When it stops being about the adult..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Once we become parents, we actually start thinking about the children more..
Here kunal and ishaan come across as better parents than mauli.. who is still letting her past affect the present.

Some times its necessary to keep the children away from our problems.. be it emotional, financial, physical..

I don't know when mauli will understand this.. how her child is affected with the half truth and where it will lead her if this issue ignored..
And when it will spiral into a bigger problem..


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mauli never wanted mishthi to know about Kunal but mishthi over heard her conversation. Rest once she comes to know about pari's incident she might confront mishthi and tell her truth. Rest mishthi is still small and how would she feel that her father had an affair with her mom's bff. It will hurt her more that Kunal stopped loving her mom for someone else.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: raaya

Mauli never wanted mishthi to know about Kunal but mishthi over heard her conversation. Rest once she comes to know about pari's incident she might confront mishthi and tell her truth. Rest mishthi is still small and how would she feel that her father had an affair with her mom's bff. It will hurt her more that Kunal stopped loving her mom for someone else.


there is a way to handle kids...they do not need to know the entire past...they just want love...assurance n security from their parents...thats it...only kunu can sort out this issue...seriously Maunal needs to do something abt mishti together...both the kids are being affected...its not fault of theirs...they are kids...they do not deserve such mental n physical torture...tdy mishti lock pari in the washroom...tomorrow she might push pari in the pool n mountain...they need to put a stop for this..for the sake of their respective kids

I don't understand why kunu-mishti bond is not being shown...they never interact...at least a small communication will help the kid
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Posted: 6 years ago
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after seeing the bitterness in mishti towards Kunal n pari mauli should have explained her how it was a mu between her n Kunal n how Kunal did not knew of her birth and pari is a daughter of his second wife, she don't have to say about the affair n betrayal details, just some kind of explanation from mauli would have soothed mishti a lot but what all mauli can do is make her child yearn for her attention n make her feel even more unwanted and as insecure as possible by giving in to her juzzbat, which has psychologically pushed mishti to the extent of what she did with pari..she is not a spoilt brat but a poor ignored child carving for the emotional support from her mom but mauli is full of herself she don't consider mishti like a human with emotions but a property she owns.. she is actually setting an example of how ignoring a child's emotions can turn him/her to a criminal...still she is pushing mishti more n more towards her popsie without thinking of how will it stress her when she has to lose her popsie if/when she reunites with Kunal n she will have to share her momma also with pari...
Edited by -JaZ- - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Not only mishthi, pari should also know reason about mishthi's changed behavior. Not the full details like EMA but Kunal is mishthi's father too and he was once married to Mauli.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JaZ-

after seeing the bitterness in mishti towards Kunal n pari mauli should have explained her how it was a mu between her n Kunal n how Kunal did not knew of her birth and pari is a daughter of his second wife, she don't have to say about the affair n betrayal details, just some kind of explanation from mauli would have soothed mishti a lot but what all mauli can do is make her child yearn for her attention n make her feel even more unwanted and as insecure as possible by giving in to her juzzbat, which has psychologically pushed mishti to the extent of what she did with pari..she is not a spoilt brat but a poor ignored child carving for the emotional support from her mom but mauli is full of herself she don't consider mishti like a human with emotions but a property she owns.. she is actually setting an example of how ignoring a child's emotions can turn him/her to a criminal...still she is pushing mishti more n more towards her popsie without thinking of how will it stress her when she has to lose her popsie if/when she reunites with Kunal n she will have to share her momma also with pari...

Some one needs to wake up mauli from her dreaded behaviour.. before misthi starts self destruction... i really feel sorry for that child.. where nobody is trying to understand her..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: raaya

Not only mishthi, pari should also know reason about mishthi's changed behavior. Not the full details like EMA but Kunal is mishthi's father too and he was once married to Mauli.

For now kunal is doing a good job at changing topics and keeping pari happy.. that is what is strange kunal is the sensible parent here.
No matter what you say.. mauli you cannot give excuse of your past for being a bad parent.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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its high time they sort out issues b/w the kids before jumping to triangle...quadrangle.. pentagon...hexagon...jealousy...rekindle romantic hormones
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Posted: 6 years ago
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People do not like saas bahu drama but after watching today's episode I find certain serious questions put across the characters.
Everything was bubbly college type camp romance, hugging, dreaming, flirting this looks good for new couple not between ex husband and ex wife with a line of betrayal.
Today it was drama quotient heavy. But certain questions were asked to wake up the gang.
1. Woh kunal ka ghar hein Mauli ka nehi, - it is a fact if it was Mauli s maika would kunal amd pari had free entry. I guess no.
2. Radhika - kunal ko toh ana tha. Yes right but he is his own boss break marriage bhago, after 6 years come back and flow with his own ways.That is Kunal baheti hui brhmaputra.
3. Ishan s mom - please break Ishan s bubble. You love Mauli but does Mauli love you. Jan bujh kar khadde mein kiyun gir rahi ho. What a dialogue divorce toh kagaj hein lekin shadi ek baar hoti hein toh man ke kone mein raheta hein.
4. Mauli - Ishan ki jaan ho tum mishit uski liye sab kuch hein. But papa toh kunal hi hein. (Bhare ke tattu toh bhare ke hi hein). Ishan tum pe jaan chirak ti hein lekin tum.
Choti ho lekin maa toh hon so you should understand my concern. Hope Mauli and Ishan think through and break the engagement. This marriage is just a compromise.
5. Mehek and Kunal true friends - she is a chef may be Nandu aur uski jami thi. And kunal became a common friend. She knows a lot about their life and quite close she says your this house is same as London. Bachcho ka keya hein pari was mad about soup by M aunty now she is happy with chocolate shake by Mahek.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mumoos

Once we become parents, we actually start thinking about the children more..

Here kunal and ishaan come across as better parents than mauli.. who is still letting her past affect the present.

Some times its necessary to keep the children away from our problems.. be it emotional, financial, physical..

I don't know when mauli will understand this.. how her child is affected with the half truth and where it will lead her if this issue ignored..
And when it will spiral into a bigger problem..



I am a parent, so I understand what you say.. once a parent always a parent! We are hardwired that way, everything and anything takes a backseat as far as the kids are concerned. But it's a moot point to expect something on those lines from this show. The makers can show Mishti doing horrendous things, but can't spare an episode or two to make her understand why she is wrong and what could such behavior lead to. They are more busy showing other stuff right now, rediscovering long lost love and all that, which requires more attention 😆

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