Redemption and Regret ??? why ? - Page 2

Stephen Hawking was married to his best friend and lover. Then they had 3 kids. When he became sick and paralyzed she fell in love with another man. She talked with him about this and she had a divorce with mutual understanding. Later she appointed a lady for his help. He fell in love with that assistant and got married. That assistant divorced him after sometimes. His first wife took care of him till he die. Why relationship, marriage, divorce can't be this mature? Does it has to end in war? Does it need to ask questions as "why did you stop loving me?" Question should be like "Why did you cheat with me? " "Why didn't you give me some time to make up my mind and move on then suddenly dump a pile of hatred towards me? Don't I deserve some time from you?"
Kunal was right to love N. Sometimes our love and priority change. But he is wrong to deceive and cheat Mauli. Mauli is not only his wife, she was his lover and friend too. He should respect that. Next he should give her some time to understand.
The problem was also "DIDA"> No one is mentioning this lady. But she is the culprit who kept Mauli's misery alive. She was okay till Dida made a drama of Kunal leaving. Again and again this old lady manipulated and did emotional torture on Mauli. Or else Mauli could move on and just after that incident Mauli was moving on. Till Dida made a chaos. If Kunal is responsible for 40%...Dida is 60%. It is not her era...when man and woman had no choice but stay together. There was no divorce law and woman were useless without man. It's high time that she accepts her fault. Just using FB doesn't make you modern.

Kunal is sorry for what he did. I agree to that. That is why he is doing this . But his way is wrong...his intentions are not. Mauli and Kunal can still be friends. If instead of torture her and using her like a "cow" he talks with her. Both are adults. Adults talk. What Mauli needs now is "Talk". Kunal saying "I am sorry". Kunal saying "Can we be friends"...Kunal saying " I was wrong that I didn't gave you time or wrong because I didn't tell you what was going in me before sleeping with N. I should have told you that I was sexually or blah blah reason falling in love with N." Yes he needs to explain her why he fall in love with Nandini. I think that will be enough for Mauli to move on.
Mauli Dear...Kunal loves Nandini. Yes ! One night he made a mistake sleeping with her without marriage. But then they started to live together. He loved Nandini then. they had a child and he was there with N even when she was suffering in cancer and turned Bold. At that time ...he never looked at another woman like he looked at Nandini when he was with M.
So Nandini is Kunal's real love. Mauli must know how much he loved Nandini and still does. With that he needs to explain his love for Nandini to Pari too. Declaration of love for Nandini is all Kunal needs.

P.S. There is nothing "lost" or "failed" for Mauli if Kunal loves Nandini for whatever reason was there. Mauli will know that Kunal doesn't love her. She will open her eye and see Ishan. A guy who is waiting only for her all these years. Not everyone can understand the worth of Mauli . It is high time for Mauli to respect herself than act like an immature doormat. "Why Kunal why did you left me...I am a failure as a mother and a wife." It is not your mistake girl. You just loved the wrong guy.

Mauli is the second best option in kunal's life.

Dear jhalak7 , it's okay move out of a relationship if it is turning bad.

Originally posted by: dailysoap100

Dear jhalak7 , it's okay move out of a relationship if it is turning bad.
But falling out of love for no reason, and justify it as it's okay to end a relationship with out any reason is totally wrong. This means no relationship means anything and infidelity is made legal. This is awful

Yes it is awful, painful and heartbreaking...but what can Mauli do? Kunal is not what she thought he is. Now what can she do? She can either punish him or keep crying for rest of her life.
Life is too short for destroying that for a loser like Kunal...who never respected her feelings. So just move on and forget could be the best answer.
Waise dusra rasta bhi khulla hai...kill Kunal if that can be an answer. 😆 But she needs to remember that this will only create more problem. Or falling in love for that rascal ( no matter what Bhagwan he is for N)...is a waste of time and disrespecting herself. Mauli is an awesome girl , she doesn't deserve a rascal like Kunal. I am not ready to see Mauli getting insulted again to this guy.

To be honest, I don't really think Kunal has to regret or redeem himself given the circumstances here.

Mauli is a wonderful person no doubt there. But sometimes you can't just love someone no matter how great of a person she is but can fall in love with a rather flawed person hopelessly. I don't see the reason why Ishaan has to be praised so much (I am referring to several other threads). It's not that he has done something great. He just loves Mauli & is doing everything in his power to please her. There's nothing extraordinary about it that he has to be constantly praised & compared with Kunal.

There is a Thai movie called Yes or No: Come back to me which dealt with the issues of a young couple with a lot more maturity & reality. There is a dialogue of the 3^rd angle that was she wrong to fall in love with someone already committed. And the answer was she wasn't wrong. But it was just bad timing that she came later. And sometimes no matter how good you are, you can't be the chosen one.

The same goes for Mauli & Nandini here. I, well no one really knows what was the thing that attracted Kunal to her but he was very sure about his love. And frankly I think instead of living in a loveless relation & cheating his wife, it was better to divorce Mauli anyway.

Frankly if it was only Kheer or Physical intimacy that DISTRACTED him that would actually make him worse because then there would always be a possibility of cheating Maui even if Nandini wasn't in the picture. But right now at least it's clear that he was truly in love with Nandini & for that I would have let him be only if he hadn't abused Mauli mentally.

If Mauli still can't find peace it's not wrong or impossible & neither has anything to do with self-respect Its just her emotion that she is stuck with a person's memory who wasn't right for her. Kunal has nothing to do with it or anything related to it.

The only thing I personally expected from Kunal is just the clarification that why did he fall out of love. He could then live with Nandini or who so ever.

Originally posted by: nushy1995

To be honest, I don't really think Kunal has to regret or redeem himself given the circumstances here.

Mauli is a wonderful person no doubt there. But sometimes you can't just love someone no matter how great of a person she is but can fall in love with a rather flawed person hopelessly. I don't see the reason why Ishaan has to be praised so much (I am referring to several other threads). It's not that he has done something great. He just loves Mauli & is doing everything in his power to please her. There's nothing extraordinary about it that he has to be constantly praised & compared with Kunal.

There is a Thai movie called Yes or No: Come back to me which dealt with the issues of a young couple with a lot more maturity & reality. There is a dialogue of the 3^rd angle that was she wrong to fall in love with someone already committed. And the answer was she wasn't wrong. But it was just bad timing that she came later. And sometimes no matter how good you are, you can't be the chosen one.

The same goes for Mauli & Nandini here. I, well no one really knows what was the thing that attracted Kunal to her but he was very sure about his love. And frankly I think instead of living in a loveless relation & cheating his wife, it was better to divorce Mauli anyway.

Frankly if it was only Kheer or Physical intimacy that DISTRACTED him that would actually make him worse because then there would always be a possibility of cheating Maui even if Nandini wasn't in the picture. But right now at least it's clear that he was truly in love with Nandini & for that I would have let him be only if he hadn't abused Mauli mentally.

If Mauli still can't find peace it's not wrong or impossible & neither has anything to do with self-respect Its just her emotion that she is stuck with a person's memory who wasn't right for her. Kunal has nothing to do with it or anything related to it.

The only thing I personally expected from Kunal is just the clarification that why did he fall out of love. He could then live with Nandini or who so ever.

hi Nushy this is a good post..I feel the same. Shakti said in one interview that kunals love for Mauli was more a friendship kind if love ..so they were college friends and liked each other and got married..and post leap Kunal said nandu was his saccha pyaar. And preleap he said Mauli was paadav and nandu was manzil..so how much clearer must his dialogues be before its accepted that he loved nandu .. so it was not just a case of a man cheating for sex...he really loved this nandu and he wanted to be with her forever . so the issue of regretting , And redemption really is unlikely as in his eyes he was right in going after his own love and happiness...and he said so post leap. So he never really loved Mauli deeply and that's why he wanted to leave her when he found his great love . So in this context how can there be a maunal reunion?