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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose1000



Yes Divya very very true. I absolutely love how HS motivates them but let's them fight their own battle. It's something we say about toddlers when they learn to walk...let them fall...then they will learn to rise and walk... 😊

I am glad the CVs clarified the alimony issue because real life Babita s should take it as it is their legal right.

poor babita, was always brought up in a closed shell. Never got a chance to see the real world and struggle outside for money. Was married into a family with only homely responsibilities and duties. Always felt everone loves her a lot as eveyone used to praise her for being a good housewife and bahu (aka free slave)who bears every injustice silently, thinking that it is her duty as a bahu (infact girls are brainwashed since childhood in the name of culture to bear everything).
Now suddenly she found herself in a completely opposite world. Who find fault in whatever she does and victimised. So people could not expect her to change her nature as soon as she fell into problems. So i really like how the creatives are bringing that change in her nature slowly instead of rushing. Yes, it was frustrating to watch babita bearing all injustice. But this is the way she was brought since childhood where they are always told that it is a womans fate and she has to bear it with a smile on her face whatever happens. But now she is seeing the real world with her eyes and becoming stronger day by day.

I hope i made sense😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: divyadaya13

poor babita, was always brought up in a closed shell. Never got a chance to see the real world and struggle outside for money. Was married into a family with only homely responsibilities and duties. Always felt everone loves her a lot as eveyone used to praise her for being a good housewife and bahu (aka free slave)who bears every injustice silently, thinking that it is her duty as a bahu (infact girls are brainwashed since childhood in the name of culture to bear everything).

Now suddenly she found herself in a completely opposite world. Who find fault in whatever she does and victimised. So people could not expect her to change her nature as soon as she fell into problems. So i really like how the creatives are bringing that change in her nature slowly instead of rushing. Yes, it was frustrating to watch babita bearing all injustice. But this is the way she was brought since childhood where they are always told that it is a womans fate and she has to bear it with a smile on her face whatever happens. But now she is seeing the real world with her eyes and becoming stronger day by day.

I hope i made sense😆


Yes u made perfect sense. That's y I mentioned that it is alright that they are showing this in fiction. In real life, a woman in such case should take the alimony and child support too. I hope the real life Babitas in our societies get the help they need.

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