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Sudha

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Posted: 7 years ago

Apologizing again in advance if anyone gets hurt by d post which btw many will

So Mods closed d topic which I earlier made to reconsider their decision to close the ongoing threads where some of the forum members including me allegedly broke the d rules by speculating about personal life of actors and talking about their past.

Now I have a few questions about the note on on my topic (Sorry mods I just can't pm my queries as I believe in transparency in thoughts & actions unlike some people who r creating fake IDs simply to report d posts or opinions that doesn't suit them. So everything will be here in d open forum no hiding behind PM's for me. U can block me for this for lifetime, I just don't care. Because unlike those delusional people reporting posts or opinions, I do have better things to do & other platforms to express my opinion.

So as u have mentioned that rules r separate for bollywood & TV forums as members r not comfortable discussing issues here on TV shows. SANSKARI much 👏 as what I have seen most members ( almost 3/4) are members of bollywood forum as well. I would further elaborate your statement that rules differ for different TV shows as well & yes for different TV actors too as some of d TV stars genuinely have a bunch of fanatics posing as their fans & behaving as their guardian on every platform. Our leads fall in that unfortunate category.

As for discussion regarding their private lives are concerned, we r not spying nor asking them on gun point to give details of their private lives. We r just discussing whatever is available on public platforms mostly provided by themselves or their near & dear ones. They all r mature professional & definitely know the pros & cons of sharing their moment s but once they have put that in am sorry to say the moment no longer is private. It's open for speculation, comments & yes exaggeration too. So please stop with these holier than thou attitudes. Whole entertainment section of news portals is standing on speculation.

Jenshad are not d first couple to be shipped & won't be d last. Just FYI, I am a big fan of both as artists first & foremost. There's no two ways about it. Whatever bond they share is between them & certainly none of my business. But whatever moments they have shared from their private lives can make any sane person/fan happy as to how these two powerhouse performers gel so well offscreen too. The amount of respect, admiration & care that they have for each other is seriously goals in today's cut throat competitive world⭐️. I don't see what's even d harm in shipping seriously? Why can't their solo fans want to see them happy? It's not like shippers r putting a gun on these two's head & dragging them to aisle & getting them married 😡🤢 What we want is their happiness together or with whomsoever they choose.

P.S. IF seriously needs to review it's moderation policy b'coz if on d basis of reporting by few delusional fans u r going to close the posts u r certainly pushing mature & responsible memberss away. As no one in their sane mind would like to come here & voice out their opinions for d fear of backlash & would like to be away from d humiliation of getting their posts closed down all d time. U r making these fanatics win by unfair means.

One more point as now lines between bollywood & TV r getting blurred as most TV stars r being seen in movies too & movie stars in webseries so we can discuss rather dissect TV stars life on bollywood forum...just asking..😲

Now pls close d topic ...

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Posted: 7 years ago

Ok I am not fan of Jenshad shipping and in fact don't even find much chemistry b/w them. But I always found this rule of not discussing tv actors personal life unfair as they are public figures and actors. As long as no one is bashing, fans should've the right.

So an easy solution is to make JenShad thread in BW forum as both JW and HC has done Hindi movies. So their personal lives should be able to be discussed there since it's allowed to discuss bw actors' personal lives. And because they have done movies, so why not just make a thread there?

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JCluvs srk

@JCluvs srk

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Posted: 7 years ago

for folks who want to discuss jenshad, i am trying to make a twitter chat group so they have a platform to talk freely.

lets respect IF rules, but send me your twitter name and i will add you to the twitter chat. we have to follow each other in order to do this. also let others know who want to be added too.

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GraveMistake

@GraveMistake

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Posted: 7 years ago

Good for you, @diatom, but this kind of thing is old hat at IF. After so many years, the justifications mods give are still the same (I remember this SAME answer regarding why such or so or BW forum could act one way and xyz forum must toe a different line). For grown-ups it's very hard to be monitored like schoolkids. I guess the only tiny excuse may be that there really may be schoolkids around, but I doubt they're reading anything they don't know.

Stand with you in whatever you say. I think it's a shame that sad people with bad intentions get away with this. And mod, dear, really? "Huge" no of complaints? Who are these ficticious complainants? Mostly newbies? Though not even required, since they can hide behind the mod and the mod can do anything.

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Sudha

@tellyfan14

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: JCluvs srk
for folks who want to discuss jenshad, i am trying to make a twitter chat group so they have a platform to talk freely.

lets respect IF rules, but send me your twitter name and i will add you to the twitter chat. we have to follow each other in order to do this. also let others know who want to be added too.

Thank you for the suggestion dear ⭐️⭐️ 😊 really appreciate the concern 😊😊

But it's not about discussing Jenshad but hypocrisy of IF with regards to differential treatment.

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Sudha

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: GraveMistake
Good for you, @diatom, but this kind of thing is old hat at IF. After so many years, the justifications mods give are still the same (I remember this SAME answer regarding why such or so or BW forum could act one way and xyz forum must toe a different line). For grown-ups it's very hard to be monitored like schoolkids. I guess the only tiny excuse may be that there really may be schoolkids around, but I doubt they're reading anything they don't know.
Stand with you in whatever you say. I think it's a shame that sad people with bad intentions get away with this. And mod, dear, really? "Huge" no of complaints? Who are these ficticious complainants? Mostly newbies? Though not even required, since they can hide behind the mod and the mod can do anything.

Appreciate your support⭐️⭐️

But even school kids reasoning is utter rubbish TBH. Those very kids can be on bollywood forum as well so 🤢

It's high time that IF comes down from its high horse 😲

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Sudha

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: _Darling_
Ok I am not fan of Jenshad shipping and in fact don't even find much chemistry b/w them. But I always found this rule of not discussing tv actors personal life unfair as they are public figures and actors. As long as no one is bashing, fans should've the right.

So an easy solution is to make JenShad thread in BW forum as both JW and HC has done Hindi movies. So their personal lives should be able to be discussed there since it's allowed to discuss bw actors' personal lives. And because they have done movies, so why not just make a thread there?

Thanks for the support & suggestion⭐️⭐️

But it's really not about discussing Jenshad but d hypocrisy of IF 😡

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fanfare.1

@fanfare.1

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Posted: 7 years ago

Kudoos girl for this well put post👏

Completely agree with all your points.

I don't know why IF moderation has become so regressive. I have been a part of KDMHMD forum yrs back & saw d crazy & open shipping of Harshiti. Their was no restrictions, the mods here were also part of that forum. So I find it ridiculous that such new rules are being implemented for Jenshad shippers

There must have been a few unwarranted comments on the previous thread but that doesn't mean you shut down the entire thread.

Warnings should have been given to the members whose comments caused trouble.

And to all the Spineless delutional folks who only knows to report hiding behind fake ids, grow some guts. If you think you cheap tactics will stop Jenshad shipping u r sadly mistaken😆 Go visit twitter & insta where shipping is done by directly tagging the actors their friends & family. Go do your moral policing there too.

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Gagori Chatterjee

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Posted: 7 years ago

I guess u r not new to IF ..right ?

Then for sure u myst hv read the IF rules & guidelines decided by the admin here India-Forums.com- Participation Guidelines & Rules

If not ,then pls read it especially the paragraph which clearly states that moderation issues should b discussed via pm & not in open ..for your convenience let me quote that paragraph for u below thats been written in the above link by site admin Vijay ..

"Discussing the Dev Team: Lately there are lots of topics being created on the forum against one member of the DT or the entire DT. We realize that it's because you are not sure how things are handled or upset at the way things are handle. You may disagree with the way the issue was taken care and that's fair. However we want you to not create such topics that question or criticize the DT in the forum. The feeling arises that we want to keep things under cover. However that is not the case. We do want to hear your complaint but we also want to be fair to the people in question. All sides need to be heard objectively and bringing this in the forum just adds more fuel to the fire. By the time the whole story is heard in the forum the atmosphere becomes ugly and negative and we want to avoid that. If you have a complaint PM the DT person and if you are not satisfied follow the hierarchy and PM the next in command. When you are contacting us with your concern be civil and explain your point in detail so we completely understand your standpoint. "

I Just directly Quoted What The Site Admin Said here India-Forums.com- Participation Guidelines & Rules.

So Pm For Queries ..U R Not Allowed To Discuss Moderation Matters In Open ..Its Against IF Rules Decided By Site Admin ..

Any Further Topics Opened about Same Thing Will B Directly Trashed Without Further Explaination

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