Still clinging to Imarti while falling for Babita?

What a way to start the week with such a beautiful episode......🥳

A dream come true for all PB fans yesterday. Immensely loving the way the plot taking shape. Kudos to the creative team.👏

Everything that I felt was already been discussed by you all in another forum topic and I feel no different either. I was grinning like a love-sick teenager☺️ while watching the episode but one thing that had me unsettled was when HS took Imarti's name.

If we look back at the earlier episodes, HS tells Minnie that he felt his Imarti come back to life through the mother and daughter. That was fine to see Babita and Imarti in the same way because he had no romantic feelings for the former then.

But going by the current status of their equation, it is unfair to fall in love with Babita while still clinging to Imarti's memories. He must love Babita for who she is and not because he feels her to be the reincarnation of Imarti. It's fine for now because Babita is not even aware of his growing love for her. But it matters a lot when she too falls for him and when they get married.

No woman would love to share her husband's love with another woman even if the latter is his late wife and Babita's case is much more sensitive than that of any other typical remarriage. She's already shared her husband with another woman for nearly 17 years, unknowingly though. She can't afford to face the same situation with HS as well. No doubt, she immensely respects Imarti now because she's yet to fall for HS but one can't expect her to share HS with his late wife after their marriage.

Imarti will always be a sweet memory for HS but he must marry Babita only when he's sure that he loves Babita as Babita and not as Imarti's shadow.

And I am sure that the creative team will handle their feelings more maturely and sensitively as they've always been doing till date.

Setting this apart, the episode, on the whole, was FANTASTIC and FLAWLESS......❤️

Its immensly difficult to forget that person whom you loved and cherished in your life and lost them forever(especially if they have passed away), but it dosent mean you will never fall for someone and still have feelings for your past love.however harsh it might be but this is the truth of life. With time you might love your new partner more but still a part of you will always feel for your first love. I know this thats why i am saying.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

Its immensly difficult to forget that person whom you loved and cherished in your life and lost them forever(especially if they have passed away), but it dosent mean you will never fall for someone and still have feelings for your past love.however harsh it might be but this is the truth of life. With time you might love your new partner more but still a part of you will always feel for your first love. I know this thats why i am saying.

I didn't mean for him to forget Imarti. I know first love is unforgettable. All I want is that he must not try finding Imarti in Babita. He must know to differentiate between them and give them their own, special space in his life.

i am understanding what are you trying to say.after seeing the precap the same feeling was came in my mind.

even i don't want to see reincarnation of imarti in babita.atleast not compeletely afterall babita & imarti two compeletely different persons.

but yes i want to see some qualities of imarti in babita like fought for her rights , stand for her self respect & kisi se dabna nahi especially in eve teasing case.

& i have compelete faith on pb's writers they will handle that situation very smartly😊

Originally posted by: Rosellia

i am understanding what are you trying to say.after seeing the precap the same feeling was came in my mind.

even i don't want to see reincarnation of imarti in babita.atleast not compeletely afterall babita & imarti two compeletely different persons.

but yes i want to see some qualities of imarti in babita like fought for her rights , stand for her self respect & kisi se dabna nahi especially in eve teasing case.

& i have compelete faith on pb's writers they will handle that situation very smartly😊

@bold

That's true and fair of him to expect such qualities of Imarti in Babita or in any woman for that matter. The point is that he should also love her with those qualities that sets her apart from Imarti as well. Only then will it be a true and everlasting love.

Originally posted by: RTDeewani

@bold

That's true and fair of him to expect such qualities of Imarti in Babita or in any woman for that matter. The point is that he should also love her with those qualities that sets her apart from Imarti as well. Only then will it be a true and everlasting love.

& i think he loves that qualities.one of the qualties of babita is her caring nature whether for dear ones or others.& he likes that quality.

imarti was a outspoken person & babita is a shy type person.both are compeletely different.& yes if he will love the qualities of babita that will called be a "true love"

I felt that today when the Ladies were teasing him and I think that he uses her memory has a shield and the same happen a few episodes back when some Girls were teasing him, he said the same thing about his late wife.

I think that both of them beginning to love each other but are struck with what will people say.

Both of them have loved and lost there 1st love. So maybe that why they are still in the 1st stages.

Originally posted by: guddi01

I felt that today when the Ladies were teasing him and I think that he uses her memory has a shield and the same happen a few episodes back when some Girls were teasing him, he said the same thing about his late wife.

I think that both of them beginning to love each other but are struck with what will people say.

Both of them have loved and lost there 1st love. So maybe that why they are still in the 1st stages.

But Yes, he used Imarti as a shield to cover up his feelings from the nosy women. But I think Kammo and Madhu have realized that Hanuman's Heer is none other than Babita when she sat on his bike.

I don't know what rumours will they spread about them in the community now that they've got such an interesting news to gossip about. I hope their rumours won't force HS and Babita to marry immediately as that would seem too rushed.

I want the love story to progress gradually.

I agree with what you are saying... Somewhere here, the phrase 'move on' actually comes into surface. Let me tell you something, when his wife died, do you remember how initially he used to consume alcohol? Well, that is a clear indication that HS could ever forget Imarti. And right now, the feelings he has developed for Babes is not 'love', but just mere attraction. And, if he moves on with this feeling, it's going to be dangerous for their relationship. Though, I am sure CV's will show a proper love story, somewhere down I hope that their love is really deep. And the feeling that Babita had for Ashok was not love but again, attraction. Just a mere infatuation. I have a lot of hope from HS-Babita relationship ??. I hope they have an eternal love story like Heer and Ranjha, Dev- Sonakshi to name a few. ?

imarti will always be part of him , in his memories...happy past .

since she was the women who influenced hanuman singh to change that age old patriarchal mindset , made him believe in equality .

but her untimely decease changed the life of hanuman singh , he busied himself more in his job & drinking in nights ...this was his life for years , & all this while he did missed his wife but was strong enough to not drown in sorrow thus he went on with life following the principles & being the person that imarti always wanted him to be .

thanks to this sincerity & kindness he could understand both babita-mini in the first place . he helped them , supported them in the worst of their times , also showed straight disapproval when they seriously annoyed him .

now as the falling for each other has begun , i hope they keep the balance between past & present , in hanumanji's language...kaal...😆(very well he taught babita today) . some comparisons r never healthy , their story should be based more on understanding & acceptance , which i feel is there .