Why I feel the gang is not selfish reagrding swamun - Page 2

Originally posted by: becool97

I agree with you.It is very easy to blame someone but hard to imagine us in their shoes.The gang is not at all at fault.They also asked him if the helped him to elope with her,They would have helped him in every way.If he would have cried they would have lend him shoulders.But munna is poignant and yet happy.He had understood that the relationship had failed but doesn't blame swati because he knows that they were equally at fault.And naina being selfish is okay.She prioritizes sameer a little bit over others and she wouid have listened to swati if she wouid not have called in wrong time.I agree that during the election track it is gang's fault but i did not like when swati went overboard and said that she has been a shadow of her.she has inferiority complex deeply rooted within her.She herself taunted naina as padhaku and pyar na samajhne wali.And Naina is not a bad friend.If she had been a bad friend she wouid have take revenge but she let her free as she understood that she is having a hard time and issues to sort out.She still considered her as friend.she trusted her blindly.So it is nobody's fault.Sometimes life puts you in such situations that we cannot segregate good and bad.We all are grey right?

And swati had always jump to conclusion.How easily she trusted sunaina.If they had such a long friendship she shouid have tried harder to talk to her.Such a long friendship and still she has insecurities.Insecurities is not good in any relationship.Agree that it was gang's fault to ignore her worth.But she still couid have stood for herself and present her concerns more openly.She always hides things and doesnot speak her heart out so she is at fault too.So is munna.She always compares munna with sameer and their relationship with samaina.But the truth is every relationship is different and needs equal commitment.She sees love with rose tinted glasses but love is not all about beauty its about tears too.As naina said wo toh kaanton ka taaz bhi hota hai.Couid swati love munna with his flaws? 😕I think not.Will she will be able to bear the brunt of sameer as naina does?

She dreams of a perfect relationship with a perfect guy.But is life perfect always?

So she never escaped the shadow of sameer and never saw munna in his own merit.Had seen seen munna differently she wouid have tried with her life to go any lengths for him.And munna was also blinded by the friendship to little notice her merits.And she also did not understood the dimensions of their friendship.Naina knows that she can never take the place of mundit and accepts that.But swati wants her guy to give all attention to her.These are the key cause for fail of their relationship

And even if they wouid have eloped and married with the help of the gang,still they wouid have been unhappy because of each others contrasting nature.

But i am not a swati hater.I too sympathize with her.But saying that munna and naina are totally at fault will be blasphemy.I certainly dislike the way CVs rushed things but still happy that they showed it realistically.Its not about faults but it is about perspectives.I am happy that munna has realised his fault.Hope the give proper closure to this track with swatina"s emotional convo.