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dellaakdha

@dellaakdha

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: RTDeewani
And yes... most importantly... TFS @dellakdha and all the original uploaders of these lovely pics...

BTW @dellakdha, I loved your new signature with Suriya 👏⭐️.

Are you South Indian or precisely, Tamilian?

Welcome Dear 😊 Yes , I am from Tamil Nadu... Suriya's recent article about the abuse and crimes against girls (mainly about the recent sexual abuse case) had many HARD HITTING TRUTH about our way of upbringing girls by suppressing them in the name of honour of family...The lines in the pic is one of them...

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RTDeewani

@RTDeewani

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: dellaakdha

Welcome Dear 😊 Yes , I am from Tamil Nadu... Suriya's recent article about the abuse and crimes against girls (mainly about the recent sexual abuse case) had many HARD HITTING TRUTH about our way of upbringing girls by suppressing them in the name of honour of family...The lines in the pic is one of them...

Yeah, I know. Even my mom's friends and some of my relatives, being women, were mostly blaming the girls for the entire fiasco but he, being a MAN, has assessed the situation and it's cause so well that none can argue against.

It's the society and its warped, biased idea about a man and woman's dignity that's to be blamed more than the rapists I believe.

There's a saying that "It's only a woman who can understand another woman."

But my mom's friends and those relatives proved me totally wrong.

Anyways, I am sorry to spam this thread with such heavy talks when it was meant to fuss about the upcoming Holi track.

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dellaakdha

@dellaakdha

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: RTDeewani

Yeah, I know. Even my mom's friends and some of my relatives, being women, were mostly blaming the girls for the entire fiasco but he, being a MAN, has assessed the situation and it's cause so well that none can argue against.

It's the society and its warped, biased idea about a man and woman's dignity that's to be blamed more than the rapists I believe.

There's a saying that "It's only a woman who can understand another woman."

But my mom's friends and those relatives proved me totally wrong.

Anyways, I am sorry to spam this thread with such heavy talks when it was meant to fuss about the upcoming Holi track.

@bold...Very true...And Don't be sorry...Patiala Babes is also about Women's struggle na,so I feel it's relatable...After reading the article even i remembered the scene between Mini and Babita in the Morning (babes telling about upbringing of Mini ) following the court fiasco... Babita's dialogues are so relatable with the article...

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divyadaya13

@divyadaya13

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: RTDeewani

Yeah, I know. Even my mom's friends and some of my relatives, being women, were mostly blaming the girls for the entire fiasco but he, being a MAN, has assessed the situation and it's cause so well that none can argue against.

It's the society and its warped, biased idea about a man and woman's dignity that's to be blamed more than the rapists I believe.

There's a saying that "It's only a woman who can understand another woman."

But my mom's friends and those relatives proved me totally wrong.

Anyways, I am sorry to spam this thread with such heavy talks when it was meant to fuss about the upcoming Holi track.

these sayings are for namesake only. I have always experienced a woman talking bad about other woman behind their back. Always judging, no matter what she does. The more hard a woman tries to do better. The more she is judged.

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RTDeewani

@RTDeewani

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: divyadaya13
these sayings are for namesake only. I have always experienced a woman talking bad about other woman behind their back. Always judging, no matter what she does. The more hard a woman tries to do better. The more she is judged.

True but it's more painful and disappointing to hear such things from people whom we consider our own. I have experienced it from women from my own extended family. Hmm... extended FAMILY, seriously.

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inlieu

@inlieu

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: NatureHappiness

I guess everyone thought about that song. I have even typed it. The song exactly depicts what we feel... 😉

I'm hoping for a very unusual love story between these two, that happens dheere dheere. No need to rush.

As it is, HS respects Babita so much that he never really looks her directly in the eye but for him to break from that and admire her like this says a lot.

He's one of the few people who sees her as a human being, not just a woman, and definitely not with the tag of "divorced woman". 👏

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dellaakdha

@dellaakdha

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: inlieu

I'm hoping for a very unusual love story between these two, that happens dheere dheere. No need to rush.

As it is, HS respects Babita so much that he never really looks her directly in the eye but for him to break from that and admire her like this says a lot.

He's one of the few people who sees her as a human being, not just a woman, and definitely not with the tag of "divorced woman". 👏

Expecting from the team...Till now no one finds the HS admiration.. wondering who will find 1st it's Lala or Mini😉

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divyadaya13

@divyadaya13

Rocker

Posted: 6 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: dellaakdha

Expecting from the team...Till now no one finds the HS admiration.. wondering who will find 1st it's Lala or Mini 😉

i think it will be minnie. And she will be too happy abt it. 😊

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RTDeewani

@RTDeewani

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: divyadaya13
i think it will be minnie. And she will be too happy abt it. 😊

@bold...

I beg to differ. Minnie, no doubt, loves HS to bits. She loves him as a guardian, as a saviour angel to her mother and herself in their difficult times,yes. She sees him as a FATHER FIGURE, not a FATHER.

Ashok's accusations on Babita's character in the court has left a deep scar in her heart. If you'd noticed, she was quite rude to Mickey when he tried to help her with the college admission because Mickey reminded her of Ashok.

She's come to a belief that all men are like Ashok and a guy can never have genuine interest in helping a woman, that men always tend to take advantage of women in the name of their gratitude.

She respects HS because he has no vested interests behind helping her and Babita. He is truly genuine with what he does for them and he's always been in his limits, well except for his temper tantrums and advice sessions.

When she gets to know of his romantic feelings for her mother, she may assume that that was the reason behind his intention to help them. And she might begin to think he's no different from Ashok and in the name of trying to save her Babes from another heartbreak in the name of love, she might try putting distances between them.

The relationship dynamics might change from there on.

Although I know their trust and love for each other would surpass all misconceptions, it perhaps might not be a smooth sailing for the trio- Minnie (in accepting HS as her father), Babita( to get romantically involved with another man and accepting him as her husband) and HS ( to convince and get through the mother-daughter duo with his true feelings).

Minnie must let go of her misconception about men to accept HS as her FATHER IN EVERY SENSE.

And if Minnie is convinced of his true love, Babita would easily fall in too.