I believe it would help if one doesn't take stardom too seriously. Do it for the love of the art form, not to garner fans. Let fandom be a consequential aspect of your art form. Because the same people that put you over there, are capable enough to get you down as well. Also this way you and your art form remain sacred to you. You will keep doing what you love irrespective of the reaction it garners. With or without fans.
However if only attaining stardom was always your end goal, (nothing wrong in that too) then be aware of the fact that it is a double edged sword and fame comes with a price. If you are ready to pay that price go for it. Because fans are what make a 'star'. So yes you might have to cater to their demands to maintain the stardom. you shouldn't have to in an ideal world, but it is what it is and this is the price you got to pay to sustain that stardom. Seems scary and stiffing to me, but each to it's own.
In both the cases it helps when you don't take both failure and success too seriously. Learn from it sure...but then let go of it. It is when you keep holding on to it that makes it worse.
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