Selfish parents - Page 2

Problem why these camps get away is there is no proper punishment for them in any of the serials. I understand they get their TRPs from villainous characters, but for how long would a character be so villainous and still live a life of luxury. As for the male lead here as also in other EK soaps, they r shown as dumb with a heart of gold but can marry umpteen number of times or have mistresses, yet their sati savitri wives will forgive them with open arms.

If at all EK can bring in new villains after properly punishing these old ones.

In fact, this serial now has a lot to show - I mean Pragya can tell Prachi the whole truth. She looks mature enough has a the genes of both parents. Prachi can then take up measures to punish Aliya, unite her parents and they can come together. OC, they can show Rhea being initially jealous, but because of her mother's love changes for better. The two daughters can have their difference of opinion, Prachi should be shown as someone who doesn't brook any nonsense. Not Sati Savitri. Also luv angle can be shown between RP when suddenly Rajat turns up.... And we have a new story.....🙂🙂🙂🙂

i don't know man, i'm kinda divided on the topic. Given the time and situation they seperated in, it kind of makes sense to me. They were driven by grief.

Both of them stayed away thinking the other hated them, still held them responsible for what happened and maybe felt the resentment within themselves too and i think when you spend your life living a certain way long enough you become used to it.

Second of all as someone whose parents seperated, i think it's better growing up with a single parent than growing up between parents who have resentment for one another. I can attest to both because i remember when my parents divorced and i grew up with just my father after my mother passed away. (That's obviously not to say i don't wish she was still here. i just mean i don't know how messed up i would have been with the two of them still fighting their way through out my life. ) You just get torn between the fighting and with parents focusing more on their problems or unable to let go feelings it just becomes very toxic.

i think we forget that parents are human beings too. They aren't blessed with some God given instinct to do right all the time. They make mistakes because they are just as emotional and able to feel pain as anyone else. They do things thinking that it is the best for their child because they can't see how it may possibly play out in the long run. Sometimes a single parent can provide more stability than two parents together. So i don't know if they are selfish.

In terms of this show though, i think Pragya did a much better job on her own than Abhi did. Even before with Kiara, she was a great mother and her child was well rounded. Abhi on the other hand can only be a great father if Pragya is there to parent as well because you can see he the fab job he did with Rhea own his own. Like bro, you can't hand off your child to a governess or your family to raise. Every parent is responsible of instilling values in their child themselves. And despite all of the shit his sister has done, he still let her influence his child, that's messed up.

but do i find the idea that neither of them even thought about or attempted to meet each other or their child for 20 freaking years. Yeah, that's hard to believe. Abhi definitely had the means to find her if he wanted to, he just never did God knows why. I still can't believe he blamed Pragaya for Kiara's death when it was people related to his life, who were in their life because of him that were responsible for her death. SMH.

I've officially given up on logic in this show. My brain cannot handle the cellular degradation it brings to it.

I agree, i think these kind of plots can bring even more TRP than their shitty vamp drama. They just never try.

They essentially take advantage of the their leads because obviously everyone is watching the show for them, not for their BS storyline.

I agree the suicide thing was a a bit OTT by saying this, she's also in a way highlighting how it feels to be on the other end. Prachi wasn't really thinking when she attempted something like that and with Pragya threatning to do the same thing, she realized how scary it is to be on the other end of it.

I honestly don't think she's being selfish. Even if i loved my husband and the man was like Abhi, with his history of being dumb and easily manipulated, i'd want to keep my child at a distance from him too.

Originally posted by: sammy17

That's what abhi-pragya are. Their ego, their fights, their pain means more to them than their children's happiness.

Today for the first time prachi showed pragya that she wanted to know and meet her father by expressing that she feels that the man who had an accident and for whom pragya is showing so much concern is her father. Prachi desperately wanted an answer.

What justification does pragya have as a mother to keep her child away from knowing about her father? Is her father a dangerous criminal? No! Is he a bad and evil man? No! So why keep prachi away from knowing about her father even when she asks without having any solid reasons to keep her child away from her own father?

The answer to that is ego! Her and abhi had a fight, now she wants to stay away from him and she wants to punish her daughter whilst she's at it.

The icing on the cake in terms of pragya's selfishness was her double-standard stance on suicide. Prachi can't attempt suicide even if her life is being made hell by someone just because it would hurt pragya, but pragya can hurt prachi by threatening suicide merely for prachi asking about her father, despite it being prachi's right?

I agree the suicide thing was a a bit OTT by saying this, she's also in a way highlighting how it feels to be on the other end. Prachi wasn't really thinking when she attempted something like that and with Pragya threatning to do the same thing, she realized how scary it is to be on the other end of it.

I honestly don't think she's being selfish. Even if i loved my husband and the man was like Abhi, with his history of being dumb and easily manipulated, i'd want to keep my child at a distance from him too.

Although i don't think it's possible to do that.

Also sorry, i've been replying to individual posts but this reply and quote thing is throwing me off. I meant to quote but i've just been replying. *Facepalm

Originally posted by: Janas2017

Problem why these camps get away is there is no proper punishment for them in any of the serials. I understand they get their TRPs from villainous characters, but for how long would a character be so villainous and still live a life of luxury. As for the male lead here as also in other EK soaps, they r shown as dumb with a heart of gold but can marry umpteen number of times or have mistresses, yet their sati savitri wives will forgive them with open arms.

If at all EK can bring in new villains after properly punishing these old ones.

In fact, this serial now has a lot to show - I mean Pragya can tell Prachi the whole truth. She looks mature enough has a the genes of both parents. Prachi can then take up measures to punish Aliya, unite her parents and they can come together. OC, they can show Rhea being initially jealous, but because of her mother's love changes for better. The two daughters can have their difference of opinion, Prachi should be shown as someone who doesn't brook any nonsense. Not Sati Savitri. Also luv angle can be shown between RP when suddenly Rajat turns up.... And we have a new story.....🙂🙂🙂🙂

I agree, i think these kind of plots can bring even more TRP than their shitty vamp drama. They just never try.

They essentially take advantage of the their leads because obviously everyone is watching the show for them, not for their BS storyline.

(Lool i had to paste my reply. Sorry for the double post guys. I'm still getting a hang of the new website)

Originally posted by: misfit007

i don't know man, i'm kinda divided on the topic. Given the time and situation they seperated in, it kind of makes sense to me. They were driven by grief.

Both of them stayed away thinking the other hated them, still held them responsible for what happened and maybe felt the resentment within themselves too and i think when you spend your life living a certain way long enough you become used to it.

Second of all as someone whose parents seperated, i think it's better growing up with a single parent than growing up between parents who have resentment for one another. I can attest to both because i remember when my parents divorced and i grew up with just my father after my mother passed away. (That's obviously not to say i don't wish she was still here. i just mean i don't know how messed up i would have been with the two of them still fighting their way through out my life. ) You just get torn between the fighting and with parents focusing more on their problems or unable to let go feelings it just becomes very toxic.

i think we forget that parents are human beings too. They aren't blessed with some God given instinct to do right all the time. They make mistakes because they are just as emotional and able to feel pain as anyone else. They do things thinking that it is the best for their child because they can't see how it may possibly play out in the long run. Sometimes a single parent can provide more stability than two parents together. So i don't know if they are selfish.

In terms of this show though, i think Pragya did a much better job on her own than Abhi did. Even before with Kiara, she was a great mother and her child was well rounded. Abhi on the other hand can only be a great father if Pragya is there to parent as well because you can see he the fab job he did with Rhea own his own. Like bro, you can't hand off your child to a governess or your family to raise. Every parent is responsible of instilling values in their child themselves. And despite all of the shit his sister has done, he still let her influence his child, that's messed up.

but do i find the idea that neither of them even thought about or attempted to meet each other or their child for 20 freaking years. Yeah, that's hard to believe. Abhi definitely had the means to find her if he wanted to, he just never did God knows why. I still can't believe he blamed Pragaya for Kiara's death when it was people related to his life, who were in their life because of him that were responsible for her death. SMH.

I've officially given up on logic in this show. My brain cannot handle the cellular degradation it brings to it.

Yes Abhi has partial memory loss and forgot that Pragya would have never met King if he himself hadn’t thrown her out of his life by once again putting accusations on her.

I know sounds weird for an EK serial. But they have shown Prachi as sensitive, caring yet stubborn. So if Pragya sheds her fears of Prachi leaving her and tells all truth from beginning, maybe Prachi not only can unite her parents but at also bring Aliya to book. I mean find out the truth, stick to her principles and properly punish her for her misdeeds. Enough of Aliya not being punished. I was wondering why yesterday Dadi also was quiet. It seems as if they r pampering Aliya to make more mistakes.

And, Abhi, after this throws Aliya out. I am sure he will listen to Prachi because she is his daughter. Then they can turn Aryan villain and start with next storyline.

Originally posted by: Janas2017

I know sounds weird for an EK serial. But they have shown Prachi as sensitive, caring yet stubborn. So if Pragya sheds her fears of Prachi leaving her and tells all truth from beginning, maybe Prachi not only can unite her parents but at also bring Aliya to book. I mean find out the truth, stick to her principles and properly punish her for her misdeeds. Enough of Aliya not being punished. I was wondering why yesterday Dadi also was quiet. It seems as if they r pampering Aliya to make more mistakes.

And, Abhi, after this throws Aliya out. I am sure he will listen to Prachi because she is his daughter. Then they can turn Aryan villain and start with next storyline.

Yes! No point in ekta ever showing aliya having a redemption as she is an irredeemable character who is like a chameleon. Best they keep aliya like the irritating villain she is and have her punished. Plus I like prachi's character because she comes across as a lot stronger and standing up to bullshitters more than pragya who has this annoying habit of overlooking and forgiving negative actions of people like rhea now.