Good evening girls !!!
Thanks Annie for your continued updates❤️ Hope all of you girls are doing well. Still not watching, only following updates and write ups. Have been busy, but it is not the reason. As I have always maintained, I would have been able to make the time to watch had there been even an iota of justice.
I don't know why I am even reading updates, hoping against hope for some justice in this show which seems to have the way of the dodo bird 😡. Here are my two cents , some generic observations. Please don't hold me on the specifics.
1. For Abhi, his family is so important to him. He lost his mother figure, daadi, he goes berserk, doesn't even check his facts and throws out the only other true loving creature from his life. He curses her to be dead, he tells her in the cruelest and most inhumane ways that she has no place in his life, his house and his heart. Doesn't care for her safety, her existence for 7 long years. Does't even consider if he could be wrong in his assumption that she is responsible for her death. Gives her glowing praises of being the bad omen, inauspicious person who had ruined his life. BECAUSE HE LOST HIS MOTHER.
A 40 yr old adult guy feels totally lost without his mother. But, the same 40 yr old sensitive artist, feels that he can put his 7 year old child through the same pain intentionally by separating that child from her mother. 👏 Justice???
2. I had a sinking feeling as I read that he said in the last couple of days that had he known about the existence of his child, he would have taken the child and the wife back😡😭. But now, he doesn't want the wife, only wants the child. I teared up as I read this. Unfortunately, this is the fate of millions of women in my country, the guy can pick and choose between wanting the child alone or with the mother as a package. BTW, did Pragya agree to come to him? If not, what is the purpose of this chauvinistic line? Can the writers please explain? 😡 I have no words for this injustice.
3. I can understand what it might feel for a parent not knowing about a child. I very well can empathize with him that it surely must have felt like a kick in his gut, knowing about the child's existence. I am even ready to overlook whose fault it is at the moment. But my empathy stops right there. What should he be considering at the moment? I am sorry, not everything is about his pain,his hurt, his loss etc. At the very moment, the only interest he should be considering is that of the child. But is he? He is planning to turn that child's whole world upside down, to satisfy his need to be close to the child, to inflict pain on Pragya and to satisfy his ego, in that order😭I don't know if he will do everything he is threatening to, but, if he does, that child will be one confused soul. How is he going to answer her questions as to why Pragya and her live away from him? What made him throw out Pragya? Why did he not look for the child's existence? Please don't tell us that he didn't know of the child. He is not a 7 year old to be oblivious of the possibility of a pregnancy🤢. Why would he not for a moment think " WHY WOULD PRAGYA HIDE THIS FACT". Obviously, it is not for revenge, she doesn't want to deprive the child or him of their rights towards each other. Or does he think she indeed is vengeful ? 🤢Is she worried about something else? Her safety? His judgement? His lability? His volatility? NO INTROSPECTION whatsoever😡
4. How did Pragya not spit fire in his face? 😡Why does she have to listen to all his BS, his claim of moral high ground? Why can't she say the same" when you snatched my position as your wife, cursed me to die, never looked back about my very existence, how and why does the conveyance of news my sole responsibility"? How is that delivering a " good news" so to speak? What if, you would have said" who are you? What child "? ( I know he wouldn't have said that, but still the point from her side would be valid. If he thought she could enable killing of daadi intentionally, he could also have said the above)
5. One thing I can't reconcile with Pragya is this. She flirted with him. She forgot that her and the child are a unit. How can Abhi's love be good for her and detrimental for Kiara?😡If he is bad for Kiara's existence, then by extension, he is bad for her too😭 Isn't that true< I am confused? She acted all lovey dovey with him, while hiding the existence of the child, which is when I lost all connect to her. She simply can't have it both ways, it is one of the other.
6. As for King being Kiara's father. Of course, he is the father of that child, the one who cared the most about that child, the only father she knew since her birth, thanks to the insolence and egoistic behavior of her biological father😡. He is the person who had sheltered her, secured her safety, willed for her emotional security, fed her, ceded to every whim of hers, gave her the love, stability and security of a father, which she would never have gotten from her own father. Unless of course he mans up and becomes a human being first. The reason I say this is, Abhi continues to be recklessly oblivious of the plight of whom he claims as " his family".
7. BTW, is Robin back? Are they ever going to bring back John's murder? The pain is all about Abhi's. Did they forget that the witch just commissioned killing of a father of a 6 month old child? Will there be any justice for John and his child ?
Sorry guys, not very coherent. Just needed to get this off my chest.