Reality is very very harsh than what is shown in fictional shows. Just imagine living it 365 days 24 hrs for years and years to come.😔

So true. Completely agree with your POV.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

yes dear i understood😳. I put up all other points which i did not include in my previous post. I respect each and every post here.

More than my point of view i have stated what actually people do and behave in reality. Reality is very very harsh than what is shown in fictional shows. Just imagine living it 365 days 24 hrs for years and years to come.😔

So true, I truly respect such people. They have had the ability to live with such void in their life. Imagine the situations of women who dont have kids, or women's whose kids are of no use.... there are some children who would just dump their parent in an isolated situation. Babes and Mini are very lucky to have HS in their life.... Imagine people who dont have such people in their life... they might have been dumped somewhere... Its just that Mini and Babita are yet to realize the real importance of HS in their life....😥

By the way are you tamizh speaking? 🤔

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

So true, I truly respect such people. They have had the ability to live with such void in their life. Imagine the situations of women who dont have kids, or women's whose kids are of no use.... there are some children who would just dump their parent in an isolated situation. Babes and Mini are very lucky to have HS in their life.... Imagine people who dont have such people in their life... they might have been dumped somewhere... Its just that Mini and Babita are yet to realize the real importance of HS in their life....😥

By the way are you tamizh speaking? 🤔

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

by tamizh you mean why i use the word respect😆. If i guessed correctly then i am doing it because this is how i am😆. And secondly in face to face convo you can see a persons expressions. But in written convos words can be easily misunderstood. Everyone comes to the forum to give their opinion and spend some good time with strangers. So why unnecessarily offend each other😊

I mean the language Tamil. Do you speak Tamil?

I guess you dont speak, otherwise you would have understood that I meant the language 😂🤭

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

I mean the language Tamil. Do you speak Tamil?

I guess you dont speak, otherwise you would have understood that I meant the language 😂🤭

By the way my mother tongue is konkani. I am from karnataka. But can understand tiny bit of tamil. As my old friends were tamilians😳

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

😆funny misunderstanding from my side🤣.

By the way my mother tongue is konkani. I am from karnataka. But can understand tiny bit of tamil. As my old friends were tamilians😳

Oh, that's nice... 🤗🤗