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Originally posted by: .SSSS.

May be CV's intention of showing that was that her love for Ruhaan could over power any other emotion for anyone else. She was not supposed to be just guilt she was also supposed to be sad for standing before Veer as a girl who has done mistake and for being at that situation and to think consequences she will be facing like how Veer and her dadi will take this and how society will label her as Kunal's daughter and all; She forgot all these things for a moment when she a couple in love and by imagining herself in love. And it's only a moment of imaginary happiness and when in real she met Ruhaan at that time..she wasn't romancing like her imagination. She was sad and wanted his assurance that she is not bad girl. And she could show her feeling guilt for Veer before only Ruhaan and was seeking comfort

Exactly yar, seeing someone happy she automatically imagined happy life that's not wrong, before seeing that couple her thoughts are filled with guilt and veer

If she didn't breakup than also people addressing she Kunal ki beti ,after breakup also saying she didn't thought about veer and baap ki beti

She thought about veer that's why breaker her commitment immediately ,she don't waited for mandap drama and she didn't romanced behind veer after realising ruhaan is her love

People are calling her selfish now, yes she is selfish and she can't raise hopes in veer heart after realising her feelings for someone, even if she is not loving ruhaan than also mishveer relationship don't have future

Find a heart that will love you at your worst and arms that will hold you at your weakest Nd mishti found solace in ruhaan because he is the one who supported her in weak times

Originally posted by: .SSSS.

I think she has both empathy and guilt for hurting Veer. She says with Ruhaan that she is very bad. I know this will again can be taken as Mihsti is scared of being labelled as bad girl and all..

I feel that she is not guilt about loving Ruhaan cause she.is aware subconsciously that falling for Ruhaan is not the reason for breaking up with Veer but not being able to love Veer. And it's not Veer's mistake , it's her mistake and she has acknowledged it and guilty about it too for hurting Veer in this. Mishveer were romancing so they were in love ? There are people who are casually dating and enjoying romance without love or anything deep.. and here in Mishti case she liked a guy she has choosen to be in relationship and she decided that she will be committed even before anything deeper can develop between them and since she decided that it's her commitment she started to involve romantically and she was enjoying too. She putting extra effort to make him feel special , she being hyper when he was leaving her.. all these things are more to do about she desperately wanted to workout her commitment.She was wrong.And she accepted it. She is right now is what she is believing that is why now she can't feel guilty of what she is doing but can only feel empathetic for Veer.

Bold part - those people knowsvery well they not love each other & doing time pass with each other. Heremishti know what she want so she chose veer for that & behave with him likethat way as lovely couple. Giving everyone assurance they are goalcouple.

IFa girl have so many boys friend. She have special liking towards one boy. Soshe spend more time with him & flaunting everywhere with him. Later theystart romantic intimacy & both are equally feel like each other. That iswhy they start dating & go ahead one step. IF girl & boy have justliking towards each other so they never go ahead with romantically intimacy. IFthey both are flirty nature so they can do anything just like Taani doingrecently. Normal physical closenes doing with friends means hug, peck on chickbut doing romantic intimacy with special on in spite of any special feelingmean I don’t getting here what is maker want to say exactly. I mean quite sometime Mishti is very very happy with any sort of physical intimacy with Veer& after Ruhaan entry she is like sudden throw out of the window type actfor me.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I haven't said or felt that you are bashing mishti or ruhaan.

If it's just about matter of choice and now she want love so she chose ruhaan, does that mean she is now no more expecting stability,secure life, 100% commitment person as life partner???

That is why I'm already said in my 1st post of under this topic I can't comment on Mishaan because they not officially stared yet. They are now on behind back of from everyone. When they start there official journey then I start analyse them.

They are showing clearly only, as far I know she is is dedicated in her commitment and ready to do anything to maintain it,and she is okay with veer

Once her heart started feeling for ruhaan , she always showed difference when veer hugged her, before realising and after realisation their so much difference

That time she didn't realised completely still from start of her love phase she felt awkward in veer arms

She never wanted to play with others emotipns, if she continue her commitment after realising her love that will look like cheating

But here she saved 3 hearts and life's breaking her commitment at the correct point of time

She is not mahan itv leads, she had flaws and she is beautiful with her flaws

Finally her heart found someone who accept her completely including her flaws that's ruhaan

Originally posted by: amolaarohi

Bold part - those people knowsvery well they not love each other & doing time pass with each other. Heremishti know what she want so she chose veer for that & behave with him likethat way as lovely couple. Giving everyone assurance they are goalcouple.

IFa girl have so many boys friend. She have special liking towards one boy. Soshe spend more time with him & flaunting everywhere with him. Later theystart romantic intimacy & both are equally feel like each other. That iswhy they start dating & go ahead one step. IF girl & boy have justliking towards each other so they never go ahead with romantically intimacy. IFthey both are flirty nature so they can do anything just like Taani doingrecently. Normal physical closenes doing with friends means hug, peck on chickbut doing romantic intimacy with special on in spite of any special feelingmean I don’t getting here what is maker want to say exactly. I mean quite sometime Mishti is very very happy with any sort of physical intimacy with Veer& after Ruhaan entry she is like sudden throw out of the window type actfor me.

May be makers want to show that being romantically comfortable is not love, She was enjoying romantically cause as per her the liking she has for Veer was love

Though it's just started with attraction with Ruhaan with time being she got one thing that no matter what, how worse she can became he will never leave her and he will always be there for her then again he will guide her what's better way to deal things and gives her freedom to do choose things in her own way Even when Ruhaan himself was saying that he wants to leave she was so confident that he can't leave her

She is feeling secure with Ruhaan which she never felt with Veer and she is reflecting the same for him like want to be with him no matter how difficult to deal things in this complicated situation would be.. so she realized she is in love

Though Mishti is only saying that she was never able to love Veer , she might have aslo felt she was never loved by him the way she wanted to, I am not saying Veer has not loved her but Mishti may not have felt that as she is in the need of much more attention and was need to be prioritized to get over her insecurities

Once she started to realize that that she may not be in love with Veer then his touch started to make her feel uncomfortable and it's always that she believing that she was in love was what made her comfortable in being intimate with Veer

This post is liking reading my thoughts in print. You write really well 👍🏿

I don't like the way Misti responds to any situation which makes her uncomfortable. Being rude, shouting, cringing. I mean, what if Ruhaan had no feelings for her? His life would have been hellish as a P. G. if Misti behaved how she did to fight her feelings. A P.G. could hear Misti shouting at Pari and about their parents lives. Ansh's smoking was exposed in front of his grandmother and would be Jiju in a harsh way. I am not defending Pari or Ansh. They had made mistakes. Siblings are generally more sensitive about these matters. I felt like Misti didn't take into account that they could feel hurt or embarrassed. Misti's instinctive response never seems to be a firm discussion. I don't connect with this behavior of lashing out first.

The concept of her not loving Veer is lost on me. As per Radhika, she couldn't wait 3 months for her wedding before. Why would a girl who can't be herself in front of her would be groom and family be excited for her marriage? If love was not the basis of Misti's commitment to Veer, then why was she with him to begin with?

Breaking up with your partner before a new commitment spells decency and not bravery to me. For me, a really brave decision would have been for Misti to break up with Veer when she started feeling uncomfortable with him. No girl can think of willingly marrying a guy when his touch makes her feel bad. There was no need for Misti to realise her feelings towards Ruhaan for the break up when she had already identified her feelings for Veer.

So far, I liked Misti for putting full efforts to come clean and taking responsibility for the break up. Also, the story is moving forward which is another plus point for me.