I'm okay with Guddan leaving temporarily after today's episode - Page 3

Looking at the precap, I think AJ does the angry rant and walks off from the scene. And Bua is going to talk BS about pati-patni rishta.... I kinda felt that when it was decided to keep the reality of their rishta, AJ lost it at nick of the moment. And left Guddan behind to face the embarrassment of Bua's ideology. 😡

I know its unintentional, but I felt sad for Guddan when she was dealing with the insults all alone when AJ is the one who isn't really into getting into a 'real' marriage or whatever Bua calls it. 🤔

Originally posted by: Akshata2010

Looking at the precap, I think AJ does the angry rant and walks off from the scene. And Bua is going to talk BS about pati-patni rishta.... I kinda felt that when it was decided to keep the reality of their rishta, AJ lost it at nick of the moment. And left Guddan behind to face the embarrassment of Bua's ideology. 😡

I know its unintentional, but I felt sad for Guddan when she was dealing with the insults all alone when AJ is the one who isn't really into getting into a 'real' marriage or whatever Bua calls it. 🤔

we all knew it we kept on saying guddan get out but she has lost it ..

aab again she came back to get more ...

Even I am in, for Guddan leaving Jindal Bhavan so that AJ feels restless and run behind Guddan.

He has accepted Guddan as his wife so he must be ready to give her happiness of being a Mother, whenever she is comfortable & ready.

Actually he should start making her feel as wife to him, make some efforts for her so that she can think of having a family with him, so that both can take their relationship one level up.

But knowing that she is Guddan, she will come after short break as usual.

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

he has to initiate it guddan won't because she knows he will not like if she force her on him ..

he needs to decide ...

let her move on or he moving on from past to the brightest future .

choice is his aar ya paar beech mai kuch nahi bacha sardard

Agreed. He can say that it will take time but he shouldnt be saying things like this will never happen. That kind of negates all his 7 vows that he took with her in front of the entire family. What was the point of all that drama when he said that I will accept you as my wife whole heartedly

Just stating my POV :-

I am for Guddu leaving the house this time as this is leading to something awesome but not for the realization of need to give love due to pati dharam.

Going away for the realization of the fact that they can't stay without each other is a yes for me.

Going away for the realization of the extent & intensity of their feelings is a yes.

But the realization of need to "pyaar dena" to keep her with him as his wife is a no.

i.e. I mean Pyaar dena for the sake of pyaar dena is a no.

One can't force himself/herself to give someone love. That needs to come out gradually which is happening. The latest development is just a catalyst to the process & I am sure I won't be disappointed here. 😊

Judaai Judaai rabba aaye ye Judaai

Originally posted by: Akshata2010

Looking at the precap, I think AJ does the angry rant and walks off from the scene. And Bua is going to talk BS about pati-patni rishta.... I kinda felt that when it was decided to keep the reality of their rishta, AJ lost it at nick of the moment. And left Guddan behind to face the embarrassment of Bua's ideology. 😡

I know its unintentional, but I felt sad for Guddan when she was dealing with the insults all alone when AJ is the one who isn't really into getting into a 'real' marriage or whatever Bua calls it. 🤔

I'm not really angry at him. Because I kind of expected it. But I'm feeling sorry for him 🤓that even almost death didn't teach him one simple thing👎🏼that accepting her as a wife wholeheartedly means accepting every aspect of the marriage and kids are an integral part in marriage at least in India.

@ Bold Agree. it was a bit sad. Because it is not her fault. She is gracefully accepting whatever he is okay with. So far their marriage is controlled by Akshat. However I'm pretty sure the outcome of this separation track (brief or not brief) will be fun. And he will lose some of his control. let's see😈

Originally posted by: kavya1994

Even I am in, for Guddan leaving Jindal Bhavan so that AJ feels restless and run behind Guddan.

He has accepted Guddan as his wife so he must be ready to give her happiness of being a Mother, whenever she is comfortable & ready.

Actually he should start making her feel as wife to him, make some efforts for her so that she can think of having a family with him, so that both can take their relationship one level up.

But knowing that she is Guddan, she will come after short break as usual.

@ Bold : Agreed! It was uncool to announce it in front of the entire family that this will never happen because he is basically negating his own words😳

He needs to think and analyze his feelings before he acts. He is acting like Guddan😆

Originally posted by: castaway11

I'm not really angry at him. Because I kind of expected it. But I'm feeling sorry for him 🤓that even almost death didn't teach him one simple thing👎🏼that accepting her as a wife wholeheartedly means accepting every aspect of the marriage and kids are an integral part in marriage at least in India.

@ Bold Agree. it was a bit sad. Because it is not her fault. She is gracefully accepting whatever he is okay with. So far their marriage is controlled by Akshat. However I'm pretty sure the outcome of this separation track (brief or not brief) will be fun. And he will lose some of his control. let's see😈

I guess we'll know the full story in tomorrow's episode, but I can't believe that after the MS fiasco, AJ exposed the truth of their relationship in public again in a fit of anger and then left them both, especially Guddan, vulnerable to third-party interference, something he vowed never to do. It's a good thing she hasn't fallen in love with him or doesn't know if she has yet, or she would be heartbroken at his outburst. Every time he lets "cracks" in their relationship show to the outside world, they take advantage of it to disrespect Guddan.

Even though we as the audience think they are doing just fine going through various phases in their lives, and that this is not a crack but a phase in their journey together, people like Bua will never understand. She doesn't get the concept of dosti in the first place, so she won't get how that can be the basis of a relationship between a married couple. I will hold back my comments about AJ's behavior until tomorrow - I am trying hard not to be mad at him after those grand vows. 😃

If this is leading to the "getting over the guilt regarding Antra" track, then fine. Otherwise, I don't want him to be cold towards Guddan like he was last time and hurt her feelings again. Can't take that. Love or not, he had better miss her presence in his life, in his room, and miss her words every second.

On one hand he can't live without her and can't even imagine her being taken away from him, on the other hand he blasts people for assuming what is typically expected of a couple. The point is not whether they are interested in being intimate with each other or not, the point is, it's none of anyone else's business how they define their relationship.

Or maybe this is another plan that both of them have hatched to teach Bua a lesson. Chances are low, but I can dream, can't I?😉

Originally posted by: inlieu

I guess we'll know the full story in tomorrow's episode, but I can't believe that after the MS fiasco, AJ exposed the truth of their relationship in public again in a fit of anger and then left them both, especially Guddan, vulnerable to third-party interference, something he vowed never to do. It's a good thing she hasn't fallen in love with him or doesn't know if she has yet, or she would be heartbroken at his outburst. Every time he lets "cracks" in their relationship show to the outside world, they take advantage of it to disrespect Guddan.

Even though we as the audience think they are doing just fine going through various phases in their lives, and that this is not a crack but a phase in their journey together, people like Bua will never understand. She doesn't get the concept of dosti in the first place, so she won't get how that can be the basis of a relationship between a married couple. I will hold back my comments about AJ's behavior until tomorrow - I am trying hard not to be mad at him after those grand vows. 😃

If this is leading to the "getting over the guilt regarding Antra" track, then fine. Otherwise, I don't want him to be cold towards Guddan like he was last time and hurt her feelings again. Can't take that. Love or not, he had better miss her presence in his life, in his room, and miss her words every second.

On one hand he can't live without her and can't even imagine her being taken away from him, on the other hand he blasts people for assuming what is typically expected of a couple. The point is not whether they are interested in being intimate with each other or not, the point is, it's none of anyone else's business how they define their relationship.

Or maybe this is another plan that both of them have hatched to teach Bua a lesson. Chances are low, but I can dream, can't I?😉

@bold: Exactly what I feel!! I mean, whatever happens inside your room should stay in your room. In a way, he has repeated the same mistake he made last time when he broke the MS. He took it from her, showing her and the world that she is NO WIFE to him. Today again, his words in a fit of anger meant the same thing. All he could have done was said that she ain't pregnant and it would stop the impending drama. Was it necessary to expose the nature of relationship that they share behind 4 walls of their room..?

@red: Behen, ITV mei there seems to be no privacy! Your business is everybody's business. 😔 I don't want him to feel the need to be intimate or in love with her for the sake of the famous 7 vachan. It has to come from within. But mainly my concern is, AJ behaving impulsive and irrationally when he is very specifically required to be calm. Evrytime their relationship came into question was because of him.