Messed Up - 24/03/19

AnnaPearl thumbnail
Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#1
What the heck was that.
Do they really think if they don't show the full scene or if Bela is not the victim the audience will think a rape scene is okay.
I really don't know what must have been going on with the writers mind when writing yesterday's episode.
I felt absolutely sick during the scene. The thought of what happened is more than enough to make me feel disgusted with the writers. For god sakes they are writing a supernatural show. If it was absolutely a 1000% time necessary for someone to be shown pregnant, they could have shown some magical, no touching way to do it. I think that is the most horrible thing, that giving such a scene could have been entirely avoided but they chose no to, the chose to go on with the scene.

Let's not forget Hukum, he is completely stupid. With all the Hukum is so great and dangerous from everyone. I expected someone smart. This is a dumb guy with a big ego who has his head high in the sky. So much for being so powerful. Couldn't even recognize who real Bela was.

I think the end of the episode this is going to be one behir scene I disliked. Mahir gave off uncaring vibes towards Vish. He seemed to only care that the child would be less powerful since his mother is not the real naagrani. Which again was messed up because does love the people who he is close to and considers family and Vish and Vik do come in that list. Even when Mahir and Vik found Vish and he understood what happened. You could make out the look of hurt and sadness on his face. But they had to give him improperly thought out dialogues and ruin it.

I do support Vish in the precap. Why is everyone behaving like whatever Hukum says is pathar ki lakeer. Hukum said he will father Adhka so the child is evil. Why do they believe so much in hukum. They are treating him like some a God. Just because a parent is evil doesn't mean a child will be evil, at least not by birth.

Yesterday's episode was a disaster for me.

Created

Last reply

Replies

13

Views

1.3k

Users

8

Likes

26

Frequent Posters

Priya258 thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 6 years ago
#2
I haven't watched yesterday's epi as I know either Bela or Vish either of them going to suffer.
And it was Vish.
Whether it's Bela or Vish in both cases this is utterly very very wrong.I only find our N3 forum members are disappointed otherwise other social media people is all ok as it was not Bela.
I read live update and it showed how low Mukta and Mrinal could go.That scene is disgusting Saturday's precap one then only I decided not to watch.
Except Vikrant everyone is out of character the very next day.
Mahir was never like that.Vish got raped and here BeHir talking so casually Bela asking for icecream like what the hell.
Even Vish there's not a single sign of trauma sadness pain she is all ready make up jewellery.
Does Mukta even understand the meaning of rape?
If she can't handle it so why to show.
Yes they could have and magical stuff avoiding physical contact.
But Mukta Mrinal the writers being a creative and writer is utterly disgusting
VARUNI2014 thumbnail
7th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#3

Originally posted by: AnnaPearl

What the heck was that.
Do they really think if they don't show the full scene or if Bela is not the victim the audience will think a rape scene is okay.
I really don't know what must have been going on with the writers mind when writing yesterday's episode.
I felt absolutely sick during the scene. The thought of what happened is more than enough to make me feel disgusted with the writers. For god sakes they are writing a supernatural show. If it was absolutely a 1000% time necessary for someone to be shown pregnant, they could have shown some magical, no touching way to do it. I think that is the most horrible thing, that giving such a scene could have been entirely avoided but they chose no to, the chose to go on with the scene.

Let's not forget Hukum, he is completely stupid. With all the Hukum is so great and dangerous from everyone. I expected someone smart. This is a dumb guy with a big ego who has his head high in the sky. So much for being so powerful. Couldn't even recognize who real Bela was.

I think the end of the episode this is going to be one behir scene I disliked. Mahir gave off uncaring vibes towards Vish. He seemed to only care that the child would be less powerful since his mother is not the real naagrani. Which again was messed up because does love the people who he is close to and considers family and Vish and Vik do come in that list. Even when Mahir and Vik found Vish and he understood what happened. You could make out the look of hurt and sadness on his face. But they had to give him improperly thought out dialogues and ruin it.

I do support Vish in the precap. Why is everyone behaving like whatever Hukum says is pathar ki lakeer. Hukum said he will father Adhka so the child is evil. Why do they believe so much in hukum. They are treating him like some a God. Just because a parent is evil doesn't mean a child will be evil, at least not by birth.

Yesterday's episode was a disaster for me.


It's regarding spiritual ..a .demon child can never be good ..

Bad man or rakshasa child can be good ..hiranyaksha . Child is prahlada

But a demon child can't be good ..he will be a demon hukum is demon

Vish is falling in to illusion of mother love ..
beguiling thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#4
WORD to everything you wrote.
CottonWorld thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 6 years ago
#5
My issue is not that they've shown a rape scene...such scenes were shown in shows before. In fact Ekta herself had shown such a scene long back in Kyunki Saas and that too marital rape.
The way they executed the next scenes after it is my major issue. And I believe it's just the writer's fault here. Ekta anyways doesn't follow N3 as confessed by her...so I doubt she knows the blunder made by her writer. Ekta she handled this issue maturely in such regressive times...a lot better so I don't see that she would present the issue like this NOW.

I don't understand how the other people involved with the show object to it...the execution I mean. Did they not think how insensitive it looked...it's like they are treating it as just any other event and not a life altering event in a woman's life.

Think the writer should realise what she did last night... I hope she's not replying to fan's messages rudely because she is at fault here. She better apologise instead for treating rape in such a trivial manner.
beguiling thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail Engager Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#6

Originally posted by: CottonWorld

My issue is not that they've shown a rape scene...such scenes were shown in shows before. In fact Ekta herself had shown such a scene long back in Kyunki Saas and that too marital rape.

The way they executed the next scenes after it is my major issue. And I believe it's just the writer's fault here. Ekta anyways doesn't follow N3 as confessed by her...so I doubt she knows the blunder made by her writer. Ekta she handled this issue maturely in such regressive times...a lot better so I don't see that she would present the issue like this NOW.

I don't understand how the other people involved with the show object to it...the execution I mean. Did they not think how insensitive it looked...it's like they are treating it as just any other event and not a life altering event in a woman's life.

Think the writer should realise what she did last night... I hope she's not replying to fan's messages rudely because she is at fault here. She better apologise instead for treating rape in such a trivial manner.



In a number of EK shows they showed the FL being raped by the ML and then the FL forgiving and falling in love with him simply because he was sorry for what he did 🤢


EK shows have never dealt with the subject of sexual harassment with sensitivity.


In none of the previous seasons anything like this was shown. A dragged storyline can still be tolerated but an insensitive one cannot be.


I just want the show to end now.
The.Wanderer thumbnail
8th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#7
Cotton world I applaud you.

And Anna, Mukta is showing that no matter the child comes from a woman's womb, she will have no influence over the child. Only the man, the father will influence the child.


So this is her sick feminism.
CottonWorld thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 6 years ago
#8

Originally posted by: beguiling



In a number of EK shows they showed the FL being raped by the ML and then the FL forgiving and falling in love with him simply because he was sorry for what he did 🤢


EK shows have never dealt with the subject of sexual harassment with sensitivity.


In none of the previous seasons anything like this was shown. A dragged storyline can still be tolerated but an insensitive one cannot be.


I just want the show to end now.


See I haven't seen ITV shows religiously in ages now...and the last Ekta show I followed was KMH maybe. So I don't know what she's been doing since then..you are right and maybe I'm uninformed about the latest script pattern of EK shows.
But I still stand by what I said previously...she had dealt with rape a lot better in Kyunki. That was my reference. And it was on martial rape that too...which people don't even consider as rape sometimes even in today's times. Hence why I gave a benefit of doubt to Ekta and blamed the writer completely.
And yes the writer has to do something really big if she wants to rectify it.. else gracefully end the show.
VARUNI2014 thumbnail
7th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#9

Originally posted by: The.Wanderer

Cotton world I applaud you.

And Anna, Mukta is showing that no matter the child comes from a woman's womb, she will have no influence over the child. Only the man, the father will influence the child.


So this is her sick feminism.


It's a demon right ..demonic qualities i.e seed or womb always .results in demon ..even if woman is demon and man normal ..demonic child is the output
AnnaPearl thumbnail
Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#10

Originally posted by: CottonWorld

My issue is not that they've shown a rape scene...such scenes were shown in shows before. In fact Ekta herself had shown such a scene long back in Kyunki Saas and that too marital rape.

The way they executed the next scenes after it is my major issue. And I believe it's just the writer's fault here. Ekta anyways doesn't follow N3 as confessed by her...so I doubt she knows the blunder made by her writer. Ekta she handled this issue maturely in such regressive times...a lot better so I don't see that she would present the issue like this NOW.

I don't understand how the other people involved with the show object to it...the execution I mean. Did they not think how insensitive it looked...it's like they are treating it as just any other event and not a life altering event in a woman's life.

Think the writer should realise what she did last night... I hope she's not replying to fan's messages rudely because she is at fault here. She better apologise instead for treating rape in such a trivial manner.

I wouldn't say I didn't have issues with the rape scene. The thought of what was happening was enough to have me like I was puking.
But yes the insensitivity with which everything was handled just worsened everything. Just after when they found Vish some concern was showing, Vish seemed to be shaken. Second day Vish is completely normal, they BeHir scene wanted me to bang my head on the wall, Mahir is relieved the baby will be less powerful as it is not Bela's, Bela just seemed to be lacking anger towards Hukum, which was horrible to see as Mahir is a person who is very concerned for his loved ones and Bela can be a furious woman when she is angry

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".