Why I feel the gang is not selfish reagrding swamun

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I might be of umpopular opinion but I feel swati has always had an inferiority complex...
I remember once when naina got the chit which swati thought was for her from sameer...she said na yeh munh aur masoor ki daal...I didn't like it at all...which best friends says that...
Later she deep down didn't like that sameer choose a girl like naina...
I have always not liked her shaadi wala pyaar rant...and time and again saying ke sab ladke aise hi hote hain..thats why I always adore PreNa over SwaTina...preeti has always made sure naina never gives up on sameer and their relationship

Swati has always been of the filmy type and wanted a guy like sameer who will give her so much attention and love and support..but I bet she wouldn't have taken MunDit involvement and the amount of time sameer spends with them the same way as naina has. We can't deny the fact that sameer managed the balance also thanks to nainas considered nature...she was hapy in wht she got and still understands MunDits place in sameers life...

Fine her feeling negleted during elections was justified but during the confrontation with naina..she celary showed traits of inferiority complex...naina has always achieved whatever she wants theough hard work..be it sameer also..but swati always wanted sameer to come behind her ...

Well in this particular situation I do found swati moore at fault because she put all the blame on munna..yes she might have tried to talk..but in shaadi epi shes said that she asked Munna to talk to the parents..but saying that during shaadi preps and telling him that her roka is about to happen is two complete different things...

The gang helped samaina in eloping because they wanted to fight for their love and they where in a relationship..and needed to stop nainas forcefull marriage..here none of swati or Munna are keen on fighting for their love...so what can the gang do..and even if they do something..is it right on swamun path if now they don't feel the same...?
I do feel during exams naina and swati might have a talk..so I don't think her chapter is all closed yet...

Its not a bashing post but I feel its not right to call the gang selfish when the person in question themselves are not intersted...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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People r not saying the gang selfish. They r saying naina is selfish 😆 Everyone is at fault. At the election whole gang was at fault. Even Swati too. And now in swamun case again both r at fault. Let's see what will naina do. A conversation between swatina is necessary.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Thank you for making this post.
I completely agree with you
and what is that thing
tali ek hath se nhi bajti
munna is also at fault
but swati is not at less fault
she herself have not told anyone of her roka
neither naina nor munna
they came to know
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Thank you for making the post. I completely agree with you. Nobody can do anything if the person in question is not interested. It is said that "God helps those who help themselves", so what a mere human being can do.
Even, in real life, we try to help our friends in wooing a girl/guy, in patching up but if our friend is not interested at all in keeping his/her relationship alive, we do not force them. Same thing is happening here. Munna and Swati both have lost their hope n are not interested in keeping this relationship. In this scenario, friends around them can't help them. But yes, a proper closure should be there. I hope in coming episodes, we get to see SwatiNa conversation about this.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rph09

People r not saying the gang selfish. They r saying naina is selfish😆Everyone is at fault. At the election whole gang was at fault. Even Swati too. And now in swamun case again both r at fault. Let's see what will naina do. A conversation between swatina is necessary.



Yaar le deke sab naina pe hi aata hai 😆

Itne lambe Judai phase ke baad naina ko sameer Se phone pe baat karni thi Swati to bola pls kal baat karenge to Naina selfish
Shadi mein naina baar baar poochti rahi ki Swati kahan hai.. par kisi ne sach nahi bataya
Swati ka roka hone se Pehle usne Munna ya Gang ki help nahi maangi bas roka kar liya. Sameer and Pandit ne Munna ko kaha chal Bhaga laate hain par just coz Munna ne mana kar diya usse kisi ne baat bhi nahi ki iss Baare mein aur khelne khaane mein busy ho gaye. Naina ne jise dukhi dekha uska Bharosa karke bola "Swati ne galat kiya
CVs iss baat ko discuss hi nahi karna chahte to naina akeli Kaise selfish ho ho gayi
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Jinki love story hai agar unhone hi haar maan li to dost kya karenge?

Naina ki zabardasti shaadi ke waqt sameer mundit ke against jaake naina ki car ke peeche bhaga tha. Naina apni marzi Se aur sameer ki Himmat ke Sahare Bhagi thi

Agar sab friends pe depend karta to Naina ki shaadi sharad se ho chuki hoti
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I agree with the fact that gang kuch nhi kr sakti if SwaMun hv given up. SamAina eloped bcz Naina was being forced to get married even after she said no. Swati's parents don't seem like the ones to force her. I agree Munna gave her no assurance but she too didn't voice it to her parents. She could've simply refused to get married.
But I feel gang should've atleast not forgotten her so easily. Naina should've atleast talked to her. We don't know why CVs did not or could not give such a scene. So I'm still hopeful we might get a SwaNa conversation soon.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Main leads character ka Ulta pulta ho raha hai..
SwaMun toh side characters hai...
When Naina decided to leave Sameer
Mundit and girls did all that Sameer said to convince Naina but now they are not even giving a try to cheer up Munna..

Chalo Munna se Shaadi nahi hua but as a best friend Naina didn't even care to call Swati and talk about her Roka & fiance ??
Remember after Naina's Roka how other girls used ask about Sharad ...

Whatever let's c f CVs give us a conversation f Swati & Naina
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Hi Abida,
I am a silent reader and I love your posts but never commented on it... But today I would like to say that I totally agree with what you said about swati and munna relationship they both are wrong... for munna ignoring swati ever since he got her and swati comparing munna to sameer and somewhere I found that she wanted to show naina that she even though being more beautiful than naina can also have bf... to be honest swati appears to be most confusing character... I never understood why she said yes to munna... and in election conformation... even after being inrealtionship with munna why she said that it was naina who brought sameer between them... I didn't liked it at all... what was that even... who say such thing when you are dating your crush's bestie... sorry for the long post...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I agree abida
Naina or the gang is not at much fault here.
swati never confronted them
she goes to think things herself and then wants people to come to her
how is that possibile
no one will have an ounce of an idea
what is going in your head till you don't give them a hint

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